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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why are some people so nasty and aggressive. I'm at work and just had to see a lady who was more than abusive ... zero tolerance policy my arse. She made me cry ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You hard of Carma x She will get whats coming i have seen this time and time again. Thank your lucky stars your not nasty and having to lash out at people to look big.(((BIG HUGS))) XX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're at work ?
Good job you don't work for me ! Are you paid for surfing this website ?
If she made you cry, your far too sensitive for whatever job your being paid NOT to do !
Find another job, or grow a spine !  |
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"You're at work ?
Good job you don't work for me ! Are you paid for surfing this website ?
If she made you cry, your far too sensitive for whatever job your being paid NOT to do !
Find another job, or grow a spine ! "
maybe she's on a break and no one get's paid to be abused  |
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"You're at work ?
Good job you don't work for me ! Are you paid for surfing this website ?
If she made you cry, your far too sensitive for whatever job your being paid NOT to do !
Find another job, or grow a spine ! "
Well thats charming,im pretty sure shes glad she doesnt work for you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You're at work ?
Good job you don't work for me ! Are you paid for surfing this website ?
If she made you cry, your far too sensitive for whatever job your being paid NOT to do !
Find another job, or grow a spine ! "
You have no idea what you're talking about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's one each I guess !  "
If you are going to pick someone up on their spelling, it's a good idea to ensure you can spell all the words you use. Otherwise you just look silly. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"hmmm, so am I, productivity wouldn't be up to much & wouldn't want to challenge her about it, for fear of upsetting her ! and being accused of abuse !
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Without knowing what I do, what I endure, how valuable I am, how knowledgable I am and how SHIT HOT at my job I am ... your opinion is invalid.
Thankyou for the sensible comments everybody else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The way to react to people being abused is to abuse them more and then pat yourself on the back when they tell you where to shove it?
Unbelievable. Pathetic and unbelievable. |
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"Spine recovered, my work is done ! "
I work as a doorman so naturally i am abused on a regular basis,but i accept it as part of my job,i can handle it and if it comes to it i can quickly switch from victim to aggressor,but,i can imagine what its like for doctors and nurses and teachers etc who face constant abuse whilst trying to do a good job,if they cry in the process does this mean they have no spine? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if your spine's solid & give it a stretch by standing up, coz that convo thread's gone straight over your head ! "
 I think we all grasped your meaning just fine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why is it when someone is having a bad day and needs a hug there's always a nice person that has to come in a stir things? I take it your having such a fantastic day that you have to come and be nasty? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's a very fair point and whilst emotion is truly something very difficult to contain at moments of extreme stress or anxiety, my original post was to "not-very-tactfully" suggest that those in high stress positions need to be emotionally strong enough to deal with the strain, otherwise society would melt into a mansize tissue ! Horses for courses & all that ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it when someone is having a bad day and needs a hug there's always a nice person that has to come in a stir things? I take it your having such a fantastic day that you have to come and be nasty?"
Hugs to OP. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having a bad day and turning to friends for support does not equate to emotional weakness.
And even if it did, bullying to try to "toughen them up" is not an appropriate response. |
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"That's a very fair point and whilst emotion is truly something very difficult to contain at moments of extreme stress or anxiety, my original post was to "not-very-tactfully" suggest that those in high stress positions need to be emotionally strong enough to deal with the strain, otherwise society would melt into a mansize tissue ! Horses for courses & all that ! "
Even those in the highest stress jobs can find that one single moment can tip them over the edge. No one is infallible (apologies if that's the wrong word or spelt wrong ) its just how people deal with that moment. Some might go home and get smashed, some might go punch shot out of a punch bag in a gym, and some come to a group of usually supportive people on here.
OP have your rant and a hug bit don't let it affect you too much. I am sure you are great at your job and only use fab at appropriate times  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive had a few 'customer facing' roles where people have felt able to abuse me. Luckily Ive been able to get revenge by refusing an arangement or processing for litigation, but it can be very upsetting for some. A deep breath or 5 mintes away to have a cuppa can do wonders....Plus it helps if your boss isnt a twat...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If one feels/believes one has been treated unfairly or inappropriately, one should follow the local grievance procedure in order to address the issue.
For me, I would address the issue by confronting the person directly, face to face, in private, and/or in writing, using appropriate and acceptable business behaviours and exercising professional decorum.
Luckily, my colleagues and peers, even bosses, find me direct, assertive and forceful (reads: intimidating), so they usually leave me alone to get on with my job.
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