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It is called Cuckqueen. And it only really matters when the Cuckqueen is the one who initiated it.
If it is the guy who initiated it, then you can class that in the D/s realm. Both are equally valid ways to have fun. But if you want the little nuances which for some people are very important, then maybe we should really pay attention to the finer details  |
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Why do we have to label everything anyway? We’re all unique and have unique interests and desires, although some people’s can be similar in many ways no two people want exactly the same thing so we shouldn’t try to group people together under one heading and instead we should accept and celebrate our individuality. |
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"Why do we have to label everything anyway? We’re all unique and have unique interests and desires, although some people’s can be similar in many ways no two people want exactly the same thing so we shouldn’t try to group people together under one heading and instead we should accept and celebrate our individuality."
The irony of being called Bi Sissy Sub  |
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"Why do we have to label everything anyway? We’re all unique and have unique interests and desires, although some people’s can be similar in many ways no two people want exactly the same thing so we shouldn’t try to group people together under one heading and instead we should accept and celebrate our individuality.
The irony of being called Bi Sissy Sub "
Hahaha, I walked right into that one didn’t I, although I did say we shouldn’t group people together under one heading and I’ve given myself three headings so that’s a different matter altogether.... |
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"Why do we have to label everything anyway? We’re all unique and have unique interests and desires, although some people’s can be similar in many ways no two people want exactly the same thing so we shouldn’t try to group people together under one heading and instead we should accept and celebrate our individuality."
I totally agree with you about your main point. But I have to disagree with you about the overall message. It is often very helpful to have labels/definitions/boundaries that are commonly agreed to. It helps people to find other types of people whom may be of interest/similarity.
The thing is about sexuality is that everything is unique and individual to the person involved. If you open a book with a million different chapters, how will you know which chapters might be interesting to you if you don't have a table of contents?
We hope we find someone else on our wavelength, but unless we're given a label (or a chapter of a book, to continue my metaphor), how can we know which direction we should look?
I am currently involved with a Cuckqueen. She is 'chomping on the bit' for it to happen. But unfortunately it is a rare thing for other ladies to even think about it, let alone finding me attractive enough and having trust that the next day she won't be receiving abuse from my partner.
But labels help us stand out for what we want. Otherwise we may as well all go down the supermarket and want something for a Sunday Roast and end up with neither Lamb, Pork, Beef, Turkey or Chicken..... (seriously no offense to vegans, I was illustrating the point that without labels, you can end up with literally anything other than what you had in mind ). |
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