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Any advice for getting more messages and replies

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Been here for a while now, changed my profile a lot, added photos, probably not as frequent as I should and send out loads of messages. Very few replies, some view my profile but no messages at all.

Anything I'm doing wrong is or it just perservence?

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By *ekkatransTV/TS over a year ago

Scarborough

Maybe not so many dick pics, just my observation.

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple over a year ago

"Been here for a while now, changed my profile a lot, added photos, probably not as frequent as I should and send out loads of messages. Very few replies, some view my profile but no messages at all.

Anything I'm doing wrong is or it just perservence? "

When you say you have a family, does that include a wife??

A lot of people have very little respect for cheats.

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By *oreThanCurvyWoman over a year ago

Bucks

I don't usually reply when someone lives too far from me or I don't fancy the person.

I tried to be nice and used to reply to each message, but found that many men were so pushy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I only message those local to me usually within 20 miles. Anything beyond I know might not get replies anyway.

Thanks for being honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

No, have grown up kids who live with me. Wife no longer alive. Didn't want to put that detail on my profile.

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By *partharmonyCouple over a year ago

Ruislip

Are your messages worth replying to? Most guys who write to us presumably think theirs are but the majority are not.

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By *ardinal FangMan over a year ago

Sandy

"No, have grown up kids who live with me. Wife no longer alive. Didn't want to put that detail on my profile."

I’d say a simple mention that you are a widower in the opening para would clear up any confusion without going into any detail.

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