 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It's essential! If they don't have humour they may as well be dead to me.
Dead to you?? Harsh but fair  "
It's true I really don't see people who do not have humour as people I just see them as dead people who are lost and here before their time |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"It's essential! If they don't have humour they may as well be dead to me.
Dead to you?? Harsh but fair
It's true I really don't see people who do not have humour as people I just see them as dead people who are lost and here before their time "
Best they buy some joke books  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Probably the first thing I connect with. If it's not there then chat won't even get rolling, let alone a meet."
Nothing better than making someone laugh… with you though not at you (please see above about being naked) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"A sense of humour is essential.
I wouldn’t want to meet someone who’s as dull as dish water. 
Even if they ticked every other box ??"
Yes, even if they ticked every box for me.
Life’s to short to be serious 24/7. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Essential....
I mean.. what's life without humour. But I suppose some people are just looking for a shag.....
No find someone who will make you laugh. "
For me laughing together before deed helps the attraction and sexual tension |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *TK421-Man
over a year ago
Cheltenham |
"Essential....
I mean.. what's life without humour. But I suppose some people are just looking for a shag.....
No find someone who will make you laugh.
For me laughing together before deed helps the attraction and sexual tension "
It would bode well for me that laughing helped with attraction.... I would feel more confident about being naked with them then |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Yes,humour is so important,and banter,the ability to laugh at myself,means I'm not at all arrogant and self loving .and it shows warmth and your comfortable with me |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Essential but... everyone's sense of humour is different. The most important thing is I can make them laugh because I need constant validation and flattery."
That's the point really; it's another dimension of compatibility. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
A sense of humour is vital to us, it even says that on our profile. We are a couple who heartedly laugh every day and appreciate laughter, so we need a sense of humour in those that we meet. Can't be doing with dull. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Definitely an essential for me….I’m hugely attracted to a guy who can make me laugh one way whilst running their hands up my leg the other.
It’s having a mix of all of the boxes being filled.
But it’s not something that has to always be there, just being funny wouldn’t work as it’s important to have more depth to each convo
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
It's essential for me to be able to laugh at yourself and each other. I've been talking to someone since yesterday that I met through somewhere else and she's ticking every box and we're meeting on Tuesday |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"It's essential for me to be able to laugh at yourself and each other. I've been talking to someone since yesterday that I met through somewhere else and she's ticking every box and we're meeting on Tuesday "
That’s quick work |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I usually overdo it with humour and misplaced sarcasm straight out of the gate and so rarely get to the point where we are going to meet as they don't get much of what I find funny...
...but at least I found it all funny, as I'm sitting horny and alone  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I usually overdo it with humour and misplaced sarcasm straight out of the gate and so rarely get to the point where we are going to meet as they don't get much of what I find funny...
...but at least I found it all funny, as I'm sitting horny and alone "
It’s all about context on messages… I’m dry and sarcastic… can come across as a cock womble  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
"It's essential for me to be able to laugh at yourself and each other. I've been talking to someone since yesterday that I met through somewhere else and she's ticking every box and we're meeting on Tuesday "
Yay! This makes me happy |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Essential. Otherwise I'd look like an idiot laughing to myself.
Does laughing at your own jokes class you as an idiot because I do that a lot
Are you asking if you are an idiot ?? "
I laugh at my own messages I send out or jokes all the time….I might be I guess |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"It's essential for me to be able to laugh at yourself and each other. I've been talking to someone since yesterday that I met through somewhere else and she's ticking every box and we're meeting on Tuesday "
Awww hope it all goes well for you |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I usually overdo it with humour and misplaced sarcasm straight out of the gate and so rarely get to the point where we are going to meet as they don't get much of what I find funny...
...but at least I found it all funny, as I'm sitting horny and alone
It’s all about context on messages… I’m dry and sarcastic… can come across as a cock womble "
Well that makes me feel better: I thought it was just me. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"It's essential for me to be able to laugh at yourself and each other. I've been talking to someone since yesterday that I met through somewhere else and she's ticking every box and we're meeting on Tuesday
That’s quick work "
I don't hang about |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"It's essential for me to be able to laugh at yourself and each other. I've been talking to someone since yesterday that I met through somewhere else and she's ticking every box and we're meeting on Tuesday
Yay! This makes me happy "
Nervous and excited, she's lush |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"It's essential for me to be able to laugh at yourself and each other. I've been talking to someone since yesterday that I met through somewhere else and she's ticking every box and we're meeting on Tuesday
Awww hope it all goes well for you "
Thank you |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Depends on what it is
essential For like a fb or fwb thing
If it’s just a one night stand then not that important as long as going in we know it’s just mindless sex nothing more nothing less |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago
Solihull and Brentwood |
"Essential but... everyone's sense of humour is different. The most important thing is I can make them laugh because I need constant validation and flattery."
Vell hello. I'm Vlad ze Impaler and you haf ze nice boobies. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I usually overdo it with humour and misplaced sarcasm straight out of the gate and so rarely get to the point where we are going to meet as they don't get much of what I find funny...
...but at least I found it all funny, as I'm sitting horny and alone "
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So…. When you are building up to a meet and physically they tick every box for you but the ability to laugh together isn’t there…. Do you walk or is it essential ..
Essential for me "
Humour is paramount for me... It's all to do with the connection...I was seeing a guy from here but OMG he was the driest person I ever ever met...He Never laughed & was always so serious  a complete turn off tbh...& Yup I walked...fk that ha |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I find on a first date you can get some laughs but you tend to behave a little more just in ads you let out your full humour and scare them off! You’ve got to feed in the dark humour little by little |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"It's important for me, if they take life seriously we just won't get on. I love someone who can take banter aswell as give it back to me."
Oh - I'd give to you alright.........
Arrrh, you didn't mean it that way.... Errrm. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
