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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was in a relationship until about 3 months ago and my boyfriend at the time used to go out drinking with his friends every Saturday night. I wasn’t allowed to go out drinking so every Sunday I’d wake up early and hangover free while my boyfriend slept all morning to recover from his night out. I’d spend all Sunday morning cleaning the house and preparing a big Sunday roast for him so that when he woke up he had a clean house to relax in and something to eat. I’d watch him enjoy his roast dinner and eat what he allowed me to and then he’d spend the rest of the day on the sofa. After I did the washing up I had to spend the rest of the day in the shed so my boyfriend had the house to himself to relax and recover from his hangover.
They were the best days I ever had because I spent the whole day serving my boyfriend and everything I did was done to please him and make his day more relaxing and enjoyable. I miss being allowed to serve him and feel lost without him.
What’s everyone else’s favourite way to spend a Sunday, either past or present? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Have you thought about maybe speaking to a counsellor or therapy? Sorry to suggest but that doesn’t sound like it was a healthy relationship and yeah, maybe you have some trauma that needs to be picked at x
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"Where you allowed out to see your friends on a Saturday night OP? Even if you didn't drink so you could serve the next day? "
No, I was never allowed out to see my friends, I was only allowed out to see family (parents and siblings). I had to tell my friends that my boyfriend didn’t let me go out with them as well as he liked them knowing how much he controlled me. |
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"Have you thought about maybe speaking to a counsellor or therapy? Sorry to suggest but that doesn’t sound like it was a healthy relationship and yeah, maybe you have some trauma that needs to be picked at x
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Agreed, being a sub in a sexual way is a different thing all together. When it comes to 'being allowed' to do things, it's dangerous territory. Hope your okay OP |
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My favourite is to have all my immediate family round, mum, dad, sister, her other half and kids all sat around the table, i cook, my mum brings a dessert... just really unrushed and happy  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Have you thought about maybe speaking to a counsellor or therapy? Sorry to suggest but that doesn’t sound like it was a healthy relationship and yeah, maybe you have some trauma that needs to be picked at x
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All my relationships have been with very controlling people and I like being controlled like that so I have never thought it was a problem or thought I need help because of it but thank you for your concern.
I’m sure there is an underlying reason why I desire to be controlled like that but I’m maybe not ready to address that yet.... |
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"Where you allowed out to see your friends on a Saturday night OP? Even if you didn't drink so you could serve the next day?
No, I was never allowed out to see my friends, I was only allowed out to see family (parents and siblings). I had to tell my friends that my boyfriend didn’t let me go out with them as well as he liked them knowing how much he controlled me. "
Being a sub myself who has a strong desire to serve. This doesn't sit right with me. Did you want to see your friends? Have you lost friends because of this relationship? What did your Dom give to you in return for your servitude? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Where you allowed out to see your friends on a Saturday night OP? Even if you didn't drink so you could serve the next day?
No, I was never allowed out to see my friends, I was only allowed out to see family (parents and siblings). I had to tell my friends that my boyfriend didn’t let me go out with them as well as he liked them knowing how much he controlled me.
Being a sub myself who has a strong desire to serve. This doesn't sit right with me. Did you want to see your friends? Have you lost friends because of this relationship? What did your Dom give to you in return for your servitude? "
Everyone’s different and every sub wants to serve and be used in different ways. At the start of the relationship I told him that my family come first and after that all I cared about was him and I’d devote all my time to him. I was more than happy not to see my friends as I got more pleasure from serving him than seeing my friends. I explained the situation in full to one friend and he told the others, they were all fine with it and we’re still friends. They actually love hearing about what I used to do for him and think it’s funny.
Just being allowed to serve him was enough of a reward but he let me worship his body, he fucked me most days and allowed me to cum once a week. He also used to pay for all the food for the meals I cooked for him. He also gave me love and protection. I think he gave me more than I gave him. |
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"Where you allowed out to see your friends on a Saturday night OP? Even if you didn't drink so you could serve the next day?
No, I was never allowed out to see my friends, I was only allowed out to see family (parents and siblings). I had to tell my friends that my boyfriend didn’t let me go out with them as well as he liked them knowing how much he controlled me.
Being a sub myself who has a strong desire to serve. This doesn't sit right with me. Did you want to see your friends? Have you lost friends because of this relationship? What did your Dom give to you in return for your servitude?
Everyone’s different and every sub wants to serve and be used in different ways. At the start of the relationship I told him that my family come first and after that all I cared about was him and I’d devote all my time to him. I was more than happy not to see my friends as I got more pleasure from serving him than seeing my friends. I explained the situation in full to one friend and he told the others, they were all fine with it and we’re still friends. They actually love hearing about what I used to do for him and think it’s funny.
Just being allowed to serve him was enough of a reward but he let me worship his body, he fucked me most days and allowed me to cum once a week. He also used to pay for all the food for the meals I cooked for him. He also gave me love and protection. I think he gave me more than I gave him. "
If you felt loved and protected and it's what you wanted then all power to you. And I'm sure you gave as much as you recieved. |
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