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What non sexual thing do you miss a partner doing now your single
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Mine is having my ear hair plucked out as its so difficult getting them out by myself . Couldn't grow a beard to save my life but my ear hair grows incredibly fast and long . Loved resting on her lap as she throughly gave them a good pull with the tweezers . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So many things...sofa snuggles, cooking together, giving me a hug and a kiss on the forehead if I'm having a bad day."
I liked it when you kissed my head |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The intimacy and having that person there that you share everything with, even just a daft joke.
Excuse me whilst I just cry quietly in the corner"
Hugs x |
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"So many things...sofa snuggles, cooking together, giving me a hug and a kiss on the forehead if I'm having a bad day.
I liked it when you kissed my head "
Only because I ruffled your hair and called you a good boy afterwards   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So many things...sofa snuggles, cooking together, giving me a hug and a kiss on the forehead if I'm having a bad day.
I liked it when you kissed my head
Only because I ruffled your hair and called you a good boy afterwards "
Get a room lol xxx |
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I don’t miss my ex but it would be nice to cosy up on the sofa with a significant other without having to get dressed up but still find it exciting to get dressed up for them too 
Oh and diy skills are missed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Electric screwdriving. No matter how hard I hold it in, it always just rounds of the screw at warp speed, I dont understand. And plenty of other things besides. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From my ex zero. From other partners. The smile when they see me, the affection, having someone to cook for (feeder) and look after. Tenderness, touching, holding hands, so much really.  |
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"Electric screwdriving. No matter how hard I hold it in, it always just rounds of the screw at warp speed, I dont understand. And plenty of other things besides. "
Make sure you’re using the right tip, PZ2 instead of Philips depending on the screw. Push in straight and hard then get the screwdriver turning slowly.
Can’t help with the other things though |
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"The intimacy and having that person there that you share everything with, even just a daft joke.
Excuse me whilst I just cry quietly in the corner"
The intimacy I really miss Cuddles and squeezes on tap, kissing and face stroking, random wrestling...
I just miss being held when I need it really  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cuddles and snuggles when you need it, hair stroking and massages.
When I really can’t do something, and there’s no one there to help me.
When I hear a funny noise late at night and I’m scared |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ironing I bloody hate doing it don't mind cleaning but ironing no thinking of taking it to a ironing service that opened up round corner I hate it that much  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
Someone just touching me just because I'm there, a brush of a hand on the shoulder as they get up off the settee, a kiss while I'm making coffee. And spooning snuggles in bed. Reaching out a hand and meeting theirs half way.
Being in a group of people and sharing a look that is just for the two of you. Or knowing with a look that it is time to go.
I miss the small things. |
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Tbh I’ve never had a ‘good’ domestic relationship. Sometimes that makes me sad - at others it makes me happy because I’ve nothing to miss.
Certainly never had a relationship where I was made to feel cherished or appreciated. X |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Tbh I’ve never had a ‘good’ domestic relationship. Sometimes that makes me sad - at others it makes me happy because I’ve nothing to miss.
Certainly never had a relationship where I was made to feel cherished or appreciated. X"
I feel this to my soul. It's a long way back where I felt any of the things I mentioned and they were alternated with far less gentle touches and actions.
Everyone should feel cherished and appreciated Peachy.... and I hope you find yours 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I miss the sofa snuggles and the gentle strokes. Also being able to squeeze someone's spots without them thinking I'm weird....it's therapeutic  "
I get the spot picking. Vety relaxing when I had it done to me and very intimate ax well. Until the point they decide its a deep one and regardless of the pressure or pain its coming out . My ex always said stop moaning it doesn't hurt that much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From my ex spouse, nothing. From an ex , late night conversations, talking about our day, cuddles while watching crap tv, hugs and holding hands. So many little things."
This  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Running fingers through my chest hair, lazy morning wake ups together and taking the piss out of each other constantly. I always think a healthy relationship is marked by the fact people can take the mick out of each other. I know this is a non-sex thread but I think it actually makes the sex better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone just touching me just because I'm there, a brush of a hand on the shoulder as they get up off the settee, a kiss while I'm making coffee. And spooning snuggles in bed. Reaching out a hand and meeting theirs half way.
Being in a group of people and sharing a look that is just for the two of you. Or knowing with a look that it is time to go.
I miss the small things."
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Making my sandwiches and leaving saucey notes between each one. Also hiding pieces of her lingerie in my kit bag, which often fell out in front of my work mates.
Bless her, RIP my love
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That's beautiful, I want that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Running fingers through my chest hair, lazy morning wake ups together and taking the piss out of each other constantly. I always think a healthy relationship is marked by the fact people can take the mick out of each other. I know this is a non-sex thread but I think it actually makes the sex better."
Agree.
Not wuth the chest hair bit, cos I don't have any- but the banter bit! |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
Snuggling up on the sofa, spooning in bed, hearing his breathing when he'd fallen asleep before me, massaging his back and feeling him relax, chatting about randomn stuff, sharing a love of music, looking at his face and seeing the love in his eyes.
I still miss the one special person who still means the world to me |
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Sorting my bills out.
I always paid them but I'd just hand money over and that would be that. Now I have to sort each individual bill and for some reason I get anxiety over it even though I have the money. Mind you the Ex gave me anxiety in the first place, I was fine with bills before so there is that.
Other than that nothing I can think of. I love sleeping alone now and it largely annoys me when someone else is in bed now but took a while to get used to at first.
Can't see me living with someone ever again. I just appreciate my own space now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fire that burns inside
While she bounces around talking about things and doing things
And her eyes and legs and … yeah
Life’s a bitch but at least I had her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Getting dressed in the morning, pulling her thong up between her bum cheeks and before everyday running ringers round the top of them and letting it flick off her skin!! So hot and she didn’t even know it! |
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The things I miss the most are.
Conversations between partners.
The snuggles in bed on sofa or in the chairs.
The constant teasing of each other.
The kisses but mostly the night and morning ones.
The goodnight snuggle kiss before sleep or the good morning take care be safe ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Conversation - just someone to talk to about your day, about anything.
Someone next to you in bed, the warmth, cuddles
Just being the other half of the partnership in bringing up the kids and not doing it on my own as it a shit show |
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