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Iv seen a couple of people asking the question on their profile and recently have given it some thoughts myself
After all I’m single, I’ll have something in common to start with been on here
Surely it’ll be easier than a dating site, been on them and met people but as soon as you mention sex (and not within the first 5 mins lol) they run away |
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It can be OP.
I'm of the mindset that you can't look for a relationship, all you can do is put yourself in a position to meet new people and see if you click with anyone...and, to me at least, this place is as good as any other to meet new people. At the very least there's a good chance that you've got a similar mindset regarding sex.
Plenty of people have had relationships with people that they met on here...some were fleeting, and others more long term, just like relationships in general.
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I can't see any reason not to look for a relationship on here if you're a single man. Were I to be looking as a single woman though I'd avoid on line dating altogether and especially sites like this
I know the majority of single men are genuinely nice guys with no ulterior motive but from what I see and read there are enough who will exploit any vulnerability and have certain views on women who enjoy sex freely to make me feel very cynical. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"It can be OP.
I'm of the mindset that you can't look for a relationship, all you can do is put yourself in a position to meet new people and see if you click with anyone...and, to me at least, this place is as good as any other to meet new people. At the very least there's a good chance that you've got a similar mindset regarding sex.
Plenty of people have had relationships with people that they met on here...some were fleeting, and others more long term, just like relationships in general.
Good luck in your search "
^ this. As long as you're honest and open, it's as good a place as any really, with the benefit of already being sexually open. |
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We met on here.
I think this is a great place to date if swinging is an aspect you want in a future relationship. Because on here you remove the elephant in the room from the start. Therefore you can concentrate on dating and building a relationship without the worry of swinging being a stumbling point futher down the line. Then you can simply decide to add swinging into your relationship when the time is right for you both. |
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I've been approached by a woman on here who is looking for a vanilla relationship. I found it a bit weird tbh as I'm looking for a vanilla relationship but not through Fab. For me Fab is more to find a decent FWB and I use other apps/sites for dating. |
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"I've been approached by a woman on here who is looking for a vanilla relationship. I found it a bit weird tbh as I'm looking for a vanilla relationship but not through Fab. For me Fab is more to find a decent FWB and I use other apps/sites for dating."
I don't know if it's bad wording on your part, or me misinterpreting your meaning, but I'm reading this as if you're implying that women on here are good enough to have sex and possibly a few drinks with, but not good enough to have a relationship with. It's not quite correlating with your original post which seemed as if you were looking to date from here and wondering if anyone thought it was a feasible idea  |
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"I've been approached by a woman on here who is looking for a vanilla relationship. I found it a bit weird tbh as I'm looking for a vanilla relationship but not through Fab. For me Fab is more to find a decent FWB and I use other apps/sites for dating.
I don't know if it's bad wording on your part, or me misinterpreting your meaning, but I'm reading this as if you're implying that women on here are good enough to have sex and possibly a few drinks with, but not good enough to have a relationship with. It's not quite correlating with your original post which seemed as if you were looking to date from here and wondering if anyone thought it was a feasible idea "
He's not the original poster |
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"I've been approached by a woman on here who is looking for a vanilla relationship. I found it a bit weird tbh as I'm looking for a vanilla relationship but not through Fab. For me Fab is more to find a decent FWB and I use other apps/sites for dating.
I don't know if it's bad wording on your part, or me misinterpreting your meaning, but I'm reading this as if you're implying that women on here are good enough to have sex and possibly a few drinks with, but not good enough to have a relationship with. It's not quite correlating with your original post which seemed as if you were looking to date from here and wondering if anyone thought it was a feasible idea
He's not the original poster "
 oops! I guess not all women are good at multitasking after all
Apologies OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We met on here.
I think this is a great place to date if swinging is an aspect you want in a future relationship. Because on here you remove the elephant in the room from the start. Therefore you can concentrate on dating and building a relationship without the worry of swinging being a stumbling point futher down the line. Then you can simply decide to add swinging into your relationship when the time is right for you both."
Takes a certain mix of people to find that kind of grounding here, not everyone is that open minded |
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I have lots of mail from men saying they are looking for a relationship. They have often been looking a long time and joined here hoping they could achieve some sex whilst waiting for 'the one'. Their comments are usually prompted by my profile for which I seek more than sex. The general consensus from some men is that they didn't realize this site could be used to find more than just casual sex when joining. |
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"I've been approached by a woman on here who is looking for a vanilla relationship. I found it a bit weird tbh as I'm looking for a vanilla relationship but not through Fab. For me Fab is more to find a decent FWB and I use other apps/sites for dating.
I don't know if it's bad wording on your part, or me misinterpreting your meaning, but I'm reading this as if you're implying that women on here are good enough to have sex and possibly a few drinks with, but not good enough to have a relationship with. It's not quite correlating with your original post which seemed as if you were looking to date from here and wondering if anyone thought it was a feasible idea
He's not the original poster
oops! I guess not all women are good at multitasking after all
Apologies OP "
No worries, I’m a nice guy so took it as a mistake |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been approached by a woman on here who is looking for a vanilla relationship. I found it a bit weird tbh as I'm looking for a vanilla relationship but not through Fab. For me Fab is more to find a decent FWB and I use other apps/sites for dating."
Yes but a fwb is a relationship of sorts if you see them regularly I think |
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We met on here but we very much weren’t looking for a relationship. Quite a number of events fell in our favour for us to realise it was much more than FWB’s we kept telling ourselves we were.
I’d say it’s probably a good place to form friendships and if you are sexually compatible too then it’s a good foundation.
But love usually finds you when you least expect it…
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"We met on here but we very much weren’t looking for a relationship. Quite a number of events fell in our favour for us to realise it was much more than FWB’s we kept telling ourselves we were.
I’d say it’s probably a good place to form friendships and if you are sexually compatible too then it’s a good foundation.
But love usually finds you when you least expect it…
K"
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"I've been approached by a woman on here who is looking for a vanilla relationship. I found it a bit weird tbh as I'm looking for a vanilla relationship but not through Fab. For me Fab is more to find a decent FWB and I use other apps/sites for dating."
Do you realise that people you meet on a dating site, could quite well be on here, just like you. They are still the same person, regardless of which site you meet them on. |
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over a year ago
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Yes I met the love of my life on here and we have been married now for 69 years. He didn't look like his photos and he was also a bit big in the dick department but we somehow made it work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I met the love of my life on here and we have been married now for 69 years. He didn't look like his photos and he was also a bit big in the dick department but we somehow made it work."
Big Harold and Maude - the greatest Fab love story of our time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I met the love of my life on here and we have been married now for 69 years. He didn't look like his photos and he was also a bit big in the dick department but we somehow made it work."
I'm sorry but I think this is bullshit, the Internet hasn't been around that long |
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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago
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"Yes I met the love of my life on here and we have been married now for 69 years. He didn't look like his photos and he was also a bit big in the dick department but we somehow made it work."
Your humour is second to none, which makes me laugh from my tum,
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Iv seen a couple of people asking the question on their profile and recently have given it some thoughts myself
After all I’m single, I’ll have something in common to start with been on here
Surely it’ll be easier than a dating site, been on them and met people but as soon as you mention sex (and not within the first 5 mins lol) they run away "
Tbh the guys I was chatting to on a dating site, were definitely after sex. I didn’t stay long on it, didn’t meet any of them because of that, decided I wanted just nsa so I joined here. Found out a number of them were on here anyway- just more honest about what they wanted on here.
I definitely wasn’t looking to develop feelings for anyone, was determined not to (so ignored any feelings for months) but something about Inked crept through my barriers. I met him on here, nearly four years ago.
Our relationship isn’t conventional, some in the scene don’t like our dynamics, but it works for us. So I don’t think it matters what site, or place, you meet someone, if something clicks then go with it. Short term or long term relationship, conventional or other, we only get one life, so why waste it on what ifs x
Viv x |
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