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You’re not my type sorry
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all get told that at some point, not just the guys. Everyone has their preferences and rejection is just a part of this lifestyle unfortunately. Don't let someone else's preference dictate your self esteem  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"… is a message I (and we guys) get a lot. So whose type am I then, ladies? For the vain post #sorrynotsorry"
Obviously you are somebody's, or indeed many somebody's.
I get similar responses when I message first. The magic of both being each other's type is rare. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all get told that at some point, not just the guys. Everyone has their preferences and rejection is just a part of this lifestyle unfortunately. Don't let someone else's preference dictate your self esteem "
Love this reply, it’s so spot on xx  |
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
Orpington |
As this is a website, it's extremely hard to showcase your personality, like you could in real life. The first thing a person sees is your profile picture and than your profile. If I may offer some advice is to change your username, and upload pictures that shows your persona. Topless pics and dick pics are all over this site, and that can make them boring. You have an awesome beard dude, I would put that as my profile pic (combine that with a shirt and tie, and that would look even better). |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
"We all get told that at some point, not just the guys. Everyone has their preferences and rejection is just a part of this lifestyle unfortunately. Don't let someone else's preference dictate your self esteem "
This! Lost count of the times I've had the you're lovely but not for me x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As this is a website, it's extremely hard to showcase your personality, like you could in real life. The first thing a person sees is your profile picture and than your profile. If I may offer some advice is to change your username, and upload pictures that shows your persona. Topless pics and dick pics are all over this site, and that can make them boring. You have an awesome beard dude, I would put that as my profile pic (combine that with a shirt and tie, and that would look even better). "
Thanks for the advice (noted!). But this was just meant as a lighthearted bit of fun lol. I’m tired so maybe didn’t come across that way. Now come on ladies, who fancies me?  |
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"We all get told that at some point, not just the guys. Everyone has their preferences and rejection is just a part of this lifestyle unfortunately. Don't let someone else's preference dictate your self esteem
This! Lost count of the times I've had the you're lovely but not for me x"
I can't see why you would get a lot of not for me x |
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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago
Norfolk East anglia |
"I got told by a guy on here I was a plain Jane
I’d have smacked him lol. Needs to give his head a wobble that guy xxx"
 thanks
Didn't bother me there's plenty other guys out there who like me. Plus for someone so plain he views my profile enough  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m rarely people’s type. I’m fairly niche. I tend not to make the first move and let them come to me. "
I think that is most woman on here’s game plan |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all get told that at some point, not just the guys. Everyone has their preferences and rejection is just a part of this lifestyle unfortunately. Don't let someone else's preference dictate your self esteem
This! Lost count of the times I've had the you're lovely but not for me x"
Really struggle to get my head round that. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get it a lot too, however there are some who's type I am and I'm happy with that. Not everyone has the same views, wants and attractions. But there will always be someone. |
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"We all get told that at some point, not just the guys. Everyone has their preferences and rejection is just a part of this lifestyle unfortunately. Don't let someone else's preference dictate your self esteem
This! Lost count of the times I've had the you're lovely but not for me x"
You are lovely tho! |
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I say nice of you to reply and good luck on here .....
Manners cost nothing and they were good enough to reply
However once I re reply ..... I never go further
So yes I agree with folk on this thread ... there will be some folk that you will appeal to ... but far more that you won't appeal to
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m rarely people’s type. I’m fairly niche. I tend not to make the first move and let them come to me.
A 6ft woman is a dream!"
I had a meet with a couple where the wife was 6ft2. She wore 4 inch heels too, my god she was a sight to see stood in my livingroom in her stockings and suspenders |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m lazy don’t look or send first message plus filters high, so when chat ie forums start as friends but have had the comment we not everyone’s cup of tea, so normal yes  |
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The way I look at it is that it’s incredibly rare for anyone to be my type.. so much so I don’t really know what it is.. similarly I’m kinda odd.. so I expect my odds to be someone else’s type equally low. So I enjoy the site for what it is and expect nothing but friendship and eye rolls.  |
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"I’m lazy don’t look or send first message plus filters high, so when chat ie forums start as friends but have had the comment we not everyone’s cup of tea, so normal yes "
You post a great profile |
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"The way I look at it is that it’s incredibly rare for anyone to be my type.. so much so I don’t really know what it is.. similarly I’m kinda odd.. so I expect my odds to be someone else’s type equally low. So I enjoy the site for what it is and expect nothing but friendship and eye rolls. "
Yes but you do eyerolls like no one else. Plus I get a lot of them funnily enough  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unless we think we're irresistible it seems like a polite enough reply to me. We should respect others preferences as we expect them to respect ours, and I don't think it's someone's 'loss' if they don't like or fancy me. Lucky escape maybe ! |
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"The way I look at it is that it’s incredibly rare for anyone to be my type.. so much so I don’t really know what it is.. similarly I’m kinda odd.. so I expect my odds to be someone else’s type equally low. So I enjoy the site for what it is and expect nothing but friendship and eye rolls.
Yes but you do eyerolls like no one else. Plus I get a lot of them funnily enough "
I do!!! I bloody love eye rolling!!! you deserve them alllllllllllllll |
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"The way I look at it is that it’s incredibly rare for anyone to be my type.. so much so I don’t really know what it is.. similarly I’m kinda odd.. so I expect my odds to be someone else’s type equally low. So I enjoy the site for what it is and expect nothing but friendship and eye rolls.
Yes but you do eyerolls like no one else. Plus I get a lot of them funnily enough
I do!!! I bloody love eye rolling!!! you deserve them alllllllllllllll "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don’t worry OP - as others have said, it’s impossible to be right for everyone! If someone likes tall, busty blondes then they aren’t going to fancy me, but I would never take it personally. Although … I suppose I could stuff socks in my bra, wear a wig and walk on stilts … |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We make decisions here on a few carefully selected 2D images and words on a screen
Rejection of how I choose those pics and words isn't a rejection of me, it's a rejection of how I portray myself here
I'm nothing like my Fab persona
In actuality I'm far more complex and much nicer
You might not want to fuck me, but you'd leave thinking I was a decent bloke
That, to me, is way more important than feeling sexually attractive to all and sundry |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Don’t worry OP - as others have said, it’s impossible to be right for everyone! If someone likes tall, busty blondes then they aren’t going to fancy me, but I would never take it personally. Although … I suppose I could stuff socks in my bra, wear a wig and walk on stilts … "
I tried that - it didn't work. 
I'd be happy with someone who's not stuck up their own arse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unless we think we're irresistible it seems like a polite enough reply to me. We should respect others preferences as we expect them to respect ours, and I don't think it's someone's 'loss' if they don't like or fancy me. Lucky escape maybe ! "
I agree.
We’ve all been turned down, it just means we’re not their type? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't worry about this it really does happen to all of usfull stop as I've always said you got to remember there are a lot more men on here than women and it is very hard to sell yourself but you've got to try your best brush your shoulders off and carry on . Somebody wasn't happy with me today by post in that thread what I put up up2 received a message telling me that I need to grow up is like freedom of speech |
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We happily accept that we aren't everyone's cup of tea, it's not normal for everyone to fancy everyone.
It can be a little awkward though to say to someone that they aren't your type, especially if you've been chatting a while. |
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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago
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"We all get told that at some point, not just the guys. Everyone has their preferences and rejection is just a part of this lifestyle unfortunately. Don't let someone else's preference dictate your self esteem "
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"We all get told that at some point, not just the guys. Everyone has their preferences and rejection is just a part of this lifestyle unfortunately. Don't let someone else's preference dictate your self esteem "
Excellent response |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We put on the profile . “ don’t be offended as we won’t be when we are not Somojes type” . Think that’s fair if they read the profile. But many factors dictate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I messaged someone with a quip about there update and I got a reply of.....very funny but nothing personal but your not what im looking for!!.....
Made me laugh lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got told my face doesn’t match my body. That felt great "
Shame that some people take their own insecurities out on other people by trying to push them down to prop themselves up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes we've all had that response.
Someone said that to me and 6 months later we met and had a lot of fun. Tastes changed and or they maybe in a different place the next time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ffs everyone read the thread haha its a look at me and tell me im great thread the op said so himself a few replies in
the thread is fab in a nutshell bloke posts look at me thread nobody plays along and tells him they like him then some other women and men reply and say sometimes people reject them too and almost immediately all the women are told that the people rejecting them are crazy but none of the men are ever told that!!
typical fab blow smoke up the ladys arses but ignore the men haha
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"ffs everyone read the thread haha its a look at me and tell me im great thread the op said so himself a few replies in
the thread is fab in a nutshell bloke posts look at me thread nobody plays along and tells him they like him then some other women and men reply and say sometimes people reject them too and almost immediately all the women are told that the people rejecting them are crazy but none of the men are ever told that!!
typical fab blow smoke up the ladys arses but ignore the men haha
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It was meant to be lighthearted. Nothing more |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ffs everyone read the thread haha its a look at me and tell me im great thread the op said so himself a few replies in
the thread is fab in a nutshell bloke posts look at me thread nobody plays along and tells him they like him then some other women and men reply and say sometimes people reject them too and almost immediately all the women are told that the people rejecting them are crazy but none of the men are ever told that!!
typical fab blow smoke up the ladys arses but ignore the men haha
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Not all the women lol |
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"ffs everyone read the thread haha its a look at me and tell me im great thread the op said so himself a few replies in
the thread is fab in a nutshell bloke posts look at me thread nobody plays along and tells him they like him then some other women and men reply and say sometimes people reject them too and almost immediately all the women are told that the people rejecting them are crazy but none of the men are ever told that!!
typical fab blow smoke up the ladys arses but ignore the men haha
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Woman rejects man : well maybe you need to work on yourself and become better, your not going to be everyone’s type and they have every right to reject you
Man rejects woman : queen your too good for hun. He has no idea what he’s missing out on. Don’t change a thing, stay exactly as you are, because your perfect and he’s an idiot |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ffs everyone read the thread haha its a look at me and tell me im great thread the op said so himself a few replies in
the thread is fab in a nutshell bloke posts look at me thread nobody plays along and tells him they like him then some other women and men reply and say sometimes people reject them too and almost immediately all the women are told that the people rejecting them are crazy but none of the men are ever told that!!
typical fab blow smoke up the ladys arses but ignore the men haha
Woman rejects man : well maybe you need to work on yourself and become better, your not going to be everyone’s type and they have every right to reject you
Man rejects woman : queen your too good for hun. He has no idea what he’s missing out on. Don’t change a thing, stay exactly as you are, because your perfect and he’s an idiot "
100% |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ffs everyone read the thread haha its a look at me and tell me im great thread the op said so himself a few replies in
the thread is fab in a nutshell bloke posts look at me thread nobody plays along and tells him they like him then some other women and men reply and say sometimes people reject them too and almost immediately all the women are told that the people rejecting them are crazy but none of the men are ever told that!!
typical fab blow smoke up the ladys arses but ignore the men haha
Woman rejects man : well maybe you need to work on yourself and become better, your not going to be everyone’s type and they have every right to reject you
Man rejects woman : queen your too good for hun. He has no idea what he’s missing out on. Don’t change a thing, stay exactly as you are, because your perfect and he’s an idiot "
…Kinda made me giggle hats off to you …
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ffs everyone read the thread haha its a look at me and tell me im great thread the op said so himself a few replies in
the thread is fab in a nutshell bloke posts look at me thread nobody plays along and tells him they like him then some other women and men reply and say sometimes people reject them too and almost immediately all the women are told that the people rejecting them are crazy but none of the men are ever told that!!
typical fab blow smoke up the ladys arses but ignore the men haha
Woman rejects man : well maybe you need to work on yourself and become better, your not going to be everyone’s type and they have every right to reject you
Man rejects woman : queen your too good for hun. He has no idea what he’s missing out on. Don’t change a thing, stay exactly as you are, because your perfect and he’s an idiot "
Or man spits dummy out and starts crying like your exact post |
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"ffs everyone read the thread haha its a look at me and tell me im great thread the op said so himself a few replies in
the thread is fab in a nutshell bloke posts look at me thread nobody plays along and tells him they like him then some other women and men reply and say sometimes people reject them too and almost immediately all the women are told that the people rejecting them are crazy but none of the men are ever told that!!
typical fab blow smoke up the ladys arses but ignore the men haha
Woman rejects man : well maybe you need to work on yourself and become better, your not going to be everyone’s type and they have every right to reject you
Man rejects woman : queen your too good for hun. He has no idea what he’s missing out on. Don’t change a thing, stay exactly as you are, because your perfect and he’s an idiot "
This ^^
So much this! |
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"ffs everyone read the thread haha its a look at me and tell me im great thread the op said so himself a few replies in
the thread is fab in a nutshell bloke posts look at me thread nobody plays along and tells him they like him then some other women and men reply and say sometimes people reject them too and almost immediately all the women are told that the people rejecting them are crazy but none of the men are ever told that!!
typical fab blow smoke up the ladys arses but ignore the men haha
Woman rejects man : well maybe you need to work on yourself and become better, your not going to be everyone’s type and they have every right to reject you
Man rejects woman : queen your too good for hun. He has no idea what he’s missing out on. Don’t change a thing, stay exactly as you are, because your perfect and he’s an idiot "
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"ffs everyone read the thread haha its a look at me and tell me im great thread the op said so himself a few replies in
the thread is fab in a nutshell bloke posts look at me thread nobody plays along and tells him they like him then some other women and men reply and say sometimes people reject them too and almost immediately all the women are told that the people rejecting them are crazy but none of the men are ever told that!!
typical fab blow smoke up the ladys arses but ignore the men haha
Woman rejects man : well maybe you need to work on yourself and become better, your not going to be everyone’s type and they have every right to reject you
Man rejects woman : queen your too good for hun. He has no idea what he’s missing out on. Don’t change a thing, stay exactly as you are, because your perfect and he’s an idiot
…Kinda made me giggle hats off to you …
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"If you’re below an 8 or don’t have big tartars then the chances are I’ll still respond with FAF  "
An 8?
Guys have 2 ratings
0 or 1
Would or wouldn’t fuck
Our tiny men brains can’t process much more above 0 or 1 |
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"If you’re below an 8 or don’t have big tartars then the chances are I’ll still respond with FAF
An 8?
Guys have 2 ratings
0 or 1
Would or wouldn’t fuck
Our tiny men brains can’t process much more above 0 or 1"
#notallmen |
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By *ippy68Man
over a year ago
Weymouth |
"… is a message I (and we guys) get a lot. So whose type am I then, ladies? For the vain post #sorrynotsorry
Think yourself lucky mate. So of us just get laughed at.  "
Most of us get no reply at all! |
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"ffs everyone read the thread haha its a look at me and tell me im great thread the op said so himself a few replies in
the thread is fab in a nutshell bloke posts look at me thread nobody plays along and tells him they like him then some other women and men reply and say sometimes people reject them too and almost immediately all the women are told that the people rejecting them are crazy but none of the men are ever told that!!
typical fab blow smoke up the ladys arses but ignore the men haha
Woman rejects man : well maybe you need to work on yourself and become better, your not going to be everyone’s type and they have every right to reject you
Man rejects woman : queen your too good for hun. He has no idea what he’s missing out on. Don’t change a thing, stay exactly as you are, because your perfect and he’s an idiot
…Kinda made me giggle hats off to you …
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bravo round of applause well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ffs everyone read the thread haha its a look at me and tell me im great thread the op said so himself a few replies in
the thread is fab in a nutshell bloke posts look at me thread nobody plays along and tells him they like him then some other women and men reply and say sometimes people reject them too and almost immediately all the women are told that the people rejecting them are crazy but none of the men are ever told that!!
typical fab blow smoke up the ladys arses but ignore the men haha
Woman rejects man : well maybe you need to work on yourself and become better, your not going to be everyone’s type and they have every right to reject you
Man rejects woman : queen your too good for hun. He has no idea what he’s missing out on. Don’t change a thing, stay exactly as you are, because your perfect and he’s an idiot "
haha exactly!!! |
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o/p Just to add my thoughts. Using tinder as an example I believe women swipe right on 5% or less of men. Just need to stand out from the crowd so to speak. Join in with forum and cam room chat. Good luck! |
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