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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Could anyone enlighten me why after talking to someone for weeks and eventually arranging to meet up on the day of meeting up you get blanked and messages left unread even though they have been online on here and watsapp.
Do you think it's a case of someone talking the talk and not being able to walk the walk or something else? |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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You answered your own question I think. Just move on don't give them another thought or another chance. If they can't even have the decency to cancel or say they don't want to meet after arranging to they aren't worth your time. |
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Unfortunately some love the chase and love to appear available but are actually permanently unavailable without any intention of meeting anyone, its hard and there's no real fool proof way of avoiding them as you only find out when they ghost you...
Remember it's nothing to do with you it's all on them xxx |
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By *yronMan
over a year ago
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"Could anyone enlighten me why after talking to someone for weeks and eventually arranging to meet up on the day of meeting up you get blanked and messages left unread even though they have been online on here and watsapp.
Do you think it's a case of someone talking the talk and not being able to walk the walk or something else? "
Unfortunately it happens. Take it from me, it's their loss, not yours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately some love the chase and love to appear available but are actually permanently unavailable without any intention of meeting anyone, its hard and there's no real fool proof way of avoiding them as you only find out when they ghost you...
Remember it's nothing to do with you it's all on them xxx"
Exactly this ^^
This is what gives a lot of guys the thrill |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm lost here, Newbie, cannot get it . Why would anyone waste tons of time to engage in chat and then flaking or ignoring? What's the point? Some profile mention''here to chat'' or ''not meeting'', that's fair enough, you know it from start.I spend quite a lot of time writing a message, as I need to know the person behind the screen, so we can build smthg. Why would anyone find this rewarding? In the moment when, after a few messages the chat keeps going, it means that both parts are interested to and think about a possible meeting  |
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"I'm thinking along the same line now. Suppose we all live and learn. It's not my fault he's not genuine. Just annoying "
I logged in earlier today. there was an unread message in ma inbox. It was from a couple that I'd never conversed with before, "Hey, how's you x", so I replied "I'm fine thanks, what made you send that message x?"
They sent one back about 3 minutes later "Just so that you've got a message" then they blocked me.
The mind boggles at sometimes     |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I'm lost here, Newbie, cannot get it . Why would anyone waste tons of time to engage in chat and then flaking or ignoring? What's the point? Some profile mention''here to chat'' or ''not meeting'', that's fair enough, you know it from start.I spend quite a lot of time writing a message, as I need to know the person behind the screen, so we can build smthg. Why would anyone find this rewarding? In the moment when, after a few messages the chat keeps going, it means that both parts are interested to and think about a possible meeting "
1) When there is so much choice people think they can always find better.
2) Some are unavailable and use this place to get the thrill of being desired or 'winning' the chase but could never meet.
3) Some are just fantasists and enjoy weaving a story.
4) Some like the power of ghosting others.
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"Could anyone enlighten me why after talking to someone for weeks and eventually arranging to meet up on the day of meeting up you get blanked and messages left unread even though they have been online on here and watsapp.
Do you think it's a case of someone talking the talk and not being able to walk the walk or something else? "
Yep, happened to me, after plenty of chat it was looking pretty promising, arranged to meet, I drove about 30 miles and he bailed on me, the WhatsApp convo died!! I was fuming!!
He’s probably a lying, cheating husband!!
I’m sooooo glad he didn’t show now…..his
massive loss  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm lost here, Newbie, cannot get it . Why would anyone waste tons of time to engage in chat and then flaking or ignoring? What's the point? Some profile mention''here to chat'' or ''not meeting'', that's fair enough, you know it from start.I spend quite a lot of time writing a message, as I need to know the person behind the screen, so we can build smthg. Why would anyone find this rewarding? In the moment when, after a few messages the chat keeps going, it means that both parts are interested to and think about a possible meeting
1) When there is so much choice people think they can always find better.
2) Some are unavailable and use this place to get the thrill of being desired or 'winning' the chase but could never meet.
3) Some are just fantasists and enjoy weaving a story.
4) Some like the power of ghosting others.
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Thx...People are here for different reasons. I'm here to meet couples, some to inflate their ego's. In the same time, I cannot jump and ask for a meeting from the first messages just to cut posible loses, I need some time to see if we are on the same frequency. Quite un-productive. Anyway...happy fabbing to all the honest ones! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Could anyone enlighten me why after talking to someone for weeks and eventually arranging to meet up on the day of meeting up you get blanked and messages left unread even though they have been online on here and watsapp.
Do you think it's a case of someone talking the talk and not being able to walk the walk or something else? "
It happens.
I just move on with a smile and a whistle.
The world is full of opportunity |
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I’m 37 & I come from West Yorkshire , I’ve always wanted to have a meet from Fab but I don’t know if it’s me that’s not putting enough effort in or I’m not good enough, but because of medical background I have to wear bags all the time as I have a non working bladder , and the thought of a woman seeing it makes me feel ashamed . |
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