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over a year ago
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"I love a milf / cougar... But i can never put my finger on what it is? Maybe experience, or their older body? Anyone else have the answer? Ha"
So what happened to the gilfs? Or are we to mature for you?  |
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"I love a milf / cougar... But i can never put my finger on what it is? Maybe experience, or their older body? Anyone else have the answer? Ha
So what happened to the gilfs? Or are we to mature for you? "
Ha. I apologise i forgot about the gilfs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love a milf / cougar... But i can never put my finger on what it is? Maybe experience, or their older body? Anyone else have the answer? Ha
So what happened to the gilfs? Or are we to mature for you?
Ha. I apologise i forgot about the gilfs "
You are forgiven xx |
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I think different people like them for different reasons, but I can say, for me, the appeal is the thought of being a sexy toy for an older lady, younger women can't carry off the nonchalance as well, at least in my experience |
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From young guys ive spoken to just in general 18-28ish, its the experience of being with someone who is comfortable sexually and knows what they want.
From my point of view, im not here to teach anyone, i like sex with guys on an equal footing, yes we all bring something different to the table but when someone users the term MILF it just springs to mind they want a teacher |
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"From young guys ive spoken to just in general 18-28ish, its the experience of being with someone who is comfortable sexually and knows what they want.
From my point of view, im not here to teach anyone, i like sex with guys on an equal footing, yes we all bring something different to the table but when someone users the term MILF it just springs to mind they want a teacher"
For me if someone wants a teacher they will say tilf.
Younger lads just like older woman not neccesserily just want teaching |
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"From young guys ive spoken to just in general 18-28ish, its the experience of being with someone who is comfortable sexually and knows what they want.
From my point of view, im not here to teach anyone, i like sex with guys on an equal footing, yes we all bring something different to the table but when someone users the term MILF it just springs to mind they want a teacher
For me if someone wants a teacher they will say tilf.
Younger lads just like older woman not neccesserily just want teaching"
but dont forget i was speaking just in my opinion, didnt say it was true for every young guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was younger (20) I dated a 27y/o woman and to me she was OLD, yet I saw it as a challenge to pull an older woman. She saw it as a challenge to fuck a young cock again so it was a win/win situation. As I got older the lure of women older than myself lost it's appeal as I felt that younger girls were/are becoming further out of my reach so I prefer to stick to women +/- 3 years of my own age as I know I'll have to shag women in their 50s when I hit 50 myself.
Having said all that, Siren is 6 years younger than me so maybe I'll still be shagging 40-somethings when I'm in my 50s lol. 
(please take this post as very much tongue in cheek as I take people as I find them). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love milfs/gilfs, just because they are more experienced and often have a better understanding of how to pleasure a guy and they always seem to look sexier in lingerie! As today too many younger females are stick thin and I don't think that looks right! You cannot beet a woman in stockings suspenders with sexy curves...
If there are any out there come get me xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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for me i love milfs, gilfs , cougers ect, because its pure no strings dirty sex , the best sex iv ever had was with a women in her 50s when i was 26 , i wrote a brief account of this in the stories & fantasies section about a week ago |
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Any message with MILF or Cougar in it gets deleted from my inbox.
And any one which refers to me as an older lady also gets deleted.
I'm an individual and anyone who doesn't see me as that is not someone I want to spend time with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The Americans have a lot to anwser for..
Perhaps I'm too Englishified (did I just creat a new word? lol). For me it's Lady, female, woman or women, girlfriend, wife. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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terms of endearment . Maybe a bit crude to some but there's no need to be offended if someone refers to someone else as a milf , gilf or couger , its just their way of saying they find you attractive |
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"terms of endearment . Maybe a bit crude to some but there's no need to be offended if someone refers to someone else as a milf , gilf or couger , its just their way of saying they find you attractive"
I reserve the right to take offence at anything I consider offensive.
Just as some men of Afro-Caribbean origins are entitle to, and do take offence at being referred to as nothing more than a Big Black Cock.
There are many who consider these terms to be acceptable compliments. I do not.
And I am deeply unlikely to find attractiveness in anyone who reduces me to my age and expects me to swoon as a result. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"And I am deeply unlikely to find attractiveness in anyone who reduces me to my age and expects me to swoon as a result."
Me too. And MILF is a strange term to use for older women anyway, unless you know they have children. Cougar is a name for a predatory woman who looks for younger men, so perhaps the younger men should be patient! As for 'more miles on the clock', I'm not a flippin car!
Someone who reduces grown women to a concept deserves to be ignored. Just my opinion, of course! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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hmm foe me its maturity . Actually being able to have a decent conversation before and after . Not to mention they generally know what they like and what they doing .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love a milf / cougar... But i can never put my finger on what it is? Maybe experience, or their older body? Anyone else have the answer? Ha"
Dear Confused,
Small clits are often difficult to locate. However, you should be aware that the age of the clit has nothing to do with it.
The answer, as far as I know, is 42.
Chin up, Benice Proops. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love a milf / cougar... But i can never put my finger on what it is? Maybe experience, or their older body? Anyone else have the answer? Ha
So what happened to the gilfs? Or are we to mature for you? "
what about megagilfs? oh sorry that would be macrophilia. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"terms of endearment . Maybe a bit crude to some but there's no need to be offended if someone refers to someone else as a milf , gilf or couger , its just their way of saying they find you attractive
I reserve the right to take offence at anything I consider offensive.
Just as some men of Afro-Caribbean origins are entitle to, and do take offence at being referred to as nothing more than a Big Black Cock.
There are many who consider these terms to be acceptable compliments. I do not.
And I am deeply unlikely to find attractiveness in anyone who reduces me to my age and expects me to swoon as a result."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think different people like them for different reasons, but I can say, for me, the appeal is the thought of being a sexy toy for an older lady, younger women can't carry off the nonchalance as well, at least in my experience"
What if the mum is 19 lol that theory is oot the window  not all mums are older |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any message with MILF or Cougar in it gets deleted from my inbox.
And any one which refers to me as an older lady also gets deleted.
I'm an individual and anyone who doesn't see me as that is not someone I want to spend time with."
I use the filters, so much easier |
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"Any message with MILF or Cougar in it gets deleted from my inbox.
And any one which refers to me as an older lady also gets deleted.
I'm an individual and anyone who doesn't see me as that is not someone I want to spend time with.
I use the filters, so much easier "
I use the filters. But I even get messages from 30 somethings looking for milfs/cougars - I'm still 30 something!  (just  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love the young guys who say things like they like older woman as girls their own age just arnt very good in bed and i think, well if someone your age isnt good enough sexually for you what do you think you can do for me
i dont think they think that one thro very well lol
Id say the age group i get the most mail from on here and guys between 18 to 25 and to be honest i just dont get it at all
I cant look at a 18/21 year old kid and see a sexual object so cant understand how they can look at me and think....mmmm sex lets mail her
i put it down to their hormones and the fact at that age most lads will fuck anything that moves |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When i was 18 at uni i dated a 26 year old for 3 months. The sex was unbelievable and she was kinkier than just about anyone i've ever met. Had me doing things and expanding my mind expedentially. We had a bit in commmon in terms of loudrock music and going to gigs, both had long hair too but it was sexually that we gelled. She also coined my username. Reckon it's why i'm drawn to slightly busty kinky older women with a kind of anything goes attitude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love the young guys who say things like they like older woman as girls their own age just arnt very good in bed and i think, well if someone your age isnt good enough sexually for you what do you think you can do for me
i dont think they think that one thro very well lol
Id say the age group i get the most mail from on here and guys between 18 to 25 and to be honest i just dont get it at all
I cant look at a 18/21 year old kid and see a sexual object so cant understand how they can look at me and think....mmmm sex lets mail her
i put it down to their hormones and the fact at that age most lads will fuck anything that moves "
Agree with most of the above. We wouldn't intentionally meet with a very young girl or guy. In respect of older women.It seems the sexual confidence that many woman have is an attraction for lots of men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find younger are easy going and willing to do new things. "
i have found that too
I have to be honest i have met a hand full of young guys and because they know they arnt very experienced and because a lot meet them because older women can teach them things if they are doing something and its not quite to my liking they welcome the advice in telling them, try it like this, i prefer it like that, i have met a few older guys who have got quite offended when i have suggested they may want to try it a different way, i had one guy when i told him what he was doing wasnt really to my likings and i asked him to do it abother way and he got the huff saying he'd never had any complaints before
so young guys are good in that way they mostly welcome constructive criticism and advice where as lots of older guys already think they know how to please every women with their years of experience and offen get offended if you suggest they may want to try another way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find younger are easy going and willing to do new things.
Box=Tick
and can be fun to be around . lol "
I'm a dour scottish bastard. Kinky as fuck though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find younger are easy going and willing to do new things.
i have found that too
I have to be honest i have met a hand full of young guys and because they know they arnt very experienced and because a lot meet them because older women can teach them things if they are doing something and its not quite to my liking they welcome the advice in telling them, try it like this, i prefer it like that, i have met a few older guys who have got quite offended when i have suggested they may want to try it a different way, i had one guy when i told him what he was doing wasnt really to my likings and i asked him to do it abother way and he got the huff saying he'd never had any complaints before
so young guys are good in that way they mostly welcome constructive criticism and advice where as lots of older guys already think they know how to please every women with their years of experience and offen get offended if you suggest they may want to try another way"
As the Pixies sang "That's edu-cational!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find younger are easy going and willing to do new things.
Box=Tick
and can be fun to be around . lol
I'm a dour scottish bastard. Kinky as fuck though!"
Just how i like my men , I bet i am more kinky , lol you should see my BOX OF TRICKS. |
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"I find younger are easy going and willing to do new things.
Box=Tick
and can be fun to be around . lol
I'm a dour scottish bastard. Kinky as fuck though! Just how i like my men , I bet i am more kinky , lol you should see my BOX OF TRICKS. "
I'd love to see it. Maybe we could have a kink off! Decide the winner! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find younger are easy going and willing to do new things.
Box=Tick
and can be fun to be around . lol
I'm a dour scottish bastard. Kinky as fuck though! Just how i like my men , I bet i am more kinky , lol you should see my BOX OF TRICKS.
I'd love to see it. Maybe we could have a kink off! Decide the winner! "
ooo what fun xxxx chastity for you for hours first and i have the key .. as you look at me playing with my bi girls friends locked up and after i may let you at a blow up doll in the cage , lol And we are just getting started , lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find younger are easy going and willing to do new things.
Box=Tick
and can be fun to be around . lol
I'm a dour scottish bastard. Kinky as fuck though! Just how i like my men , I bet i am more kinky , lol you should see my BOX OF TRICKS.
I'd love to see it. Maybe we could have a kink off! Decide the winner! ooo what fun xxxx chastity for you for hours first and i have the key .. as you look at me playing with my bi girls friends locked up and after i may let you at a blow up doll in the cage , lol And we are just getting started , lol "
Great. Lets do it! |
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