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By *afia Man OP Man over a year ago

Somewhereovertherainbow

can someone tell me why the majority of people on here are time wasters??? for example, you exchange some messages, then exchange numbers, have some banter on the phone, then when it comes down to meeting they disappear into oblivion??? WTF is wrong with the majority??? i say the majority because in my case it is the majority!!!

anyone got a reasonable explaination for this because i cant be the only one experiencing this...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They are not there are tons that chat meet and have fun. Maybe its you or something you do.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Majority?? What are you basing your facts on? In your experience it may be the majority doesnt mean its the majority on the site.

Have you looked at your vetting process if your getting more than your fair share of no meets

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By *atisfy janeWoman over a year ago

Torquay

They decide you are not for them....and that makes them a timewaster?

Whatever happened to personal preference and freedom of choice?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

maybe they're afraid of ur connections..

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By *ackandkateCouple over a year ago

Truro

make 'em an offer they can't refuse

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By *hetalkingstoveMan over a year ago

London

Some people get cold feet. It's frustrating but what can you do? A bit of chat doesn't mean a person is obliged to meet.

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By *atisfy janeWoman over a year ago

Torquay

Maybe the thought of waking up with a horses head on their pillow doesn't appeal to them?......

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"maybe they're afraid of ur connections.."

Yeah, a horses head in the bed is a bit worrying.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you putting too much pressure on them to meet?

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Maybe the thought of waking up with a horses head on their pillow doesn't appeal to them?......"

Gah, you got there first!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If its happening more often than not maybe the problem lies with you and not 'the majority'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe the thought of waking up with a horses head on their pillow doesn't appeal to them?......"

Hahaaa

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

But to respond to the OPs question, no time is wasted until you're sat waiting for someone who forgot to tell you they're not turning up. Until then its a challenge.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I cant stand these timewasters either...reading this porn mag and am on the centerfold...her muffs all juicy..yet shes still timewasting by not sucking my cock...think I'll just hate fuck her face

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By *atisfy janeWoman over a year ago

Torquay

"But to respond to the OPs question, no time is wasted until you're sat waiting for someone who forgot to tell you they're not turning up. Until then its a challenge.

Perfectly put.....

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"can someone tell me why the majority of people on here are time wasters??? for example, you exchange some messages, then exchange numbers, have some banter on the phone, then when it comes down to meeting they disappear into oblivion??? WTF is wrong with the majority??? i say the majority because in my case it is the majority!!!

anyone got a reasonable explaination for this because i cant be the only one experiencing this..."

You joined on recommendations of friends who were having fun so you know the site works. Therefore...it's you!

Just saying!

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By *afia Man OP Man over a year ago

Somewhereovertherainbow

wow, i didnt think this many people would respond...

i can safely say that noone i am referring to has posted in this thread.

i am just introducing myself, where i live, making a reference to something on their profile and commenting on a pic they have and mainly asking for a social meet for some drinks then whatever else happens happens, if i get a positive response i ask if they want to exchange numbers or i put forward mine, numbers are exchanged and either 1) i hear nothing ever again

2) then we chat a bit and for some strange reason they disappear

3) they keep chatting rubbish about always being busy

4) a meet is arranged and on the day some spectacular event has happened in their life and they cant make it

does this clarify for everyone what im doing???

now do you have any suggestions for me you kind fab people???

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By *afia Man OP Man over a year ago

Somewhereovertherainbow

funnily enough my friends that recommended fab are both black, and for some reason blacks are in great demand on fab as i have come to realise over time, so maybe 'its coz i is not blak' LOL

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"funnily enough my friends that recommended fab are both black, and for some reason blacks are in great demand on fab as i have come to realise over time, so maybe 'its coz i is not blak' LOL"
Maybe its deeper than that?

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