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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I still ain't feeling as happy as I could be, sex is great don't get me wrong but at the end of the day you experience it your self then go home and your alone again. I think it's time I start to find that special someone who you can share your time with, and enjoy each others company and have something that isn't just about sex. I had girlfriends in the past but a while back, it's always hard trying to find someone though I'm rubbish at approaching women :/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although from time to time I miss the intimacy of being with a special someone, I only need to remember the pains and hassles associated with living with another person full time and I'll snap back to reality.
I have had my fingers burnt in the past, and am conscious that I have a lot to lose.
I would rather be on my own than with the wrong person.
Hence being on FAB suits me, and I have no intention to change the status quo.
I am not going to say never never, and when someone who ticks all the right boxes comes along and sweep me off my feet, I am not going to say no.
In the meantime, I shall enjoy myself as a singleton.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good luck Dan, there's someone out there for us all. Who knows maybe they're even on here 
Wolf
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Aww thanks, I hope so even if they're not into swinging I would respect that and be happy if they are someone special. It's trying to find that someone which is very hard, and then how do you approach them too I loose all words when I ever attempt to talk to a lady :/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love to be in that boat too. Maybe oneday. But at the moment work and child commitments mean I can't give that special person enough of what they need. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good luck Dan, there's someone out there for us all. Who knows maybe they're even on here
Wolf
Aww thanks, I hope so even if they're not into swinging I would respect that and be happy if they are someone special. It's trying to find that someone which is very hard, and then how do you approach them too I loose all words when I ever attempt to talk to a lady :/"
Know that feeling Dan. Sometimes I feel like a twat when broaching the subject of "I like you" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I like a gent, I'll make sure he knows.
Either he runs away, or decides to take a chance and stay.
This way, I shan't kick myself for not trying and regret it afterwards, and live the rest of my life contemplating the "what if's".
Unconventional, I know, however, I am an Aquarian afterall.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good luck Dan, there's someone out there for us all. Who knows maybe they're even on here
Wolf
Aww thanks, I hope so even if they're not into swinging I would respect that and be happy if they are someone special. It's trying to find that someone which is very hard, and then how do you approach them too I loose all words when I ever attempt to talk to a lady :/"
try a dating site, but that will prob not work, the best way to find people is to just get out there and meet people, and take the bull by the horns, be brave, you never know, and whats the worst that can happen, she says no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good luck Dan, there's someone out there for us all. Who knows maybe they're even on here
Wolf
Aww thanks, I hope so even if they're not into swinging I would respect that and be happy if they are someone special. It's trying to find that someone which is very hard, and then how do you approach them too I loose all words when I ever attempt to talk to a lady :/"
Don't try or look to hard, that's when what your after gets even harder to get or further away. It has a habit of creeping up on you unawares when you're not looking lol.... so if you can put up with the wait while single and it's well worth you living your life to the full while you do then it'll all be worthwhile - things do happen and it will always get you in the end, that's for sure 
Now in the meantime there's all these girls on here you really should be meeting...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I still ain't feeling as happy as I could be, sex is great don't get me wrong but at the end of the day you experience it your self then go home and your alone again. I think it's time I start to find that special someone who you can share your time with, and enjoy each others company and have something that isn't just about sex. I had girlfriends in the past but a while back, it's always hard trying to find someone though I'm rubbish at approaching women :/"
I can relate to this. I swung alone for a year or so and got jaded with it. I was mainly meeting couples and it got to me that they went home and had each other and I was left alone.
I am lucky. Met a fantastic girl through Fab, been together 18 months, now live together and very much in love.
Hope you have similar luck mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aw bless you! Having spent time on my own and as a couple, I have to say I much prefer being part of a couple, someone there for me and vice versa,
As wolf said, dont try and look for that
"special person" to hard, when it happens you will know! Just relax, be yourself and let it all happen naturally!
Good luck to you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it ends in tears.. well from my experience anyway. Good luck
It's better to have loved and lost and all that guff..."
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I agree.
Look forward with anticipation, and don't look back in anger etc. etc...
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I am the same as some others. Have dated and swung (not at same time) on and off for the last 6 years. I would love to meet that special one but refuse to be in a relationshup with bad sex. I would give up the swinging for the right person but I honestly dobt see that they make men like I wish to find. From family life to shortage of spare time to being a confident lady and outspoken.....a man would have to be one hell of a man to take me on. So I stick to fab as it works....if its bad sex I move on. If its good sex I ask for more but then always lots of new people to meet and have fun with.
I was confident I would still be single at 40 and in the same way I am.sure I will be single at 45. Good luck isnt something I tend to get so stick.with meeting wonderfully sexy people and silently dreaming of a day when I meet a special person that loves me for me and all the silly stuff that comes with it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it's always hard trying to find someone though I'm rubbish at approaching women :/"
I can relate to that!
I used to be just the same and I'm sure I still would be if single.
I was lucky with Shaz though, Shaz tagged along with a friend and his missus to my house and when they decided to go, Shaz said she was going to stay for a bit... She never did go home, just invited herself haha
Funny though, we never did ask each other out, it just kind of happened then just kind of got married.
13 years on and we are still as strong if not stronger than day one.
So don't worry to much it will happen and I think if you go looking for a partner it can take longer.
Tony |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"maybe there should be a spi off site...fabdating lol"
And watch the numbers on here decimate...;-)
Stop lookin Dan... Always worked fa me...
Go out for drinks with your mates and someone will find you... When you do... PM me her sister's phone number... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"it's always hard trying to find someone though I'm rubbish at approaching women :/
I can relate to that!
I used to be just the same and I'm sure I still would be if single.
I was lucky with Shaz though, Shaz tagged along with a friend and his missus to my house and when they decided to go, Shaz said she was going to stay for a bit... She never did go home, just invited herself haha
Funny though, we never did ask each other out, it just kind of happened then just kind of got married.
13 years on and we are still as strong if not stronger than day one.
So don't worry to much it will happen and I think if you go looking for a partner it can take longer.
Tony "
Yeah, I've been waiting sometime though now and nothing much yet :/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah, I've been waiting sometime though now and nothing much yet :/ "
Maybe you are making it to obvious you are looking?
As said, go out with your mates, talk to the ladies as friends only though, when one likes you she will let you know
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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago
Blackpool |
"I would love to be in that boat too. Maybe oneday. But at the moment work and child commitments mean I can't give that special person enough of what they need. "
I've been saying that for 7 years you need to make time |
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By *aris23Woman
over a year ago
France |
"maybe there should be a spi off site...fabdating lol"
Isn't that what the 'new' site FabFlirts was supposed to be? Those who had their profiles there mostly removed them because it seemed to simply be a copy of FabSwingers? |
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By *aris23Woman
over a year ago
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"Although from time to time I miss the intimacy of being with a special someone, I only need to remember the pains and hassles associated with living with another person full time and I'll snap back to reality.
I have had my fingers burnt in the past, and am conscious that I have a lot to lose.
I would rather be on my own than with the wrong person.
Hence being on FAB suits me, and I have no intention to change the status quo.
I am not going to say never never, and when someone who ticks all the right boxes comes along and sweep me off my feet, I am not going to say no.
In the meantime, I shall enjoy myself as a singleton.
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"maybe there should be a spi off site...fabdating lol
Isn't that what the 'new' site FabFlirts was supposed to be? Those who had their profiles there mostly removed them because it seemed to simply be a copy of FabSwingers?"
i thought it was just a place for single people to meet and have sex, not a dating site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" i thought it was just a place for single people to meet and have sex, not a dating site"
Its also a quick reference for the few couples who "dont" know where all the single guys are... |
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