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over a year ago
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"Love the novel "American Psycho" by Brett Easton Ellis. Anyone else read that?
I saw the movie, does that count? Lol"
Yeh the film adaption is pretty good. Christian Bale gives a great performance as Patrick Bateman. You should have a read. Ellis really explores the psychology in such a darkly humorous way. It's hilarious  |
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"Love the novel "American Psycho" by Brett Easton Ellis. Anyone else read that?
I saw the movie, does that count? Lol
Yeh the film adaption is pretty good. Christian Bale gives a great performance as Patrick Bateman. You should have a read. Ellis really explores the psychology in such a darkly humorous way. It's hilarious "
I will stick it on my to do list, I know someone who's had a copy for years |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I can't say someone's momey of lifestyle has ever influenced me to be enamored with them. Sometimes though it has has the complete opposite effect especially when they think I should be impressed by them. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"I can't say someone's momey of lifestyle has ever influenced me to be enamored with them. Sometimes though it has has the complete opposite effect especially when they think I should be impressed by them. "
Agreed, it’s very boring. When I’ve met couples , sometimes the guy will just talk and talk not letting his wife or me get a word in , and be going on typically about work, business deals, fancy cars, holidays and even diamonds and boats on one occasion. I’ll repeatedly change the subject and bring his wife in to the conversation but he’ll keep cutting her off, I’ll look at the wife and smile supportively , she will roll her eyes in embarrassment and there’s a connection, she knows I have everything he has and possibly more but neither of us are the slightest bit interested in all that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was never too interested , I mean it must be nice to be able to not worry about money. But it is boring when people ALL THEY TALK about is money and expensive things … like, tell me some real life experiences, I dont care that you got 2340 Rolexes or 3 ferraris.
The ones who talk about their connections all the times tho, are even worse! Yawnnn x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't say someone's momey of lifestyle has ever influenced me to be enamored with them. Sometimes though it has has the complete opposite effect especially when they think I should be impressed by them.
Agreed, it’s very boring. When I’ve met couples , sometimes the guy will just talk and talk not letting his wife or me get a word in , and be going on typically about work, business deals, fancy cars, holidays and even diamonds and boats on one occasion. I’ll repeatedly change the subject and bring his wife in to the conversation but he’ll keep cutting her off, I’ll look at the wife and smile supportively , she will roll her eyes in embarrassment and there’s a connection, she knows I have everything he has and possibly more but neither of us are the slightest bit interested in all that "
Poor wife. Sound like she found herself in a comfortable pretty cage |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me I find people who talk about money are all front and realy don’t have any or little off it
Or they new money not had lot off money for long
As you find people with money don’t really talk about it that much |
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I'm more enamoured by people who you know have more wealth than a lot of people could ever dream of, but they never mention it and wouldn't dream of bringing it up or bragging about it.
They are well respected by a lot of people because of their actions and behaviour and not because of their wealth. |
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Well, look at it this way you have what some are seeking, so their answer well caters to what you want to hear, or you a looking at the wrong demographic type of women. You could be the one using money to want to gain instant respect, that's best earned.
Like, attract like look for a woman or people that also talk about money or politics seeing as you study law. lawyers love to debate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't stand listening to people brag about what they've got personally, I walk away from those kinds of people and conversations. There's more to life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i aint got much money but enough to see me throu but at least i know the birds fuck me for me not my money haha mate its a double edge thing u might get pussy u might not otherwise so thats the upside enjoy the fucking while u can haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol your little ploy will not work on here
Why is it a ploy? "
I suppose it proves the OP's point, doesn't it? Wealth prejudice and assumptions that moaning about wealth is a ploy to 'brag' about it and in turn, entice people to talk to him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know of others in your position and what you are talking about but perhaps it needn’t be phrased in quite that manner. People think that they have the right to have a good moan about having not enough but those with too much have no right to do so without realising that that notion, in itself, is wealth prejudice. Each group is unable to relate to the problems faced by the other.
There are assumptions about wealth. In everyday life, your wealth may be obvious and unavoidable like the assumption made about what car you drive or where you live, but here, in the Forum, it isn’t easy to tell and no one cares because you are your words. They’re not going sit in your car nor have a fancy meal with you. They’re just chatting to the person who wrote those words and expressed those thoughts....and a hot body, perhaps, might entice one or two to look your way. 
Your wealth may be an unavoidable part of who you are but it doesn’t define it. Chatting to people who know nothing about you is liberating and you can let the friendship grow organically from that because the foundation of it was who, not what, you are. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Lol your little ploy will not work on here
Why is it a ploy?
I suppose it proves the OP's point, doesn't it? Wealth prejudice and assumptions that moaning about wealth is a ploy to 'brag' about it and in turn, entice people to talk to him."
It wouldn’t work here, limited experience but the women I know here really dint give a fuck, it’s the person, the sexual chemistry then the sex. And that’s in very short supply compared to guys with money of which there’s no shortage |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lol your little ploy will not work on here
Why is it a ploy?
I suppose it proves the OP's point, doesn't it? Wealth prejudice and assumptions that moaning about wealth is a ploy to 'brag' about it and in turn, entice people to talk to him.
It wouldn’t work here, limited experience but the women I know here really dint give a fuck, it’s the person, the sexual chemistry then the sex. And that’s in very short supply compared to guys with money of which there’s no shortage "
I don't think he meant the Forum only. In the Forum as anywhere online, it should be a great way for him to express himself without people seeing anything beyond only his words. |
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What I love about those who are most likely the ones to brag about how loaded they ate and how fantastic life is is that they're often the ones who really aren't at all.
The £40k per year salary to go with the lower managemenent job where they're working stupid hours yet hated by those above and below them.
Mortgaged up to the eyeballs in a lego house on the new estate, car on finance but never serviced as they can't afford to look after it, credit cards maxed out and loans to cover everything from the garden furniture to the holiday in Majorca every year.
They look down on the plumber who takes home an easy £60k and has an actual fun life with good friends, lovely family and no debts or flashy car to speak of....ain't life grand when you look behind the facade of self proclaimed supposed wealth |
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Money really holds no worth to me whatsoever! I appreciate and enjoy in others the comfort and security it's bringing them along with the lovely 'things' they possess but I don't get that feeling myself.
Your net worth is not going to attract me unless you're doing something selfless with it!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know of others in your position and what you are talking about but perhaps it needn’t be phrased in quite that manner. People think that they have the right to have a good moan about having not enough but those with too much have no right to do so without realising that that notion, in itself, is wealth prejudice. Each group is unable to relate to the problems faced by the other.
There are assumptions about wealth. In everyday life, your wealth may be obvious and unavoidable like the assumption made about what car you drive or where you live, but here, in the Forum, it isn’t easy to tell and no one cares because you are your words. They’re not going sit in your car nor have a fancy meal with you. They’re just chatting to the person who wrote those words and expressed those thoughts....and a hot body, perhaps, might entice one or two to look your way.
Your wealth may be an unavoidable part of who you are but it doesn’t define it. Chatting to people who know nothing about you is liberating and you can let the friendship grow organically from that because the foundation of it was who, not what, you are."
This is a great response - here on fab you have the opportunity to rely purely on your personality to attract others (should you wish) - even your looks can remain hidden. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My life has been fraught with people being enamoured by my money and lifestyle! I hate that!! Does anyone else experience the same?"
Then don't talk about it them. Play it cool
Or you could donate it all to a cat charity...Problem solved |
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You do know there are ways around this right OP. As an example, there’s a friend I know who doesn’t wear his wealth as a badge, when dating or meeting new people. He wears fairly average clothes, drives a fairly average car, meets people in fairly average places. He never takes people back to his forever home, instead he tells people he can’t accommodate.
He gets to know people, as just a person of fairly average wealth, successful but not over the top. If his friendship/relationship progresses then slowly and if appropriate or required he reveals more of that other aspect.
He relies on his personality and his actions, not his wealth to build a connection. I think he does okay and doesn’t suffer what you seem too, perhaps there’s something in that eh? |
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"Love the novel "American Psycho" by Brett Easton Ellis. Anyone else read that? "
Brilliant book, and way better than the film in my opinion! Bale plays the part so well tho! Love the psychology of it all
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"My life has been fraught with people being enamoured by my money and lifestyle! I hate that!! Does anyone else experience the same?"
If people are enamoured with it, how is it a barrier? If anything, it sounds like a way of opening doors, not closing them. |
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"I’m not sure if I should not care, or should. But…I think prejudice exists with wealth, which is a shame! I have spent my life trying to find love along with fun! "
How would anyone know whether or not you have money unless you talk about it
& what's well off to one is pocket change to others |
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"What I love about those who are most likely the ones to brag about how loaded they ate and how fantastic life is is that they're often the ones who really aren't at all.
The £40k per year salary to go with the lower managemenent job where they're working stupid hours yet hated by those above and below them.
Mortgaged up to the eyeballs in a lego house on the new estate, car on finance but never serviced as they can't afford to look after it, credit cards maxed out and loans to cover everything from the garden furniture to the holiday in Majorca every year.
They look down on the plumber who takes home an easy £60k and has an actual fun life with good friends, lovely family and no debts or flashy car to speak of....ain't life grand when you look behind the facade of self proclaimed supposed wealth "
This is so true! ?? we know someone exactly like this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I’m sat on a bench watching the clouds roll away and the sunny bit is becoming where I am.
I slept in my van. I met awesome people last night and we had breakfast together.
Money couldn’t improve this  |
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"My life has been fraught with people being enamoured by my money and lifestyle! I hate that!! Does anyone else experience the same?"
In the words of 10cc
Money talks so listen to it
Money talks to me
Anyone can understand it
Money sets you free
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"My life has been fraught with people being enamoured by my money and lifestyle! I hate that!! Does anyone else experience the same?
If you’re unhappy, give It all away. Problem solved "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My life has been fraught with people being enamoured by my money and lifestyle! I hate that!! Does anyone else experience the same?"
If had the lifestyle you described as above, I certainly wouldn't be shouting it from the roof tops! Too many people are indeed enamoured by people fluent with money etc and happy to try and manipulate to gain what they desire and stop at nothing (Oscar winning performances at that!) in doing so. I've witnessed it first hand with others...
I don't have your lifestyle but my last ex partner certainly benefited an awful lot from my hard working and finances.
I'd also say not every one is like what you describe... There are a small amount though! |
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"My life has been fraught with people being enamoured by my money and lifestyle! I hate that!! Does anyone else experience the same?"
In the words of 10cc
Money talks so listen to it
Money talks to me
Anyone can understand it
Money sets you free
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"My life has been fraught with people being enamoured by my money and lifestyle! I hate that!! Does anyone else experience the same?"
No wonder when you advertise and shout about it! Personally money doesn’t attract me and if you have to tell people how much you have in the bank it’s pretty shallow…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Money does not impress me
Giving up time for me and the small thoughtful things are far more precious
And I would much prefer chippy tea sat on the beach or bench than any fancy restaurant  |
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"If I stacked up all the pound coins that I had frittered away on wine women and song over the years, then I would just walk round it and find another way "
"If I had all the money I've spent on drink, I'd spend it on drink."
Sir Henry at Rawlinson End - Vivian Stanshall. |
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"Money does not impress me
Giving up time for me and the small thoughtful things are far more precious
And I would much prefer chippy tea sat on the beach or bench than any fancy restaurant "
The real question is, Salt/Vinger or plain?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Money does not impress me
Giving up time for me and the small thoughtful things are far more precious
And I would much prefer chippy tea sat on the beach or bench than any fancy restaurant
The real question is, Salt/Vinger or plain? "
Oh got to have salt and vinegar |
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"Money does not impress me
Giving up time for me and the small thoughtful things are far more precious
And I would much prefer chippy tea sat on the beach or bench than any fancy restaurant
The real question is, Salt/Vinger or plain?
Oh got to have salt and vinegar "
That's really the only acceptable thing to have! But not too much (as I found out to my distaste)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Money does not impress me
Giving up time for me and the small thoughtful things are far more precious
And I would much prefer chippy tea sat on the beach or bench than any fancy restaurant
The real question is, Salt/Vinger or plain?
Oh got to have salt and vinegar
That's really the only acceptable thing to have! But not too much (as I found out to my distaste) "
Lightweight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want to know what the reply was lol
Forum rules, can't say, but haven't actually opened it yet. I'm going to wait until he's offline then read it and mark it unread  "
This is my mood today |
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"Money does not impress me
Giving up time for me and the small thoughtful things are far more precious
And I would much prefer chippy tea sat on the beach or bench than any fancy restaurant
The real question is, Salt/Vinger or plain?
Oh got to have salt and vinegar
That's really the only acceptable thing to have! But not too much (as I found out to my distaste)
Lightweight "
Am I stil a lightweight if the tray is flooded with vinegar & there's a mini-mountain of salt on top?
In my defence, I was pranked when that happened.  |
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I've repeatedly turned someone down in the past because he was too wealthy. He was a nice guy, and quite possibly one of the most beautiful men that I've ever seen...and even though I'm far from the poverty line, I wouldn't have been able to pay my way at the type of places that he likes to eat at or frequent, and that just didn't sit comfortably with me. I wouldn't have wanted him to go to places that he didn't really enjoy purely for my benefit, and I like things to be equal (not in a rampant feminist way, more in an anti free ride way). Not all people are enamoured by money OP. |
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By *an4funMan
over a year ago
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" What have I just read...
Legit, no one gives a hoot about what you have. "
8 billion people on this planet. Some of those will give a hoot. Plenty of shallow people. We can only ever speak for ourselves |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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"Well I’m sat on a bench watching the clouds roll away and the sunny bit is becoming where I am.
I slept in my van. I met awesome people last night and we had breakfast together.
Money couldn’t improve this "
Sounds perfect
Wealth would never have any bearing on why I'd meet someone.
Maybe don't make a point of talking about it to potential meets if it's a problem.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love the novel "American Psycho" by Brett Easton Ellis. Anyone else read that?
I saw the movie, does that count? Lol"
There are bits in the book that would never make it into the movie |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"My life has been fraught with people being enamoured by my money and lifestyle! I hate that!! Does anyone else experience the same?"
I do OP, I have the same issues. But generally i dont come into the forums and declare it, generally due the the prejudices and judgements that come with it.
I'm not here to impress anyone and very successful at it.
As I have said in many threads, people would rather believe i lie than the truth. Keep it to yourself is the best advice to give |
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"I’m not sure if I should not care, or should. But…I think prejudice exists with wealth, which is a shame! I have spent my life trying to find love along with fun! "
Maybe if they couldn't see your wealth they wouldn't be 'enamoured' by your wealth...... You sure you know what 'enamoured' means ? |
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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago
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Op, you remind me of this! (LOL)
See link below:-
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ULeDlxa3gyc
By the way I'm not in the slightest bit jealous of you. I don't value materialism over people! |
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Something about camels and needles, can't remember if it's a camel through the needle or needle through the camel - either way it'll hurt. I have no idea of the relevance of this but it popped into my mind when someone brags about money |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My life has been fraught with people being enamoured by my money and lifestyle! I hate that!! Does anyone else experience the same?"
I'm intrigued by what's your net worth and what you're invested in |
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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago
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"My life has been fraught with people being enamoured by my money and lifestyle! I hate that!! Does anyone else experience the same?I'm intrigued by what's your net worth and what you're invested in "
Very good!
Cash rich or asset rich op? You seemed to have left that out! Oh do tell.....  |
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I dont think I've ever been attracted to someone initially by the size of their purse.
The fact you had to mention yours is well....just very vain lol
I guess some people of both sexes are swayed by a big bank balance, there's a name for them isn't there-gold diggers 
Personality and looks are far more important in my opinion |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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Never been a problem, don't have to boast about money to show wealth. The clothes people wear, the restaurants they eat in etc are all better indicators.
In my experience those that have money tend not to brag about it because they just take it for granted. |
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"I'm dirty stinking filthy rich with money dripping from my every orifice but do you think I tell people ? Do you think I'd ever mention it ? ...... of course not."
Did you miss out some comma's Granny?
Dirty, stinking, filthy, rich....
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"My life has been fraught with people being enamoured by my money and lifestyle! I hate that!! Does anyone else experience the same?"
I'm not wealthy or even "well off" but have met lovely people who are.
I'm interested in people as individuals not how much money they have or how well educated they think they are.
Do you show off your wealth in the same way as your Masters in law, that you feel the need to mention in your profile?
You maybe need to dial it down a bit, let people get to know you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What I love about those who are most likely the ones to brag about how loaded they ate and how fantastic life is is that they're often the ones who really aren't at all.
The £40k per year salary to go with the lower managemenent job where they're working stupid hours yet hated by those above and below them.
Mortgaged up to the eyeballs in a lego house on the new estate, car on finance but never serviced as they can't afford to look after it, credit cards maxed out and loans to cover everything from the garden furniture to the holiday in Majorca every year.
They look down on the plumber who takes home an easy £60k and has an actual fun life with good friends, lovely family and no debts or flashy car to speak of....ain't life grand when you look behind the facade of self proclaimed supposed wealth "
nail on head.
the wealthy dont need to shout about it, because they dont care what people think about thier bank balance.
some of the best people ive met dont have a pot to piss in, some of the worst people are loaded and dont shut up about it |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"It's a shame really but whatever the OP, in the posts, you can see the prejudices of people.
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Well it’s insensitive to most people, who don’t have too much, and face bigger problems. Sure the more have you worry about it just as much but differently - kids uni fees, healthcare bills, replacing the car , tax bill, amount of savings, but these are not quite the same as worrying about food, kids clothes and gas bills are they |
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I'm not looking to pay or be paid, so how much money someone has or how much stuff they have acquired is a matter of complete indifference to me.
You have a lot of money? Cool, good for you. But what makes your heart race? What are you passionate about? What are you geeky about? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not looking to pay or be paid, so how much money someone has or how much stuff they have acquired is a matter of complete indifference to me.
You have a lot of money? Cool, good for you. But what makes your heart race? What are you passionate about? What are you geeky about?"
money haha |
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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago
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"I want to know what the reply was lol
Forum rules, can't say, but haven't actually opened it yet. I'm going to wait until he's offline then read it and mark it unread "
Good thinking he will never know bet you the three million pound I have you won’t look at my profile |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
"My life has been fraught with people being enamoured by my money and lifestyle! I hate that!! Does anyone else experience the same?"
Dress like a penniless tram for a few days and experience how the other 90% live; especially when approaching women for a chat or a date.
Count your blessings!  |
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"I'm not looking to pay or be paid, so how much money someone has or how much stuff they have acquired is a matter of complete indifference to me.
You have a lot of money? Cool, good for you. But what makes your heart race? What are you passionate about? What are you geeky about?
money haha "
there's always one! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My life has been fraught with people being enamoured by my money and lifestyle! I hate that!! Does anyone else experience the same?"
Ammmmmmmmmm I'm trying to understand what you mean OP...Are you saying you're financially wealthy???
& Peeps are only attacted to you for your wealth???
Don't flaunt it then...simples |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's best to hide wealth as people change when they know "
I hide my wealth so well people often think I have fuck all when in fact I have less than fuck all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would suggest that you associate with people in similar circumstances. You can relate to each other and they would treat you on an equal basis.
You wouldn't need to hide your wealth nor what it has afforded you as everyone you know will be similarly well endowed, financially.
You can agonise over which ski resort would be better for the apres ski and what school you should opt for for your children. All very real issues but only for those in similar circumstances.
Alternatively, let others know you first without wealth being brought to bear. This site is perfect for that. They're not checking how deep your pockets are.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's best to hide wealth as people change when they know
I hide my wealth so well people often think I have fuck all when in fact I have less than fuck all "
Show off!! |
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I once went on a social from another site and the wife (when she stood on my foot) said ‘oh my god, my (fancy shoe brand)’ and didn’t even ask about my grazed foot.
Imagine valuing and bragging about your shoes more than just simply enjoying someone’s company and friendship |
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