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It’s because fabs is very discriminatory against bi men when it comes to meeting couples or women
Lots of women and couples that out right refuse to meet bi men
So they just put straight in the profile and do what they want behind closed doors
The real question is why you seem to care so much?
Why can they even message you? There’s message filters, if you didn’t like it that much you’d use them.
Unless of course your taking part in the exact thing your complaining about? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s because fabs is very discriminatory against bi men when it comes to meeting couples or women
Lots of women and couples that out right refuse to meet bi men
So they just put straight in the profile and do what they want behind closed doors
The real question is why you seem to care so much?
Why can they even message you? There’s message filters, if you didn’t like it that much you’d use them.
Unless of course your taking part in the exact thing your complaining about? "
it wasn’t a complaint and it has intrigued me I just wasn’t aware it was so popular |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of men will list as straight because there is an element of prejudice against bi men. Seems to be a feeling that bi men are disease carrying super spreaders who don’t care who they fuck so are a huge risk.
I don’t agree with them listing as straight though and do mention it if they message me |
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Ask any TV how many straight guy profiles contact them on a daily or weekly basis, they’ll tell you quite a few. I actually added to my profile that I won’t respond to these messages anymore.
I understand why some Bi guys on even straight guys (who possibly want to experiment) may keep straight on their profiles as it will put off some couples or women on here. However the opposite can happen and those they’re interested in meeting can be put off if we are seen as someone’s dirty little secret.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this a new thing? Men seem to offer me bj and wank quite a lot on here the world has definitely changed in my time "
Lots of guys show straight on profile then seek out bj’s
It’s their choice but then it bends the rules and so many guys even myself at times have enquired… usually with a yes lol |
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By *arty84Man
over a year ago
Orpington |
"If I had a penny for every bj I've been offered, I'd have £1.27  "
That's actually still a lot!
But yup! not a big fan of these random messages from guys offering BJ's and rim jobs. What's worse it's usually one liners or less than a sentence messages!
Come on guys I might not be interested, but at least make an effort! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You do know you can block guys from messaging you? 
Yes, but if your trying to talk to other men in regards to other things like events or socials, then you need to have it turned off. "
Good point.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I had a penny for every bj I've been offered, I'd have £1.27
That's actually still a lot!
But yup! not a big fan of these random messages from guys offering BJ's and rim jobs. What's worse it's usually one liners or less than a sentence messages!
Come on guys I might not be interested, but at least make an effort! "
exactly, does help understand what kind of shit the women must get bombarded with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ask any TV how many straight guy profiles contact them on a daily or weekly basis, they’ll tell you quite a few. I actually added to my profile that I won’t respond to these messages anymore.
I understand why some Bi guys on even straight guys (who possibly want to experiment) may keep straight on their profiles as it will put off some couples or women on here. However the opposite can happen and those they’re interested in meeting can be put off if we are seen as someone’s dirty little secret. "
I would say 6/10 messages from here are from "Straight" guys |
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"A lot of men will list as straight because there is an element of prejudice against bi men. Seems to be a feeling that bi men are disease carrying super spreaders who don’t care who they fuck so are a huge risk.
I don’t agree with them listing as straight though and do mention it if they message me "
Another deceitful thing people do on fab then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve men blocked from messaging but it doesn’t stop a select few sniffing around my page on a daily basis  "
Why should it matter
You cant catch Gay by people looking at you.
Take it as a compliment
Block them if you have such an issue with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ask any TV how many straight guy profiles contact them on a daily or weekly basis, they’ll tell you quite a few. I actually added to my profile that I won’t respond to these messages anymore.
I understand why some Bi guys on even straight guys (who possibly want to experiment) may keep straight on their profiles as it will put off some couples or women on here. However the opposite can happen and those they’re interested in meeting can be put off if we are seen as someone’s dirty little secret. "
100% agree I always sed people would be shocked if us tv/ts open or mail box’s to the public |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes my filters are open for a reason. On profile it states twice . Not bi or bisexual. Yet still get messages from males to meet. Normally , reply perhaps in not pleasant way. Then block. "
You sound nice
No need to be a cunt to people. Just delete them or ignore them
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve men blocked from messaging but it doesn’t stop a select few sniffing around my page on a daily basis
Why should it matter
You cant catch Gay by people looking at you.
Take it as a compliment
Block them if you have such an issue with it"
Calm your tits fancy pants
when I see I’ve been fabbed I generally check and it’s usually an old fat hairy guy so yeah if they hang around too much they do get blocked and no I won’t take a compliment from a desperate old man
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes my filters are open for a reason. On profile it states twice . Not bi or bisexual. Yet still get messages from males to meet. Normally , reply perhaps in not pleasant way. Then block.
You sound nice
No need to be a cunt to people. Just delete them or ignore them
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Sorry op doing a little thread hi jacking for a second or two good to see your still around chloe hope all is well |
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"Is this a new thing? Men seem to offer me bj and wank quite a lot on here the world has definitely changed in my time "
It's not new. We couples who are only seeking straight guys get the same thing. Bi guys offering their services - some of them even claiming to be straight when they're clearly not.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes my filters are open for a reason. On profile it states twice . Not bi or bisexual. Yet still get messages from males to meet. Normally , reply perhaps in not pleasant way. Then block.
You sound nice
No need to be a cunt to people. Just delete them or ignore them
Sorry op doing a little thread hi jacking for a second or two good to see your still around chloe hope all is well"
Im pretty good thanks  . Hope you are doing well also xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes my filters are open for a reason. On profile it states twice . Not bi or bisexual. Yet still get messages from males to meet. Normally , reply perhaps in not pleasant way. Then block.
You sound nice
No need to be a cunt to people. Just delete them or ignore them
Sorry op doing a little thread hi jacking for a second or two good to see your still around chloe hope all is well
Im pretty good thanks . Hope you are doing well also xx"
Your welcome and good good I am good also thank you very much xx |
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By *-and-mCouple
over a year ago
Carlisle |
"Is this a new thing? Men seem to offer me bj and wank quite a lot on here the world has definitely changed in my time "
Always happy to oblige, love sucking a nice cock!! Straight gay or bi all the same to me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Could it be because there are so many men on fab? Its ‘easier’ to meet other men?
Some guys get off on trying to ‘turn’ straight guys…
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very good point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe its because a lot of guys say they are straight when they are not so some bi guys hit on straight profiles hoping to get one of those straight not so straight guys...lol |
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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago
Shoreditch east London |
Guilty as charged but like someone has already commented, I receive a fair amount from str8 guys who say on their profile "no single guys".
But it would be fair to say that people like to keep their options open |
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No truely straight man is interested in sexual contact of any kind with another man! The clue is in the name and the very definition of the term.
Men that claim otherwise are either bisexual, bi curious or gay.
No judgment, that's just fact.
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"Surely this will make them as bent as a 9 Bob note.
It's this kind of derogatory comment that makes guys hide their sexuality "
Not really it mean a straight isn't straight, it's as simple as that really! hardly derogatory |
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