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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a few woman say no because of the beard, but that’s fine, we all have personal likes on here. Plenty more women who are a fan of beards and body hair |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s all about preferences, I’ve been turned down cos I don’t have a hairy chest. It is what it is.
I’ve turned women down because they’re not what I’m looking for, simples, get over it  |
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"Have you ever been rejected on here because you have got a beard? I told someone that I could easily shave my beard off it's not a problem it will grow back in a week. This isn't a moan and find it funny though. :D if you didn't have a beard you would be sexy but because you've got a beard you're ugly?    "
Why would you want to change something you obviously like about yourself in order to potentially raise your appeal for some random woman you don't know?
You realise none of us has universal appeal right?
Personally, I'd spend time concentrating on people looking for me rather than waste a nanosecond on those not: but that's me. |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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No but we have been rejected because I don't have a beard.
Also been rejected because I have less hair on my head than they would have liked and on one occasion because I don't have tattoos.
Also those exact reasons have meant we have meet other couples.
It is nice that everybody is different if everybody was the same the world would be a very boring place. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm just saying when I got rejected for having a beard they turned round and said to me if you didn't have a beard you would look sexy but because you've got a beard you are ugly it's like that's nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i aint changing myself just for a fuck bollox to that i dont have a beard but wouldn’t grow one of some bird said she only fucks blokes with beards move on mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just saying when I got rejected for having a beard they turned round and said to me if you didn't have a beard you would look sexy but because you've got a beard you are ugly it's like that's nice"
I honestly wouldn't lose sleep /give a passing thought about something a stranger on a website said about my appearance (good or bad) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm not going to lose any sleep about it I just found it rather amusing that's all all as people know on here I'm just a guy that does speaking videos I'm just a guy who's on here to have a bit of a laugh and a bit of banter I don't take anything to heart life's too short for all that |
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C would reject anyone with a beard…she doesn’t like them. I have stubble and I just pass.
You’ll have your own preferences as to what you want someone to look like. How rigid that remains is down to you.
We all have preferences.
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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Meh, I've been told this morning I'd be pretty if I weren't fat.
People have views on others, they have preferences, and they like to share them.
No one should change for someone else. Especially not for a shag ffs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever been rejected on here because you have got a beard? I told someone that I could easily shave my beard off it's not a problem it will grow back in a week. This isn't a moan and find it funny though. :D if you didn't have a beard you would be sexy but because you've got a beard you're ugly?
Why would you want to change something you obviously like about yourself in order to potentially raise your appeal for some random woman you don't know?
You realise none of us has universal appeal right?
Personally, I'd spend time concentrating on people looking for me rather than waste a nanosecond on those not: but that's me."
This. Exactly this.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meh, I've been told this morning I'd be pretty if I weren't fat.
People have views on others, they have preferences, and they like to share them.
No one should change for someone else. Especially not for a shag ffs"
You ARE pretty! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just saying when I got rejected for having a beard they turned round and said to me if you didn't have a beard you would look sexy but because you've got a beard you are ugly it's like that's nice"
And that’s called “Having an opinion” which they are completely entitled to have!!!!
You come across at times as being very intolerant of people’s opinions which in my opinion is not a good look but chin up Simon and crack on with your fab adventure.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever been rejected on here because you have got a beard? I told someone that I could easily shave my beard off it's not a problem it will grow back in a week. This isn't a moan and find it funny though. :D if you didn't have a beard you would be sexy but because you've got a beard you're ugly? "
it's the other way around for me
I had 3 photo's on badoo
the 2 with a beard had 5 stars
the one without had 1 star
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just saying when I got rejected for having a beard they turned round and said to me if you didn't have a beard you would look sexy but because you've got a beard you are ugly it's like that's nice"
I think you look better on your pics with the beard ! - sticks & stones will break our bones - but Name shall never hurt us!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I do think there should be more positivity in the world that we live in there are too many people out there that one to judge and it's understandable everyone's got their own opinion but sometimes it can cause offence why would anyone say if you wasn't fat you would look pretty it's like you are who you are you are what you are if you don't like it simple just go and do one you don't need to go and hurt someone's feelings |
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I would reject most with a beard with a few depends.......
1. It's long and unkempt.
2. I don't like the features behind it.
3. It looks like it would be coarse and scratchy.
I have no idea of what someone would look like without a beard so it's logical that I have to fancy them WITH a beard and if the beard is unattractive then so be it.
I have seen great bodies and what looks like the good hair and eyes of a good looking man but his beard is just not good. .....
I think bad hair is easier to overlook than a bad beard. |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
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The reason I post full body pics on here is I got fed up of the chatting away,getting on, send a full pic and then have ermm yeah not for me thanks. It happens, people like what they like and that's just life, if I let every little criticism get to me I'd not be here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The reason I post full body pics on here is I got fed up of the chatting away,getting on, send a full pic and then have ermm yeah not for me thanks. It happens, people like what they like and that's just life, if I let every little criticism get to me I'd not be here
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I get this all the time too xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s all about preferences, I’ve been turned down cos I don’t have a hairy chest. It is what it is.
I’ve turned women down because they’re not what I’m looking for, simples, get over it "
With those abs you got turned down? There really is no justice in the world, sir! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate beards and yeah I do reject of the guy has one, but only if he's not prepared to shave it off. It's not really a rejection though, it's just me saying I don't like beards. It's about attraction and compatibility. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No objections to it here  "
Noted.
I’ve not been rejected due to my beard but I’ve seen plenty of profiles which state it’s a ‘no’.
It is what it is; I think I look better with mine than without now, my wife likes it, so it’s not coming off. |
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"Yes I have ...it's just another form of racism ??
It really isnt (facepalm)   "
Yes I know - I thought it was such a dumb response that people would realise it was a joke...but they this is the internet. You never get th benefit of the doubt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I have ...it's just another form of racism ??
How do you work that out? Racism is prejudice on the basis of someone's race or ethnicity.
It was a joke ??"
Your emoji didn't show...and people do write some dumb stuff, sorry! |
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I don’t like beards. Can’t help it I just don’t. I wish I did! I wouldn’t meet someone with a long or big beard, doesn’t mean I think they’re ugly! Some men really suit them. It’s my issue not theirs. I wouldn’t expect anyone to shave it off for me, in fact if they offered I still wouldn’t meet them as I wouldn’t change anything for someone else x |
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Each to their own, everyone has their own personal preferences.. I used to be clean shaven then grew a normal tidy short beard, it went grey but I get told that I kinda suit the salt and pepper, greying beard so just stuck with it. Have shaved it off again in the past but hardly recognise myself. But yes everyone has their own likes and dislikes and thats what makes us all unique. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t like beards. Can’t help it I just don’t. I wish I did! I wouldn’t meet someone with a long or big beard, doesn’t mean I think they’re ugly! Some men really suit them. It’s my issue not theirs. I wouldn’t expect anyone to shave it off for me, in fact if they offered I still wouldn’t meet them as I wouldn’t change anything for someone else x"
Fancy a coffee xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep, I've been rejected because of this reason. Even though its very evident from my profile pic. So it was just I think a polite way of telling me that I'm not their cup of tea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve spoken to people that aren’t into beards. And we still chat, as they are gorgeous people just not the physical attraction to go any further than that.
But I’d never shave it. Ever x |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
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I personally love beards, I'm a pognophile. But don't change urself to please other on a swinging site. Be yourself. Always the most attractive thing about people are genuine confident people who are real, not molding into people they think you want, a yes man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have turned guys down for their beard. I will check all pics first but if they all have a long beard in then it’s a no from me. I don’t mind a short one but I would not expect someone the change who they are. But if he has pictures with his beard at different lengths so to speak then I could say I prefer it a bit shorter |
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"I don’t like beards. Can’t help it I just don’t. I wish I did! I wouldn’t meet someone with a long or big beard, doesn’t mean I think they’re ugly! Some men really suit them. It’s my issue not theirs. I wouldn’t expect anyone to shave it off for me, in fact if they offered I still wouldn’t meet them as I wouldn’t change anything for someone else x
Fancy a coffee xx "
You know I do  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't dream of shaving my beard just to try and get a meet personally. It's a part of me look i.e. me so its a take it or leave it situation, plus K loves it.
I also trim it to a number 3 anyway so it kept short and tidy especially for meets / club night.
KJ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Beards aren’t my taste but I would never ask someone to shave it! That’s crazy "
I adore beards but I agree. I think it’s awful when women ask men to remove them before a meet. I wouldn't ever meet a man who told me to shave my pubes or trim my hair before we met. 
If you can't accept someone with a beard then I don't really think you deserve them without it to be honest. But I think most men would remove it for the sake of a shag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She said I can’t go out with anyone who’s got a beard, I said I haven’t got a beard, she said no, but you could grow one in the future and that’s a risk I’m not prepared to make. |
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By *91kMan
over a year ago
Maidstone |
Interesting topic...
I have trimmed mine back to stubble or somewhere close to it before, on the basis that it was a fair compromise. The lady in question informed me that longer facial hair would irritate her skin. I told her that was unfortunate but I wasn't prepared to shave it completely. So I offered to trim it back a little more than usual to save irritation but meant we could still go ahead...
It's all about finding a compromise with people and if you can't, then maybe you're just not compatible. I guess I got lucky that time maybe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbf I think you might have made it worse by offering to shave. It gives the impression that you're so desperate for a shag that you'd physically change yourself (even if that's not the case) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes and it is what it is. I might be disappointed that it’s been an issue, but I’d defend their right to discriminate based on what they’re attracted to or not more than I’m disappointed. We all have ‘things’ we’re not attracted to, I just try and see it from the point of view of others, not just my own.
Different strokes for different folks the Americans say. I’m pleased everyone has different tastes. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Yes and it is what it is. I might be disappointed that it’s been an issue, but I’d defend their right to discriminate based on what they’re attracted to or not more than I’m disappointed. We all have ‘things’ we’re not attracted to, I just try and see it from the point of view of others, not just my own.
Different strokes for different folks the Americans say. I’m pleased everyone has different tastes."
You suit a beard |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes and it is what it is. I might be disappointed that it’s been an issue, but I’d defend their right to discriminate based on what they’re attracted to or not more than I’m disappointed. We all have ‘things’ we’re not attracted to, I just try and see it from the point of view of others, not just my own.
Different strokes for different folks the Americans say. I’m pleased everyone has different tastes.
You suit a beard"
Thank you chicken  have you seen it? Or are you going off the rest of my body hair? x |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Yes and it is what it is. I might be disappointed that it’s been an issue, but I’d defend their right to discriminate based on what they’re attracted to or not more than I’m disappointed. We all have ‘things’ we’re not attracted to, I just try and see it from the point of view of others, not just my own.
Different strokes for different folks the Americans say. I’m pleased everyone has different tastes.
You suit a beard
Thank you chicken have you seen it? Or are you going off the rest of my body hair? x"
One of your pics either way your handsome xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes and it is what it is. I might be disappointed that it’s been an issue, but I’d defend their right to discriminate based on what they’re attracted to or not more than I’m disappointed. We all have ‘things’ we’re not attracted to, I just try and see it from the point of view of others, not just my own.
Different strokes for different folks the Americans say. I’m pleased everyone has different tastes.
You suit a beard
Thank you chicken have you seen it? Or are you going off the rest of my body hair? x
One of your pics either way your handsome xx"
Do I suit a beard too? xxx |
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"Yes and it is what it is. I might be disappointed that it’s been an issue, but I’d defend their right to discriminate based on what they’re attracted to or not more than I’m disappointed. We all have ‘things’ we’re not attracted to, I just try and see it from the point of view of others, not just my own.
Different strokes for different folks the Americans say. I’m pleased everyone has different tastes.
You suit a beard
Thank you chicken have you seen it? Or are you going off the rest of my body hair? x"
Yours looks OK, I'm talking about long beards |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people like beards amd some people don’t, it is as simple as that.
I would not expect anyone to change their appearance for me and I am not going to change my appearance for anyone.
My beard stays lol 
Mr HH |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes and it is what it is. I might be disappointed that it’s been an issue, but I’d defend their right to discriminate based on what they’re attracted to or not more than I’m disappointed. We all have ‘things’ we’re not attracted to, I just try and see it from the point of view of others, not just my own.
Different strokes for different folks the Americans say. I’m pleased everyone has different tastes.
You suit a beard
Thank you chicken have you seen it? Or are you going off the rest of my body hair? x
One of your pics either way your handsome xx"
I should learn my own profile! Ha! I’ll send you some face photos so you can see better |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Yes and it is what it is. I might be disappointed that it’s been an issue, but I’d defend their right to discriminate based on what they’re attracted to or not more than I’m disappointed. We all have ‘things’ we’re not attracted to, I just try and see it from the point of view of others, not just my own.
Different strokes for different folks the Americans say. I’m pleased everyone has different tastes.
You suit a beard
Thank you chicken have you seen it? Or are you going off the rest of my body hair? x
One of your pics either way your handsome xx
I should learn my own profile! Ha! I’ll send you some face photos so you can see better "
Ok |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Yes and it is what it is. I might be disappointed that it’s been an issue, but I’d defend their right to discriminate based on what they’re attracted to or not more than I’m disappointed. We all have ‘things’ we’re not attracted to, I just try and see it from the point of view of others, not just my own.
Different strokes for different folks the Americans say. I’m pleased everyone has different tastes.
You suit a beard
Thank you chicken have you seen it? Or are you going off the rest of my body hair? x
One of your pics either way your handsome xx
I should learn my own profile! Ha! I’ll send you some face photos so you can see better
Ok"
Very very handsome
Chiselled features xxxx |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
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"Some people like beards amd some people don’t, it is as simple as that.
I would not expect anyone to change their appearance for me and I am not going to change my appearance for anyone.
My beard stays lol
Mr HH"
You suit yours from what I can see x |
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"Yes and it is what it is. I might be disappointed that it’s been an issue, but I’d defend their right to discriminate based on what they’re attracted to or not more than I’m disappointed. We all have ‘things’ we’re not attracted to, I just try and see it from the point of view of others, not just my own.
Different strokes for different folks the Americans say. I’m pleased everyone has different tastes."
Ahem... the beard stays, for obvious reasons |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is what it is. Everyone has their likes and dislikes. Lots of people also only ask for vwe or gym fit. Its simple, if they have something in their profile that you don't match up to then don't message them. It saves wasting both yours and their time. |
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"It is what it is. Everyone has their likes and dislikes. Lots of people also only ask for vwe or gym fit. Its simple, if they have something in their profile that you don't match up to then don't message them. It saves wasting both yours and their time."
Yours is nice |
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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago
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I'm either in a state of stuble or beard. The longest I've had a beard on here is a little over a month.
Sometimes my beard gets a little itchy & it drives me frigging nuts! So I shave it off!
If I was meeting someone then I'd shave unless it said in their profile they liked a bearded guy or guy with stubble.
Same goes for my hairy chest too! No biggie whether I do or don't.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some people like beards amd some people don’t, it is as simple as that.
I would not expect anyone to change their appearance for me and I am not going to change my appearance for anyone.
My beard stays lol
Mr HH
You suit yours from what I can see x"
Thank you
Mr HH |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t like beards. Can’t help it I just don’t. I wish I did! I wouldn’t meet someone with a long or big beard, doesn’t mean I think they’re ugly! Some men really suit them. It’s my issue not theirs. I wouldn’t expect anyone to shave it off for me, in fact if they offered I still wouldn’t meet them as I wouldn’t change anything for someone else x
Fancy a coffee xx
You know I do . "
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Would any of the 'rejected' like to tell me I can't order the dishes I fancy in a restaurant or the clothes I like to wear? Being 'rejected' on a site like this isn't a slur against character or a value judgement on a person, it's just a personal choice and it's only part of the decision making process. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Would any of the 'rejected' like to tell me I can't order the dishes I fancy in a restaurant or the clothes I like to wear? Being 'rejected' on a site like this isn't a slur against character or a value judgement on a person, it's just a personal choice and it's only part of the decision making process. "
No one said its slur we are talking about experiences we all have choices and types xx
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"Would any of the 'rejected' like to tell me I can't order the dishes I fancy in a restaurant or the clothes I like to wear? Being 'rejected' on a site like this isn't a slur against character or a value judgement on a person, it's just a personal choice and it's only part of the decision making process.
No one said its slur we are talking about experiences we all have choices and types xx
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We've been here a long time and some guys definitely take rejection (for whatever reason) like a slur on them. Some of them even get abusive. It shouldn't like that but it is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yours is nice "
Thanks for that, always appreciate a complement. And in the spirit of that you're pics are fantastic, very very sexy. My oh my those eyes  |
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"Would any of the 'rejected' like to tell me I can't order the dishes I fancy in a restaurant or the clothes I like to wear? Being 'rejected' on a site like this isn't a slur against character or a value judgement on a person, it's just a personal choice and it's only part of the decision making process. "
When I say ‘rejected’ I just mean I didn’t make their selection process or that’s not their thing. It doesn’t bother me in the slightest. Everyone has there preferences.
I’m sorry but I don’t like beards on ladies |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is what it is. Everyone has their likes and dislikes. Lots of people also only ask for vwe or gym fit. Its simple, if they have something in their profile that you don't match up to then don't message them. It saves wasting both yours and their time."
I stick to this too. In fact when a woman / couple who have a rule about anything I don’t fit the description for but still message me, I just reply telling them I’m not their type. I don’t even bother sending photos. There’s just no point. |
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I never had a full set to get rejected, but back in the days when I had the Tom Selleck/Burt Reynolds moustache, as was the fashion back then, if I got any adverse comments, I simply told them it's a womb groom, and that I was cultivating on my face what grows wild on my arse. |
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"Have you ever been rejected on here because you have got a beard? I told someone that I could easily shave my beard off it's not a problem it will grow back in a week. This isn't a moan and find it funny though. :D if you didn't have a beard you would be sexy but because you've got a beard you're ugly? "
Some women like beards. Some don't. Making out it makes you "ugly" is a stretch at best, ridiculous at worst. My Mrs hates them. Does growing a beard make me ugly to her? Absolutely not. Does it make her face come out in a rash when I smooch her? Absolutely, hence the hate.
Stop worrying about why someone said no and deal with it. You cant please everyone so don't try. |
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"I hate beards and yeah I do reject of the guy has one, but only if he's not prepared to shave it off. It's not really a rejection though, it's just me saying I don't like beards. It's about attraction and compatibility. "
I'm curious: why would you, some random woman on a sex site, ask someone to adjust their appearance for you?
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I would probably turn someone down if they didn't have some kind of facial hair as I 99 per cent of the time find clean shaven unattractive. Everyone likes different things. There is no way on earth I would ask someone to grow one though, and I would probably lose a little respect of them if they offered. |
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I had an opening introductory message once from a couple I had never spoken to before or even seen their profile.
They had close to 100 verifications and they told me I had to lose the beard or i wouldn't be meeting them.
So many entitled assumptions in that one message. I'm sure they had a positive response from others. |
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If someone said to shave off your beard for a meet, there's a serious case of entitlement and I think it would say a lot about that person. Would not meet them. |
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On this website you can be so prescriptive, beyond silly, about what you're looking for and expect from people!! From wanting to meet just one dude to a 12 man strong tag team.....from a requirement to give her a good seeing to and make her orgasm 2.5 times (verified not just at your word you can do this) to being suspended from a ceiling with your 12.5 inch xxl cock uncut (less than 12.5 =rejection)swinging about.....its a lass telling you she wants clean shaven over a beard that your bemused by as to why she wasn't keen on you, even with the ugly line from her this should hardly have raised an eyebrow. Id like to think most men can deal with such frivolous blah when told 'not for me, sorry 'but we are starting to look more like cuckold husbands everyday even if it's not one of our 'likes' |
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