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Hi there
Just because this is a swinging site doesn't mean that all the ladies here have sky high libidos
So am curious ladies………
How high would you say your libido is?
Does it change whether single vs relationship?
If you have a high libido when you are single does that automatically mean lots of masturbation, or does your high libido only come out when you are with someone?
How has your libido changed from say late teens to the age you are now? Eg low in 20's, sky high in 30's non existent in 40's back with a vengeance in 50's etc |
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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago
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"Hi there
Just because this is a swinging site doesn't mean that all the ladies here have sky high libidos
So am curious ladies………
How high would you say your libido is?
Does it change whether single vs relationship?
If you have a high libido when you are single does that automatically mean lots of masturbation, or does your high libido only come out when you are with someone?
How has your libido changed from say late teens to the age you are now? Eg low in 20's, sky high in 30's non existent in 40's back with a vengeance in 50's etc"
Are you that Sydney university fella I see mentioned at the bottom of many profiles  |
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"Completely person dependent. I can go ages without when not attracted to someone. But crave it constantly when someone presses the button.
And what about when single?"
Can switch it off if nobody is floating my boat. |
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"Hi there
Just because this is a swinging site doesn't mean that all the ladies here have sky high libidos
So am curious ladies………
How high would you say your libido is?
Does it change whether single vs relationship?
If you have a high libido when you are single does that automatically mean lots of masturbation, or does your high libido only come out when you are with someone?
How has your libido changed from say late teens to the age you are now? Eg low in 20's, sky high in 30's non existent in 40's back with a vengeance in 50's etc
Are you that Sydney university fella I see mentioned at the bottom of many profiles "
?? nah Melbourne. We stay away from those losers! |
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"Completely person dependent. I can go ages without when not attracted to someone. But crave it constantly when someone presses the button.
This 
I'm told I have a high-ish sex drive. "
What for you is highish? |
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over a year ago
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I was married for 14yrs and we hardly ever had sex then after my divorce 6yrs ago I found fab and I made up for lost time lol xx now with a break up from an ex ass and lockdown it's now been just over 3.5yrs since I last had sex xx |
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"Completely person dependent. I can go ages without when not attracted to someone. But crave it constantly when someone presses the button.
And what about when single?
Can switch it off if nobody is floating my boat."
This is a skill I need to learn! |
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"I was married for 14yrs and we hardly ever had sex then after my divorce 6yrs ago I found fab and I made up for lost time lol xx now with a break up from an ex ass and lockdown it's now been just over 3.5yrs since I last had sex xx "
Lots of masturbation in that time? Or just not bothered? |
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"A lady is only on here cause she’s gagging for it 24/7  "
This! Aha
However I avoid disappointment so I'm fussy who I allow to fuck me these days, which means I may have to go without a while. I play with myself nearly daily wether had sex or not |
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"I was married for 14yrs and we hardly ever had sex then after my divorce 6yrs ago I found fab and I made up for lost time lol xx now with a break up from an ex ass and lockdown it's now been just over 3.5yrs since I last had sex i have a high sex drive once I eventuallyget it, its almost like my appetite has been woken up and ready to play lol xx"
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Hi there
Just because this is a swinging site doesn't mean that all the ladies here have sky high libidos
So am curious ladies………
How high would you say your libido is?
Does it change whether single vs relationship?
If you have a high libido when you are single does that automatically mean lots of masturbation, or does your high libido only come out when you are with someone?
How has your libido changed from say late teens to the age you are now? Eg low in 20's, sky high in 30's non existent in 40's back with a vengeance in 50's etc"
Are you from Sydney university? |
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"A lady is only on here cause she’s gagging for it 24/7
This! Aha
However I avoid disappointment so I'm fussy who I allow to fuck me these days, which means I may have to go without a while. I play with myself nearly daily wether had sex or not "
How many orgasms a day to keep you feeling satisfied ?! |
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"Varies from high to super high to off the scale.
I can only think of one period of time in my 20s when it dipped for a few months, with good reason.
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Dare I ask how many orgasms a day off the scale is?! |
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My libido didn't really kick in until I was 35. I had sex in my teens and 20s but didn't really enjoy it and wasn't bothered about masturbating.
I discovered how fun it could be in my 30s and since then my libido has been steady and fairly high. I'm not insatiable, but I like a lot of sex and if I'm not having sex regularly I'll masturbate at least twice most days. |
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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago
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Like others have said, for me this is very much dependent on the right stimulation. Sometimes it can also be self-perpetuating when my sex drive is high.
I spent most of my 20s and 30s in longterm relationships and always thought my sex drive was fairly low. I think it's because they were not very happy relationships, even though I was in love and felt attracted to my exes. |
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"My libido didn't really kick in until I was 35. I had sex in my teens and 20s but didn't really enjoy it and wasn't bothered about masturbating.
I discovered how fun it could be in my 30s and since then my libido has been steady and fairly high. I'm not insatiable, but I like a lot of sex and if I'm not having sex regularly I'll masturbate at least twice most days."
Thanks for such an honest answer. ?? |
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"Like others have said, for me this is very much dependent on the right stimulation. Sometimes it can also be self-perpetuating when my sex drive is high.
I spent most of my 20s and 30s in longterm relationships and always thought my sex drive was fairly low. I think it's because they were not very happy relationships, even though I was in love and felt attracted to my exes."
Ah a fellow Welshie! When it’s high how high does it go, lots of masturbation and/or sex? |
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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago
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"Like others have said, for me this is very much dependent on the right stimulation. Sometimes it can also be self-perpetuating when my sex drive is high.
I spent most of my 20s and 30s in longterm relationships and always thought my sex drive was fairly low. I think it's because they were not very happy relationships, even though I was in love and felt attracted to my exes.
Ah a fellow Welshie! When it’s high how high does it go, lots of masturbation and/or sex?"
About this high /points
Well, yeah, masturbation if no alternatives are to hand but it's not the same. It's like fast food; it hits the spot but other food is much better (I know many who love their me-time will probably disagree). |
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"I can switch it on/off when I want - I did so in the past too!
Think it depends for some women if pre-occupied by family life and work commitments.
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I'd say family life and work can be big factors too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm pretty horny all the time but life takes over so I switch it of when I need to but once I see someone I want I'm like a dog in heat it's also at those times I masterbate more. |
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Mine is variable.
If I'm tired, grumpy or under the weather, I tend not to want sex.
At other times I want sex at totally inappropriate times, when hubby and I are at work
I would say it's probably average... |
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"Very frustrating being in a relationship with a woman with low sex drive "
I think it depends on what you consider low. Hormones can have a big impact in sex drive as can mentsl health and general well-being. Has it always been low?
My husband's sex drive is much higher than mine, but there's other options to sex. He doesn't feel neglected. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Very frustrating being in a relationship with a woman with low sex drive
I think it depends on what you consider low. Hormones can have a big impact in sex drive as can mentsl health and general well-being. Has it always been low?
My husband's sex drive is much higher than mine, but there's other options to sex. He doesn't feel neglected. "
My most recent relationship her drive was matching mine at the start and slowly declined, could be down to a number of reasons but frustrating nevertheless. I’d love to know the other options could be useful in future |
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"Completely person dependent. I can go ages without when not attracted to someone. But crave it constantly when someone presses the button. "
This is me also xx  |
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"Very frustrating being in a relationship with a woman with low sex drive
I think it depends on what you consider low. Hormones can have a big impact in sex drive as can mentsl health and general well-being. Has it always been low?
My husband's sex drive is much higher than mine, but there's other options to sex. He doesn't feel neglected.
My most recent relationship her drive was matching mine at the start and slowly declined, could be down to a number of reasons but frustrating nevertheless. I’d love to know the other options could be useful in future "
Sounds like the fizz went out of it. Sometimes the initial newness is what increases the sex drive. |
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"I was married for 14yrs and we hardly ever had sex then after my divorce 6yrs ago I found fab and I made up for lost time lol xx now with a break up from an ex ass and lockdown it's now been just over 3.5yrs since I last had sex xx
Probably a little of both xx
Lots of masturbation in that time? Or just not bothered?"
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"I was married for 14yrs and we hardly ever had sex then after my divorce 6yrs ago I found fab and I made up for lost time lol xx now with a break up from an ex ass and lockdown it's now been just over 3.5yrs since I last had sex xx "
Really? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Completely person dependent. I can go ages without when not attracted to someone. But crave it constantly when someone presses the button.
This
I'm told I have a high-ish sex drive. "
I think most people on here have a high sex drive lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I say I usually have cycles, and I notice this more since having changed all my hormonal levels and having almost no T in my body.
I have moments where I feel very sexual (usually it’s like 10 days in the month) and then the rest I’m not really bothered. I could still have sex with the right person,
but I don’t have the need for it or need of self gratification either.
Atm I’m in my heat cycle and I could sit on any dick attached to a half decent looking gent  … just saying
If this makes any sense. Also, generally when I’m not in my cycles I don’t really think of sex much at all. |
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"I was married for 14yrs and we hardly ever had sex then after my divorce 6yrs ago I found fab and I made up for lost time lol xx now with a break up from an ex ass and lockdown it's now been just over 3.5yrs since I last had sex xx
Really?"
Absolutely yea xx |
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"I was married for 14yrs and we hardly ever had sex then after my divorce 6yrs ago I found fab and I made up for lost time lol xx now with a break up from an ex ass and lockdown it's now been just over 3.5yrs since I last had sex xx
Really?
Absolutely yea xx "
That's seems like a long time. Are you ready to make up for it again? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would say as I'm getting older, my libido is increasing but I don't strum my clit aggressively on a daily basis either.
Hormones and womanly mooods are a bitch, they usually play a big part too. |
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I think I described this to a friendly recently
Guys all think they have a high sex drive. Most seem to sit at around an 8/10 sex drive
But if a woman finds a guy that pushes the right buttons. No man can satisfy her fully. A woman that finds her right man can be an 11/10.
It’s all about finding the right person for women
For men it’s all about finding a willing person |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think I described this to a friendly recently
Guys all think they have a high sex drive. Most seem to sit at around an 8/10 sex drive
But if a woman finds a guy that pushes the right buttons. No man can satisfy her fully. A woman that finds her right man can be an 11/10.
It’s all about finding the right person for women
For men it’s all about finding a willing person "
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it was high before but higher with him 