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Do genuine guys actually stand a chance????
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, but there's massive competition. It's like going to a job interview with over 100 candidates."
fortunately 99 simply walk in say "gissus a job" and whack their cock out!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not one time, not even once did I make plans to meet a guy who said his profile was fake and that he never turns up for meets. Made plans with loads of "genuine" guy though and learned my fab lessons the hard way ;-p |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with a number of the comments before
1- guys far outnumber girls and wanting couples
2- many guys are not very eloquent on here and it seems quite basic
3 - many have no real experience and can’t show “ history”
4- some are just “ viewing” and no intent to meet
Add all that and it means we stand a chance — even us old real guys
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"We only chat to single guys but so many do actually ruin it for the genuine guys on here, first messages are so important on here x"
People only ruin it for themselves. If you have to remind people that you are genuine, nice or a gent it usually means your actions say otherwise or you aren't creating the impression you think you are.
Someone else's words or actions have no relevance on how others see me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We only chat to single guys but so many do actually ruin it for the genuine guys on here, first messages are so important on here x
People only ruin it for themselves. If you have to remind people that you are genuine, nice or a gent it usually means your actions say otherwise or you aren't creating the impression you think you are.
Someone else's words or actions have no relevance on how others see me. "
That is very true but sending copy and pasted messages to everyone and straight uo friend requests doesn't scream genuine to me, we have met so many decent single guys on here but we all know yous get tarred with the same brush. If you send a genuine one of message then I'll reply if not ill simply read and not reply, a little effort really goes a long way here x |
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Yes....you’ve just got to be patient and let those you engage with decide whether your the one.
It’s hard work and at times demoralising but it’s only a bit of fun.
Limit your time on line and try not to get down about the lack of interest.
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"Yes, but there's massive competition. It's like going to a job interview with over 100 candidates. fortunately 99 simply walk in say "gissus a job" and whack their cock out!
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Then get all upset when you say they aren't the right candidate for the position |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do genuine guys stand a chance? Fully appreciate we out number women......  "
Yes, but you you have to be patient and relax. Stop trying to find someone right now and simply enjoy being here. I don't know what it is, but when I stop trying I get more replies and often women and couples contact me first. So, relax. You are amongst people who understand that sex is an important part of their lives and there are many ways of expressing one's sexuality. You are amongst "your people" |
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"You have been on here 2 weeks,and you ask that question already.
To be fair he did say he'd been here before and rejoined. "
Fuck that, you know what .....we do not deserve any help or advice from anyone! because it never registers with us . We never change anything and in a week's time the same dipshits asking the same questions. The level of rejection it takes to turn straight men, into pansies is the reason why grindr has so many straight men on it . Everyone will put up with that shit there , and get laid in as many different ways as you can think of. Nothing to do with the fact... gay....bi....whatever, its that were all men
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Everyone knows on here now
You need to get good pictures
A good, interesting bio
You need to fully read and understand their profile
Then spend a few hours crafting the perfect first Message
You want a touch of humour with equal parts intrigue.
You want them to know what your about, but leave them wanting more
And you need to include a recent face picture
And above all else, be respectful and polite
Send that bad boy off and wait for it to never be opened in the sea of “FAF” messages and then eventually get bulk deleted |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone knows on here now
You need to get good pictures
A good, interesting bio
You need to fully read and understand their profile
Then spend a few hours crafting the perfect first Message
You want a touch of humour with equal parts intrigue.
You want them to know what your about, but leave them wanting more
And you need to include a recent face picture
And above all else, be respectful and polite
Send that bad boy off and wait for it to never be opened in the sea of “FAF” messages and then eventually get bulk deleted "
I'd say the subject needs working.
And make it clear the pic ain't a dick!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do genuine guys stand a chance? Fully appreciate we out number women...... yes but its hard work on here "
It's not hard work here, people just expect results with little to no efforts. Same can be said in all walks of life. |
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"It’s not easy for us finding the genuine ones either!
Heh...
What does genuine on here even mean. "
To me. Genuinely nice. No bullshit, says it how it is. Doesn’t lie. Has respect etc etc etc.
Dunno how others interpret it x |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"I agree with a number of the comments before
1- guys far outnumber girls and wanting couples
2- many guys are not very eloquent on here and it seems quite basic
3 - many have no real experience and can’t show “ history”
4- some are just “ viewing” and no intent to meet
Add all that and it means we stand a chance — even us old real guys
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I is having a real shag what 2 and 3, but i is have my certificates of my acomplishings of sex performance over this years. Do that mean i gets to shags |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s not easy for us finding the genuine ones either!
Heh...
What does genuine on here even mean.
To me. Genuinely nice. No bullshit, says it how it is. Doesn’t lie. Has respect etc etc etc.
Dunno how others interpret it x"
Doesn't lie for sure. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ones that read my profile have a chance 
You'd think first sentence would be enough  
I know right I’m genuinely baffled…. "
That's my default state of mind here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree with a number of the comments before
1- guys far outnumber girls and wanting couples
2- many guys are not very eloquent on here and it seems quite basic
3 - many have no real experience and can’t show “ history”
4- some are just “ viewing” and no intent to meet
Add all that and it means we stand a chance — even us old real guys
I is having a real shag what 2 and 3, but i is have my certificates of my acomplishings of sex performance over this years. Do that mean i gets to shags "
Is that old English? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You have been on here 2 weeks,and you ask that question already.
To be fair he did say he'd been here before and rejoined.
Fuck that, you know what .....we do not deserve any help or advice from anyone! because it never registers with us . We never change anything and in a week's time the same dipshits asking the same questions. The level of rejection it takes to turn straight men, into pansies is the reason why grindr has so many straight men on it . Everyone will put up with that shit there , and get laid in as many different ways as you can think of. Nothing to do with the fact... gay....bi....whatever, its that were all men
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I do wonder wether there is a higher rate of successful meets on male only sites…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ones that read my profile have a chance
You'd think first sentence would be enough
I know right I’m genuinely baffled….
That's my default state of mind here.
Just here?!? "
Fine. Im coming for a sleepover so you can make comparison notes. |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"I agree with a number of the comments before
1- guys far outnumber girls and wanting couples
2- many guys are not very eloquent on here and it seems quite basic
3 - many have no real experience and can’t show “ history”
4- some are just “ viewing” and no intent to meet
Add all that and it means we stand a chance — even us old real guys
I is having a real shag what 2 and 3, but i is have my certificates of my acomplishings of sex performance over this years. Do that mean i gets to shags
Is that old English? "
Any engish I speak these days is old |
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"Ones that read my profile have a chance
You'd think first sentence would be enough
I know right I’m genuinely baffled….
That's my default state of mind here.
Just here?!?
Fine. Im coming for a sleepover so you can make comparison notes. "
anytime crazy lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do genuine guys stand a chance? Fully appreciate we out number women...... "
No.
Way too many men on the site that don't behave accordingly, which leaves the men guilty by association.
Age and looks play either against or for a person.
Take it on the chin and treat people as you'd like to be treated yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ones that read my profile have a chance
You'd think first sentence would be enough
I know right I’m genuinely baffled….
That's my default state of mind here.
Just here?!?
Fine. Im coming for a sleepover so you can make comparison notes.
anytime crazy lady"
I reckon 12th Dec. |
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"It’s not easy for us finding the genuine ones either!
It's the ones that say "genuine" in their profiles. You're welcome 
Tsk ... really should read the profiles Nora  "
Genuine discreet professional quality not quantity
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"It’s not easy for us finding the genuine ones either!
It's the ones that say "genuine" in their profiles. You're welcome
Tsk ... really should read the profiles Nora
Genuine discreet professional quality not quantity
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See you read ours .. oh .. wait |
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““”” Way too many men on the site that don't behave accordingly, which leaves the men guilty by association.”””””
This is sad but true.
We now only use here to keep in touch with people we already know.
We have arranged to meet single men and never had one turn up.
100% no show is hard to argue with. |
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"““”” Way too many men on the site that don't behave accordingly, which leaves the men guilty by association.”””””
This is sad but true.
We now only use here to keep in touch with people we already know.
We have arranged to meet single men and never had one turn up.
100% no show is hard to argue with. "
Read this and all I thought of was Metallica... Haha |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"It’s not easy for us finding the genuine ones either!
Yeah. It must be really hard.
Oh shush you . You know what I mean x"
I suppose now you know me, a little, it must be even harder to find another guy like me, but one you fancy.  |
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"It’s not easy for us finding the genuine ones either!
Yeah. It must be really hard.
Oh shush you . You know what I mean x
I suppose now you know me, a little, it must be even harder to find another guy like me, but one you fancy. "
Chunks I don’t fancy anyone! Lol. But I do loves you  |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"It’s not easy for us finding the genuine ones either!
Yeah. It must be really hard.
Oh shush you . You know what I mean x
I suppose now you know me, a little, it must be even harder to find another guy like me, but one you fancy.
Chunks I don’t fancy anyone! Lol. But I do loves you "
I know, I'm adorable.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Two types of people call themselves genuine - genuine ones and no genuine ones
Funnily enough same with honesty….it’s meaningless when you’re describing yourself! |
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"Do genuine guys stand a chance? Fully appreciate we out number women......
Yes, but you you have to be patient and relax. Stop trying to find someone right now and simply enjoy being here. I don't know what it is, but when I stop trying I get more replies and often women and couples contact me first. So, relax. You are amongst people who understand that sex is an important part of their lives and there are many ways of expressing one's sexuality. You are amongst "your people" "
I totally agree, trying too hard can make you seem desperate and that puts people off. Relax and be patient, you will definitely get there. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"Two types of people call themselves genuine - genuine ones and no genuine ones
Funnily enough same with honesty….it’s meaningless when you’re describing yourself!"
That depends if they are genuine in how they describe themselves. |
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