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Reasons to block somebody!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What is your reason to block somebody
a. you just dont like them
b. you disagreed with them in a forum
c. they offended you
d. inapproapiate behaviour
e. other
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I only block rude/offence message
in my opinion disagreeing with somebody in a forum childish
in my opinion blocking somebody you dont know or even send a private message again childish |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only block rude/offence message
in my opinion disagreeing with somebody in a forum childish
in my opinion blocking somebody you dont know or even send a private message again childish"
Why is it childish?
If someone spouts crap on the forums why shouldn't I block them?
If I see a profile that is everything I dislike or a status I find objectionable why shouldn't I block them?
If someone is clearly not to our taste but local and keeps looking at us why shouldn't I block them?
Why are any of those reasons childish? They just save everybody time. |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"I only tend to block the ones that want to abuse me
i will openly admit to wanting to abuse you 
Yep and me but not in cutes way  "
Dave you have been trying to sneak under my flag for months now 
Just face it man it ain't gonna happen. Besides I'm not fluffy enough. Baa |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only tend to block the ones that want to abuse me
i will openly admit to wanting to abuse you
Yep and me but not in cutes way
Dave you have been trying to sneak under my flag for months now
Just face it man it ain't gonna happen. Besides I'm not fluffy enough.
Baa"
Haha if I was on that bus which I am
Not I could not bring myself to come close to that st georges cross!  |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"I wish we got messages from people to annoy me lol this blocking thing sounds fun hahaaa might just randomly block people just for a giggle. lol"
Don't block me. I like looking at your bum  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I've just checked to see if any of you have blocked me....phew all is good
On a serious note, I ony bother to block if I have received an abusive message, otherwise, I'm thick skinned enough to just ingore anyone who has just simply annoyed me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sometimes block people who have said they wont meet but only so they dont appear on a search list.
I dont block people i disagree with on the forum, whats the point, you can still see their posts and im not afraid of disagreeing with anyone.... I will however block people who are cowardly enough to mail abuse to me outside the forum..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I only block rude/offence message
in my opinion disagreeing with somebody in a forum childish
in my opinion blocking somebody you dont know or even send a private message again childish
Why is it childish?
If someone spouts crap on the forums why shouldn't I block them?
If I see a profile that is everything I dislike or a status I find objectionable why shouldn't I block them?
If someone is clearly not to our taste but local and keeps looking at us why shouldn't I block them?
Why are any of those reasons childish? They just save everybody time."
As I stated its only my opnion |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've just checked to see if any of you have blocked me....phew all is good
On a serious note, I ony bother to block if I have received an abusive message, otherwise, I'm thick skinned enough to just ingore anyone who has just simply annoyed me "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I sometimes block people who have said they wont meet but only so they dont appear on a search list.
I dont block people i disagree with on the forum, whats the point, you can still see their posts and im not afraid of disagreeing with anyone.... I will however block people who are cowardly enough to mail abuse to me outside the forum....."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I only block rude/offence message
in my opinion disagreeing with somebody in a forum childish
in my opinion blocking somebody you dont know or even send a private message again childish
Why is it childish?
If someone spouts crap on the forums why shouldn't I block them?
If I see a profile that is everything I dislike or a status I find objectionable why shouldn't I block them?
If someone is clearly not to our taste but local and keeps looking at us why shouldn't I block them?
Why are any of those reasons childish? They just save everybody time.
As I stated its only my opnion "
you have your personal reasons and find it works for you my opnion should not matter to you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only tend to block people if they won't take no for an answer and start getting stroppy about it. Thankfully I have only needed to a few times.
I wouldn't block someone for something written on the forums unless it was personally aimed at me or was particularly offensive as I think everyone is entitled to an opinion..that's what the forums are for .
Everyone is entitled to use the block button as they please
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we block people who message us and although we send a polite reply saying "no thank you" message again a couple of weeks later and people who get abusive when we say "no thanks". We also block people who chat to us for ages, arrange to meet then stop contact a couple of days beforehand although so far that's only happened twice.
Wouldn't block someone because we disagreed with them or they us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't give a toss if anyone blocks me, however, I do not like those who blocks me after sniping me with unpleasant PMs, so that I cannot respond in kind, as I have no time for spineless/gutless people!
I always return block, so that he/she cannot lift his/her block and snipe at me at will.
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
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I block for all different reasons.
If someone nags/pesters me through messages or in chat, I block.
If someone blocks me, I act like a child and take my ball home and block them back.
If someone offends me, and I mean REALLY offends me on forums, I'll block.
If I'm in a mood, I'll probably block if someone breathed near my inbox.
I have loads of other reasons too why I would block, but the above were the only ones I could come up with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Out of interest, OP, how would you handle this:
I get a lot of messages, many from people who have not read my profile and/or do not fit my preferences. It's already more than I can cope with. Where possible, as long as the sender hasn't been rude, I reply with a thanks but no thanks message. Many of those people message me again a few weeks later, asusually as though they've never messaged me before (some have probably forgotten they have), adding to an already difficult volume of mail, when they've already been told no thanks.
How would you propose I manage that? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I block for all different reasons.
If someone nags/pesters me through messages or in chat, I block.
If someone blocks me, I act like a child and take my ball home and block them back.
If someone offends me, and I mean REALLY offends me on forums, I'll block.
If I'm in a mood, I'll probably block if someone breathed near my inbox.
I have loads of other reasons too why I would block, but the above were the only ones I could come up with. "
Time of the month blocks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't block anymore since the 'private notes' option became available  "
I keep forgetting about the private notes!!
Might have to start using them, if I remember |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't block anymore since the 'private notes' option became available "
If someone contacts me and I have sent a polite thanks but no thanks message I make a note incase they contact me again. My memory is awful at times  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From time to time, I would find myself wanting to block someone for whatever reason(s), to find I have already blocked him/her/them a while back.
It is rather reassuring to know my instincts were correct. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From time to time, I would find myself wanting to block someone for whatever reason(s), to find I have already blocked him/her/them a while back.
It is rather reassuring to know my instincts were correct. "
I feel kinda privilege to have not been blocked yet heehee. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've blocked several people who I've had some serious disagreements with in here on the basis that I wouldn't like them face to face so see no point in them seeing our profile, or I theirs.
I've blocked eejits who send one liners.
I've blocked people who have blocked me.
I've even blocked myself once! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't block that many people. I will block guys that message me on a daily or even hourly basis as that kind of persistence irritates me and I just can't be bothered with it.
I don't block many people on the forum because their opinions are interesting and I see disagreement as good healthy debate.
However sometimes I come across people who give off negative vibes to me and I block them to prevent them looking at my pictures and profile and using that to point score in the forum |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"What is your reason to block somebody
a. you just dont like them
b. you disagreed with them in a forum
c. they offended you
d. inapproapiate behaviour
e. other
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all of the above....plus if i feel like  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it appropriate to block....
Assholes and tits,
Arrogant shits.
The brainless and feckless,
People who are reckless.
The ugly and mingers,
And people who eat zingers.
People who crap words,
And come across like turds.
Women who like silly hats.
And spout off like prats.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it appropriate to block....
Assholes and tits,
Arrogant shits.
The brainless and feckless,
People who are reckless.
The ugly and mingers,
And people who eat zingers.
People who crap words,
And come across like turds.
Women who like silly hats.
And spout off like prats.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it appropriate to block....
Assholes and tits,
Arrogant shits.
The brainless and feckless,
People who are reckless.
The ugly and mingers,
And people who eat zingers.
People who crap words,
And come across like turds.
Women who like silly hats.
And spout off like prats.
is there anyone left,
now u've got that off your chest? "
Yep the lesbians I couldn't find anything to rhyme with lesbians
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it appropriate to block....
Assholes and tits,
Arrogant shits.
The brainless and feckless,
People who are reckless.
The ugly and mingers,
And people who eat zingers.
People who crap words,
And come across like turds.
Women who like silly hats.
And spout off like prats.
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is there anyone left
now thats off yr chest? lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would only really block a person if I was getting abusive/threatening messages or someone who constantly messages me like every minute (ie I have 50+ msgs before I get a chance to reply) not that anyone would want to constantly message me, lol.
I find it childish to just block a person because they simply asked how the day was going and that they are well. I've been blocked by a few people for just asking how there day was going :/. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the past, I would respond to messages asking how I was, even though the person's profile/pics/whatever did not appeal to me, purely out of politeness.
It usually led to more messages being sent as the other person would interpret my response was an indication that I was interested in meeting him.
Hence I would block after responding to an unsolicited message from someone I have no intention of knowing or meeting, to save time and efforts for both parties, as it sends out the clearest signal that I am not interested.
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By *umsuckMan
over a year ago
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Empty profiles(or I'll fill in later). Mine may not be the best but at least I made an effort. People who have said they are not interested in me. Not because I'm sulking, but because I once approached someone who I'd previously approached without realising and they were understandably not happy. And text speakers. Some peoples spelling may not be perfect(mine maybe?),but make an effort! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Out of interest, OP, how would you handle this:
I get a lot of messages, many from people who have not read my profile and/or do not fit my preferences. It's already more than I can cope with. Where possible, as long as the sender hasn't been rude, I reply with a thanks but no thanks message. Many of those people message me again a few weeks later, asusually as though they've never messaged me before (some have probably forgotten they have), adding to an already difficult volume of mail, when they've already been told no thanks.
How would you propose I manage that?"
I would not have a problem being blocked after being told thanks but no thanks.....but then, as i say, i block those who do so as that way i dont remail them..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I come across a nice profile read all the way down to the makers name plate and it states along the lines of no blacks,dogs etc .
I block so not to waste my time again
Simple really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am so Happy to say i have not one on my block list ........ I have had no need too block i find other ways to deal with the things . Blocking takes time and i have to much to do on here chating and reading my mail . |
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Currently I have no one on my block list as this doubles as my 'to kill list' and I have killed everyone I don't like.
Reasons you will get in there are:
Bad hats
Strange eyebrows
Nervous tick
Over familiarity
Stand offishness
Bad punctuation
Unsightly knees |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Currently I have no one on my block list as this doubles as my 'to kill list' and I have killed everyone I don't like.
Reasons you will get in there are:
Bad hats
Strange eyebrows
Nervous tick
Over familiarity
Stand offishness
Bad punctuation
Unsightly knees"
love the knees bit ..and even if you cant see them in there pic. in your head you just know don't you , lol Block .. |
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"Currently I have no one on my block list as this doubles as my 'to kill list' and I have killed everyone I don't like.
Reasons you will get in there are:
Bad hats
Strange eyebrows
Nervous tick
Over familiarity
Stand offishness
Bad punctuation
Unsightly knees love the knees bit ..and even if you cant see them in there pic. in your head you just know don't you , lol Block .. "
We are both on the same wavelength Jo as always |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Out of interest, OP, how would you handle this:
I get a lot of messages, many from people who have not read my profile and/or do not fit my preferences. It's already more than I can cope with. Where possible, as long as the sender hasn't been rude, I reply with a thanks but no thanks message. Many of those people message me again a few weeks later, asusually as though they've never messaged me before (some have probably forgotten they have), adding to an already difficult volume of mail, when they've already been told no thanks.
How would you propose I manage that?"
What I do is I reply no thank you and good luck then when i get messages again i ignire the message or at time I deleted all the messages in one go depending on my mood. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Entertainingly, of the people I know have blocked me, all but one are so up themselves that they aren't people I'd want to know anyway."
I have been blocked from people profile not even knowing who they are I think they must have something to hide or find me a threat lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've been blocked by a few people for just asking how there day was going :/.
How do you know that was their reason for blocking you?"
You would never know I think only cowards block a person and if somebody disagreed with me or feel I said sometime about them that upset them pm after all we are grown up well most off us |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have been blocked from people profile not even knowing who they are I think they must have something to hide or find me a threat lol
or maybe they choose to keep their profile private?
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If that is the case they should block every single person on fab lol |
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I have been blocked from people profile not even knowing who they are I think they must have something to hide or find me a threat lol
or maybe they choose to keep their profile private?
If that is the case they should block every single person on fab lol"
should have added they choose to keep their profile private from some.. |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"Entertainingly, of the people I know have blocked me, all but one are so up themselves that they aren't people I'd want to know anyway.
I have been blocked from people profile not even knowing who they are I think they must have something to hide or find me a threat lol "
Same here. Good luck to them. I'm sure i am not missing out on anything |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Entertainingly, of the people I know have blocked me, all but one are so up themselves that they aren't people I'd want to know anyway.
I have been blocked from people profile not even knowing who they are I think they must have something to hide or find me a threat lol
Same here. Good luck to them. I'm sure i am not missing out on anything"
We should have a block party |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive also been blocked by people ive never spoke to or met  "
Sorry to tell you .... But alot here do that block everyone, I can only think bored .. as dont get mail .. as blocked most who do mail .. |
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"Ive also been blocked by people ive never spoke to or met "
it may have been done in error. I am aware I have accidentally blocked people in the past and I think I do this in chat rooms whilst trying to turn another members cam on whilst the room moves and end up hitting block button of another member. Always undo it as soon as I realise but that may be how uve come to be blocked by someone uve neva even spoken to .. just a thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a. you just dont like them
b. I have messaged them or them me and the answer has been a 'no'. It saves hassling them again with another message, or embarrassing them with another 'no thank you'
c. they offended me
d. they have not read my profile properly
e. dumb arse names like 18"barebackcumdonkey, just a personal dislike
f. initial emails of 'can i bash your Mrs gash' or something of that ilk. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I never quite understand why people say something negative about someone who blocks them...
does that maybe not reaffirm why the block took place.
I have been both blocked by & blocked nice people. |
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"I find it appropriate to block....
Assholes and tits,
Arrogant shits.
The brainless and feckless,
People who are reckless.
The ugly and mingers,
And people who eat zingers.
People who crap words,
And come across like turds.
Women who like silly hats.
And spout off like prats.
is there anyone left,
now u've got that off your chest?
Yep the lesbians I couldn't find anything to rhyme with lesbians
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what about the Thespians? lol.I usually can't be bothered with blocking, I tend to remember those I have declined and don't bother reading their messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been on the site a few months and I've only found the need to block one person and that was only because they couldn't seem to accept the fact that I'm a straight male and didn't want my c**k sucked lol. Other than that I've found people on here show me the same level of respect that I give them so no real reason to block. |
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"What is your reason to block somebody
a. you just don't like them
b. you disagreed with them in a forum
c. they offended you
d. innapropriate behaviour
e. other
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oh just had to block for c.d.e ;-( won't say what message was made me block him! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the ones who are nothing like what you are looking for and what you have described long and detailed on your profile and still message you demanding a meet today at your house even though you can NOT accommodate and don't want to meet today AND NOT with somebody who is not your type anyway! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only block rude/offence message
in my opinion disagreeing with somebody in a forum childish
in my opinion blocking somebody you dont know or even send a private message again childish
Why is it childish?
If someone spouts crap on the forums why shouldn't I block them?
If I see a profile that is everything I dislike or a status I find objectionable why shouldn't I block them?
If someone is clearly not to our taste but local and keeps looking at us why shouldn't I block them?
Why are any of those reasons childish? They just save everybody time."
I agree. I particuarly hate it if I see that someone has 'looked at me' a few times but not bothered to contact me. If I see an offensive comment in the forums, I will block. |
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