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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What advice would you give to a newbie on here based on you're own Fabalicious experiences.
I'll get the ball rolling.
If someone messages to say "I'm comming to your area in the next few weeks" be aware that they probably won't be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be prepared to be googleing things somethings can be a shock at first
Don’t worry though you will grow numb to it and nothing sexual will faze or shock you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Be prepared to be googleing things somethings can be a shock at first
Don’t worry though you will grow numb to it and nothing sexual will faze or shock you"
Unless you get into electro play, that's pretty shocking ;-p
I think the urban dictionary post had me googling many things I had to rinse my brain out after reading lol |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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Would have to be amazing sex chat to getb a rise out of me even more so a wank.
Different things work for different poeple. We have always spent time getting to know people to see if there is a connection. Some just like to jump in with both feet.
But experience has tought us that people can't help themselves and often you can tell very quickly which way the wind is bowing which would result in conversation end with a polite no. Then they'll come into forums and chat calling us time wasters. But dont loose any sleep over it
So simple truth is don't take people here on face value, getting to know them works cos sooner or later they'll slip up if they are not genuine. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Stay away from drama and those who seem to seek it out.
Enjoy yourself and trust your instincts if you get a hinky feeling walk away.
Always meet for a social first in a public place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't feel the need to explain yourself to anyone on here. You are here for your own reasons and motivations. Unless you're doing anything illegal, crack on!
Use the filter function on your messages. Saves a lot of grief in the long run.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Be prepared to be googleing things somethings can be a shock at first
Don’t worry though you will grow numb to it and nothing sexual will faze or shock you
Unless you get into electro play, that's pretty shocking ;-p
I think the urban dictionary post had me googling many things I had to rinse my brain out after reading lol"
Ha ha not something I have tryed is electro play ha ha but I presume it would be pretty shocking to say the least and and yes some stuff can be lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't get drawn into sex chat...they just want wank material
Oh the classic "what would you do to me?"
Yep
Or an essay on what they want to do to me."
Especially when it says "lift me onto the bed" unless you have a forklift you're not lifting me anywhere lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would have to be amazing sex chat to getb a rise out of me even more so a wank.
Different things work for different poeple. We have always spent time getting to know people to see if there is a connection. Some just like to jump in with both feet.
But experience has tought us that people can't help themselves and often you can tell very quickly which way the wind is bowing which would result in conversation end with a polite no. Then they'll come into forums and chat calling us time wasters. But dont loose any sleep over it
So simple truth is don't take people here on face value, getting to know them works cos sooner or later they'll slip up if they are not genuine."
Wise words indeed |
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"Don't feel pressured to share a phone number (or similar) to chat off the site.
I've found if someone asks for kik they never meet. "
Not necessarily true. I ask for kik as my phone is a works phone so can’t access Fab when on 4g so easier on kik and absolutely always meet. ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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For a guy… Don’t try too hard , if it’s too much effort you’re doing it all wrong, Send about as many messages a month as you receive and be patient build relationships and don’t try and get all your sex from this one site or you may be disappointed. |
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