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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Deffo not, they have extended shooting sessions , they blast them with supplements to make sure they stay hard, they stop if make up isn’t right or scene isn’t right.
So no, also porn is part culprit of twisting peoples minds thinking that to have sex, it has to be like a porno …
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"Deffo not, they have extended shooting sessions , they blast them with supplements to make sure they stay hard, they stop if make up isn’t right or scene isn’t right.
So no, also porn is part culprit of twisting peoples minds thinking that to have sex, it has to be like a porno …
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No its not the same, porn always looks perfect, the faces are sexy , the bodies are gorgeous, the noises just right
Real sex is sweaty, messy, and at times not very pretty but I know which one I'd prefer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not even close to the real thing is you want to wasted porn forever
Search BTS or behind the scenes and pro porn will be wasted for ever
AM stuff is as real as it gets of am hub or hamster models it’s why they flying off the handle |
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Problem now is that porn is so common place and easy to access people think that it's the norm. Back in the late 90s when Hard-core films were illegal (basically just fucking) no-one was into sloppy head, squirting, ch0king. Porn made it seem acceptable or the norm. Wonder how long before every other message I get on here is someone after am Alberta chilli bowl ;-p |
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To me a lot of mainstream porn from the industry is staged, awkward (I’m sorry but some of the positions they do to get camera angles just look uncomfortable) and over the top. There are exceptions, but I find it less and less of a turn on. There’s no chemistry, no realism. It’s boring.
As has also been pointed out, it creates an unrealistic understanding of sex amongst some people, particularly young men, which causes problems when they try to have sex for real.
Amateur content, made and edited by the people themselves, is the way forward. People who have a genuine connection and who are properly into it, not four hours into an all-day shoot and only able to fuck because they’ve being pumped full of viagra and then had a gallon of lube added. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No its not the same, porn always looks perfect, the faces are sexy , the bodies are gorgeous, the noises just right
Real sex is sweaty, messy, and at times not very pretty but I know which one I'd prefer"
Exactly! X I totes agree |
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"No, and it probably gives unrealistic expectations to youngsters. Unless it's amateurs  "
Agreed. I avoid professional porn as much as possible. Love amateur porn where you can see true pleasure being enjoyed. Nothing softens a cock like a fake moan.... |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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There's a really good illustration which highlights the difference between porn and real life sex; including lack of fanny farts, mishaps like falling off a bed or leg cramps, period sex, laughter, bodies that jiggle...
It's idealised isn't it? It's not good some people believe that's what sex should be like, no checking in how things are, very heavily a male gaze. I don't even buy into amateur porn a lot of the time - who wears a full face of makeup and just happens to be wearing sexy lingerie when they have sex with their husband? |
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"Deffo not, they have extended shooting sessions , they blast them with supplements to make sure they stay hard, they stop if make up isn’t right or scene isn’t right.
So no, also porn is part culprit of twisting peoples minds thinking that to have sex, it has to be like a porno …
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"I would say yes and no. I would say that the main difference is that with porn, it is staged and clinical where there are next to no mistakes, what things can you list?  "
Porn is nothing like real sex it is fakery to the highest order. Nothing about porn is genuine, even the sounds are dubbed.
Simple shagging scene can take several hours to film. It is done piecemeal each shot is done separately then stitched together so it looks like single seamless scene.
There lies the problem, most guys and i guess girls come onto a site like this with completely false concept of what sex is because if spoonfed porn images.
Even the expectations of how someone should dress/looks on a meet is often determined by images from porn for many.
So porn is the single biggest scam, mother all scams  . The industry is very good at it
It also has a dark side which can elicit dangerous scenarios based on fakery.
This is not anti porn just simply that you have to detach the fakery and fantasy from reality. No porn isn't like real sex but that is often what people are looking for and expecting, wich has its own ramifications also, people try and re-enact.
If i meet and was someone trying to re-enact born imagery it would be a real off put |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sadly I've never got stuck in the washing machine or under the bed whilst doing housework for a hunky tradesman to find my bare arse hanging in the air to put his penis in.
Maybe one day |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sadly I've never got stuck in the washing machine or under the bed whilst doing housework for a hunky tradesman to find my bare arse hanging in the air to put his penis in.
Maybe one day"
 it’s funny the stuck in the washer machine lol
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By *ubyRonCouple
over a year ago
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"Sadly I've never got stuck in the washing machine or under the bed whilst doing housework for a hunky tradesman to find my bare arse hanging in the air to put his penis in.
Maybe one day"
But have you tried?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sadly I've never got stuck in the washing machine or under the bed whilst doing housework for a hunky tradesman to find my bare arse hanging in the air to put his penis in.
Maybe one day"
What are you doing step-plumber? |
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over a year ago
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"I would say yes and no. I would say that the main difference is that with porn, it is staged and clinical where there are next to no mistakes, what things can you list? "
I would say it is and it isn’t, for example it is in the sense that a penis penetrates a vagina, but it isn’t in the sense that a woman is never that flexible and there’s not usually a man holding a boom mike just over your head.
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"I would say yes and no. I would say that the main difference is that with porn, it is staged and clinical where there are next to no mistakes, what things can you list?
I would say it is and it isn’t, for example it is in the sense that a penis penetrates a vagina, but it isn’t in the sense that a woman is never that flexible and there’s not usually a man holding a boom mike just over your head.
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Then why in the holy hell is Mike the sound guy in my bedroom? |
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It’d be nice if it showed women getting oral for more than two minutes before it’s proceeds to a ten min blow job.
Also if it finished with a woman actually having an orgasm, instead of the fella cumming, did the woman actually cum? |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"I would say yes and no. I would say that the main difference is that with porn, it is staged and clinical where there are next to no mistakes, what things can you list? "
Its fake, dangerous and can lead to unrealistic expectations.
As long as you understand that, it can be a fun sex aid. If you cannot separate fact from fiction then it can be harmful.
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"I would say yes and no. I would say that the main difference is that with porn, it is staged and clinical where there are next to no mistakes, what things can you list?
I would say it is and it isn’t, for example it is in the sense that a penis penetrates a vagina, but it isn’t in the sense that a woman is never that flexible and there’s not usually a man holding a boom mike just over your head.
Then why in the holy hell is Mike the sound guy in my bedroom? "
I sent him ahead.... I'm just interviewing the camera guys now  |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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Nope. Nobody happily straddles a guy on a pleather sofa with high heels digging in with a devil may care look in their eye.
They’re usually hot footing it on to the DFS pleather repair line shooting daggers at the devil dick and crying at the repair cost. |
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"I would say yes and no. I would say that the main difference is that with porn, it is staged and clinical where there are next to no mistakes, what things can you list?
Its fake, dangerous and can lead to unrealistic expectations.
As long as you understand that, it can be a fun sex aid. If you cannot separate fact from fiction then it can be harmful.
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I will not make a step mum joke  |
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"I would say yes and no. I would say that the main difference is that with porn, it is staged and clinical where there are next to no mistakes, what things can you list?
I would say it is and it isn’t, for example it is in the sense that a penis penetrates a vagina, but it isn’t in the sense that a woman is never that flexible and there’s not usually a man holding a boom mike just over your head.
Then why in the holy hell is Mike the sound guy in my bedroom?
I sent him ahead.... I'm just interviewing the camera guys now "
That explains it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just watched some before, a cursory half hearted lick of her for about 10 seconds then 10 minutes of her sucking him, followed by about 5 minutes of fucking.
I thought no wonder women have trouble Cumming and sex doesn't last long!  |
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Not all porn is the same. And there is a growing movement of better porn out there which is exciting.
However in response to the question porn is not like sex. Because we rarely have a full film crew capturing us in the act and unless we're at a club nobody seems to throw together a free buffet for us to enjoy between acts (which is a huge shame). |
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over a year ago
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"I would say yes and no. I would say that the main difference is that with porn, it is staged and clinical where there are next to no mistakes, what things can you list? "
I’m confused pal ?
Where is the grey area here?
Simple answer is yes ? |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"Not all porn is the same. And there is a growing movement of better porn out there which is exciting.
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There is no such thing as better porn This is just the industry remarketing itseft to try and make itself more highbrow.
Better porn is just its own marketing version of craft beer.
Porn is porn it is designed to create fantasies and take our money. It is still fakery.
Just trying to convice others its just better fakery, and it is better than the other porn.
Bit like posting in the forums, putting professional on a profile.
It is still porn
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"Not all porn is the same. And there is a growing movement of better porn out there which is exciting.
There is no such thing as better porn This is just the industry remarketing itseft to try and make itself more highbrow.
Better porn is just its own marketing version of craft beer.
Porn is porn it is designed to create fantasies and take our money. It is still fakery.
Just trying to convice others its just better fakery, and it is better than the other porn.
Bit like posting in the forums, putting professional on a profile.
It is still porn
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No not really if it's real! Porn films are like actors to an extent, Not everyone here is fake we don't hide our profile.  |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"Not all porn is the same. And there is a growing movement of better porn out there which is exciting.
There is no such thing as better porn This is just the industry remarketing itseft to try and make itself more highbrow.
Better porn is just its own marketing version of craft beer.
Porn is porn it is designed to create fantasies and take our money. It is still fakery.
Just trying to convice others its just better fakery, and it is better than the other porn.
Bit like posting in the forums, putting professional on a profile.
It is still porn
No not really if it's real! Porn films are like actors to an extent, Not everyone here is fake we don't hide our profile. "
Of course i'm fake, I'm not real male on a male profile. I'm a bott, an AI glitch. An anomaly.
I am totally fake
Although i was refering to actully the the comment about "about better porn" is just the porn industry is using this to remarket itself as being something better . Like people do in the forums, why they put professional on their profiles.
"Better Porn" is just an upsell of porn , but it is still porn and fakery. If you believe it is anythig other then the remarketing worked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the main difference is that you never see the guy check in with the woman, or vice versa. You never see consent checking, or just well-being checking. The "is this ok?" questions. It makes it a bad example for young people i think.
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"Not all porn is the same. And there is a growing movement of better porn out there which is exciting.
There is no such thing as better porn This is just the industry remarketing itseft to try and make itself more highbrow.
Better porn is just its own marketing version of craft beer.
Porn is porn it is designed to create fantasies and take our money. It is still fakery.
Just trying to convice others its just better fakery, and it is better than the other porn.
Bit like posting in the forums, putting professional on a profile.
It is still porn
No not really if it's real! Porn films are like actors to an extent, Not everyone here is fake we don't hide our profile.
Of course i'm fake, I'm not real male on a male profile. I'm a bott, an AI glitch. An anomaly.
I am totally fake
Although i was refering to actully the the comment about "about better porn" is just the porn industry is using this to remarket itself as being something better . Like people do in the forums, why they put professional on their profiles.
"Better Porn" is just an upsell of porn , but it is still porn and fakery. If you believe it is anythig other then the remarketing worked "
Never meant you! I meant the porn some of us make is real and not fake exaggerated moans or squeals. Some sound like screaming banshees smd the guys with the viagra hahahaha |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"Not all porn is the same. And there is a growing movement of better porn out there which is exciting.
There is no such thing as better porn This is just the industry remarketing itseft to try and make itself more highbrow.
Better porn is just its own marketing version of craft beer.
Porn is porn it is designed to create fantasies and take our money. It is still fakery.
Just trying to convice others its just better fakery, and it is better than the other porn.
Bit like posting in the forums, putting professional on a profile.
It is still porn
No not really if it's real! Porn films are like actors to an extent, Not everyone here is fake we don't hide our profile.
Of course i'm fake, I'm not real male on a male profile. I'm a bott, an AI glitch. An anomaly.
I am totally fake
Although i was refering to actully the the comment about "about better porn" is just the porn industry is using this to remarket itself as being something better . Like people do in the forums, why they put professional on their profiles.
"Better Porn" is just an upsell of porn , but it is still porn and fakery. If you believe it is anythig other then the remarketing worked Never meant you! I meant the porn some of us make is real and not fake exaggerated moans or squeals. Some sound like screaming banshees smd the guys with the viagra hahahaha "
Also the things you dont see in porn films is the guy stood in the corner tugging on his todger to stop it going flacid between scenes while they are retouching the fems makeup, when he fails its a wrap for the day |
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"Not all porn is the same. And there is a growing movement of better porn out there which is exciting.
There is no such thing as better porn This is just the industry remarketing itseft to try and make itself more highbrow.
Better porn is just its own marketing version of craft beer.
Porn is porn it is designed to create fantasies and take our money. It is still fakery.
Just trying to convice others its just better fakery, and it is better than the other porn.
Bit like posting in the forums, putting professional on a profile.
It is still porn
No not really if it's real! Porn films are like actors to an extent, Not everyone here is fake we don't hide our profile.
Of course i'm fake, I'm not real male on a male profile. I'm a bott, an AI glitch. An anomaly.
I am totally fake
Although i was refering to actully the the comment about "about better porn" is just the porn industry is using this to remarket itself as being something better . Like people do in the forums, why they put professional on their profiles.
"Better Porn" is just an upsell of porn , but it is still porn and fakery. If you believe it is anythig other then the remarketing worked Never meant you! I meant the porn some of us make is real and not fake exaggerated moans or squeals. Some sound like screaming banshees smd the guys with the viagra hahahaha
Also the things you dont see in porn films is the guy stood in the corner tugging on his todger to stop it going flacid between scenes while they are retouching the fems makeup, when he fails its a wrap for the day "
Hilarious! Sweetie best touch up the mascara and lippy. Oh the winkle has gone floppy cut! Hahaha : |
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"Not all porn is the same. And there is a growing movement of better porn out there which is exciting.
There is no such thing as better porn This is just the industry remarketing itseft to try and make itself more highbrow.
Better porn is just its own marketing version of craft beer.
Porn is porn it is designed to create fantasies and take our money. It is still fakery.
Just trying to convice others its just better fakery, and it is better than the other porn.
Bit like posting in the forums, putting professional on a profile.
It is still porn
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No such thing as better porn? Granted the content and directing that people like is subjective. But in terms of the improved conditions, care for the actors and the focus more on trying to remove explotative pracrises? That alone surely most will see as better. Even if you don't like porn where the focus is to create something away from the stereotypical, with more sensitivity and focus for ethical portrayal and for a wider audience and genders. Yes you can claim its an upsell. In the same way you can claim fair trade coffee is an upsell of coffee from sources with no protection or ethics guidelines. Up sell or providing a choice on the market with better ethical guidelines and sensitivity in directing, its semantics really.
And obviously we know its not the same hense the other half our post that you've cut out.
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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"Not all porn is the same. And there is a growing movement of better porn out there which is exciting.
There is no such thing as better porn This is just the industry remarketing itseft to try and make itself more highbrow.
Better porn is just its own marketing version of craft beer.
Porn is porn it is designed to create fantasies and take our money. It is still fakery.
Just trying to convice others its just better fakery, and it is better than the other porn.
Bit like posting in the forums, putting professional on a profile.
It is still porn
No such thing as better porn? Granted the content and directing that people like is subjective. But in terms of the improved conditions, care for the actors and the focus more on trying to remove explotative pracrises? That alone surely most will see as better. Even if you don't like porn where the focus is to create something away from the stereotypical, with more sensitivity and focus for ethical portrayal and for a wider audience and genders. Yes you can claim its an upsell. In the same way you can claim fair trade coffee is an upsell of coffee from sources with no protection or ethics guidelines. Up sell or providing a choice on the market with better ethical guidelines and sensitivity in directing, its semantics really.
And obviously we know its not the same hense the other half our post that you've cut out.
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Porn has changed around practices and has improved, but the point was simply that porn is not real sex. For all the changes it's still porn and it fakery to create fantasies and give people false expectations, unfortunately people can't detach themselves from the fantasy.
Nothing against porn, good the practices are changing but it's still not the same as real sex and the context of OPs question. It is still porn calling it "better porn" is just an upsell marketing to try and apeal to a different demography and income source
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"Not all porn is the same. And there is a growing movement of better porn out there which is exciting.
There is no such thing as better porn This is just the industry remarketing itseft to try and make itself more highbrow.
Better porn is just its own marketing version of craft beer.
Porn is porn it is designed to create fantasies and take our money. It is still fakery.
Just trying to convice others its just better fakery, and it is better than the other porn.
Bit like posting in the forums, putting professional on a profile.
It is still porn
No such thing as better porn? Granted the content and directing that people like is subjective. But in terms of the improved conditions, care for the actors and the focus more on trying to remove explotative pracrises? That alone surely most will see as better. Even if you don't like porn where the focus is to create something away from the stereotypical, with more sensitivity and focus for ethical portrayal and for a wider audience and genders. Yes you can claim its an upsell. In the same way you can claim fair trade coffee is an upsell of coffee from sources with no protection or ethics guidelines. Up sell or providing a choice on the market with better ethical guidelines and sensitivity in directing, its semantics really.
And obviously we know its not the same hense the other half our post that you've cut out.
Porn has changed around practices and has improved, but the point was simply that porn is not real sex. For all the changes it's still porn and it fakery to create fantasies and give people false expectations, unfortunately people can't detach themselves from the fantasy.
Nothing against porn, good the practices are changing but it's still not the same as real sex and the context of OPs question. It is still porn calling it "better porn" is just an upsell marketing to try and apeal to a different demography and income source
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Yes to be fair in our original comment we know its not the same (who doesn't). The bit you've omitted. Just as a sideline also added not all porn is the same in terms of direction or practices.
Better practices and ethics are better practices and ethics. Although I recognised porn generally has improved broadly over the industry not a all porn is equal in terms of ethics and direction. And there is still a lot of dodginess and bad practices going around. It's like fair trade products and non fair trade products yes part incentivised by offering a different product that some people (and maybe new markets) like but doesn't negate what is being offered is better. It's disingenuous to just palm it off as an up sell. |
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What differences are there?
I'll start with communication.
In porn "no" means do what you want anyway and I'll take it like the good little slut I am, subservient and under the spell of the cock I desire so much I'll sell my soul for.
Don't see them stop for a drink or a piss.
Never heard a belly rumble or seen people fall about laughing over a fanny fart, cramp, or anything else for that matter.
Can't say I've ever heard neighbours arguing, kids crying, pet scratching on the door or other "usual" housey things
Oh, and the woman always cums |
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"Why would anyone expect it to be like real life? They are films, entertainment....
I mean .... do you think wizard schools really look like Hogwarts? "
What hogwarts isn’t real you have just ruined Harry Potter for me
Next your going to tell me the Easter bunny isn’t real
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Some porn is real sex... There's a certain female porn star & you just know the sex is real...she records most of her own material or her hubby does it
It can be quite difficult at times acting on a porn movie set...the lighting can be too hot...too many film crew around & so called crew extras...& The pressure on the guy to remain fully erect through our can be too much at times... There's alot of cutting & editing involved in some pornos obvs |
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"Some porn is real sex... There's a certain female porn star & you just know the sex is real...she records most of her own material or her hubby does it
It can be quite difficult at times acting on a porn movie set...the lighting can be too hot...too many film crew around & so called crew extras...& The pressure on the guy to remain fully erect through our can be too much at times... There's alot of cutting & editing involved in some pornos obvs"
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No. It's porn sex, which is totally different, typically including ways of having sex that haven't been standard for most people. The actors are professional, skilled and shoots can take days - as ling as needed - making a few minutes contain unrealistic activities. |
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"It’d be nice if it showed women getting oral for more than two minutes before it’s proceeds to a ten min blow job.
Also if it finished with a woman actually having an orgasm, instead of the fella cumming, did the woman actually cum? "
From the dryness of some of them no or enjoying it  |
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Porn has given men the impression that women enjoy very rough fingering, minimal oral, hard anal and having their fanny banged as hard as possible. Maybe some women enjoy this. I personally find it all a bit painful and once I’ve felt pain, I dry like a crisp packet and clench up.
It teaches them to bite, bite nipples, slap arses hard and repetitively. I think men think this makes them amazing in bed. It doesn’t.
Where is the skill? |
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"Porn has given men the impression that women enjoy very rough fingering, minimal oral, hard anal and having their fanny banged as hard as possible. Maybe some women enjoy this. I personally find it all a bit painful and once I’ve felt pain, I dry like a crisp packet and clench up.
It teaches them to bite, bite nipples, slap arses hard and repetitively. I think men think this makes them amazing in bed. It doesn’t.
Where is the skill? "
Trust me not all men think this way !
That’s easy
The hard part is pulling off the subtle things
But it’s never talked about |
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