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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m just curious on how come it’s so hard for men to get a meet on this site and if anyone would have any pointers for me could they chat with me and help out on things I could try or do I’m new to this scene and haven’t tried much and I just can’t seem to find a meet no matter what I try |
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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago
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Well....
My other half told me there's like hundreds of men to 1 woman.
She gets bombarded with messages (even though she's not active and her profile says don't).
I think it might help to have some public pictures?
Maybe fill out your profile more and post the verification?
You aren't alone.
All the best op
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"See when I do have pics up I get less replies and I’m limited to what I can post because I’ve a lot of tattoos so I’m easily reckonised "
Photo with a suit on, partially open necked white shirt (headless photo) maybe ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah so all I can really post is my cock then people ask why I do that I can’t post a body pic while staying discreet as my tattoos are very visable like on my hands neck chest etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m just curious on how come it’s so hard for men to get a meet on this site and if anyone would have any pointers for me could they chat with me and help out on things I could try or do I’m new to this scene and haven’t tried much and I just can’t seem to find a meet no matter what I try"
Think you need to te think your profile. It’s no different to hundreds of others. No pictures either which will most off. Best idea is to go to clubs and socials |
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It’s honestly quite easy.
No pictures, you’ll get no interest.
It doesn’t matter what excuse you have for not putting up pictures, it’s a site with absolutely loads of men and very few women. Those guys with pictures up, will be more successful than you !
So either take the advice given or not. As the only other solution is get yourself to a club or social as this site will be of no use. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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"See when I do have pics up I get less replies and I’m limited to what I can post because I’ve a lot of tattoos so I’m easily reckonised "
If I didn’t blur out my tattoos I would be recognised straight away - the blurring does work. Plus you could wear a shirt and pants or wrap a towel around you? Try it, what’s the worst that could happen  |
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Just go in a chat room to see the ratio of single guys to any other demographic...
I gave up trying to get meets now...mostly stay for shits n giggles....
Better than someone who giggles n shits... ? |
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"See when I do have pics up I get less replies and I’m limited to what I can post because I’ve a lot of tattoos so I’m easily reckonised "
Know that feeling! Been spotted by 2 at work this week but I'm ok with that! Long as they realize I dont have time to stand and chat lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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See I’ve tried to post pics before but someone has told my family members on multiple occasions that I’m on here so I don’t really trust it anymore and suit isn’t going to work I still have tattoos on my hands and neck |
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Firstly, for men it's a numbers issue - you outnumber others by a huge factor.
The typical advice for guys is to use your profile to sell yourself to the biggest possible extent. Some people look for single men, so any that don't stand out, get overlooked. If there are zero public pics, it's even worse  People need to find you attractive and a profile without pics has limited chance of being looked at.
Look for profile advice if you think you could improve.
Go to fab socials or clubs to get to know people, so it's not all fixed online. |
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"See I’ve tried to post pics before but someone has told my family members on multiple occasions that I’m on here so I don’t really trust it anymore and suit isn’t going to work I still have tattoos on my hands and neck "
Any pic is better than none. Even an unrecognisable part of your body is better than none. |
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"See I’ve tried to post pics before but someone has told my family members on multiple occasions that I’m on here so I don’t really trust it anymore and suit isn’t going to work I still have tattoos on my hands and neck "
Ahh ok get that if u dont want people knowing u here! My family know so not a problem x |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"See I’ve tried to post pics before but someone has told my family members on multiple occasions that I’m on here so I don’t really trust it anymore and suit isn’t going to work I still have tattoos on my hands and neck "
Post in the Ireland forum
Whats wrong with your family knowing you're on here...it's not illegal
Your profile is your shop window and you have your shutters down |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me I was concerned about public pics at first but then was like the only folk going to see me are folk in this site? Felt like if they’re here then they can’t judge me/ say anything for being here too? |
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"See I’ve tried to post pics before but someone has told my family members on multiple occasions that I’m on here so I don’t really trust it anymore and suit isn’t going to work I still have tattoos on my hands and neck "
You either take advice or ignore it, just don’t give excuses why you can’t do something.
Currently you have a blank profile with a bit of writing on it. The guys who are showing pictures and some of them even their faces are going to be more successful than you.
If a woman has endless choices on here, do you honestly think you stand out ?
Take the advice or not, go to clubs or not, it’s up to you. |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
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"For me I was concerned about public pics at first but then was like the only folk going to see me are folk in this site? Felt like if they’re here then they can’t judge me/ say anything for being here too? "
This!!! The only people who will see your pictures are people on here, there are privacy settings so you don't show up on websearches with your profile name.... And honestly this is no worse than other places to be seen on, you're a man looking for a woman same as any other site, you need to make yourself appealing to us |
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"See I’ve tried to post pics before but someone has told my family members on multiple occasions that I’m on here so I don’t really trust it anymore and suit isn’t going to work I still have tattoos on my hands and neck
You either take advice or ignore it, just don’t give excuses why you can’t do something.
Currently you have a blank profile with a bit of writing on it. The guys who are showing pictures and some of them even their faces are going to be more successful than you.
If a woman has endless choices on here, do you honestly think you stand out ?
Take the advice or not, go to clubs or not, it’s up to you. "
This 
Just excuses as to why you can’t. Everything is manageable if you want it to be. Download a picture editing app for yourself and play around with the pictures. You are not the first person on here with recognisable tattoos (I have some myself), and you certainly won’t be the last. |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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It is
1) Disproportionate amount of males here looking for easy sex
2) A lot of the females here are not interested in meeting only attention. You only need to read profiles and the forums to understand that 
3) The females that are looking, are looking to meet specific types of guys, which is not the average male on this site. It's not like Tesco Home Delivery - Substantiations are not accepted.
4) The majority of couples are looking for females fulfil their fantasies. Only a smaller number are actually looking to meet guys and only specific types of guys.
Given this there is only very small chance to meet anyone. So yes being hard here is such an understatement.
It is hard for couples also unless you are a guy of the couple and happy to sit in the bar while the other couple share your partner.
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