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Quite a few people on here are looking to date.
Personally, I've never actively looked for it, but always remained open to the possibility...sometimes you just can't ignore that chemistry with someone you meet  |
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By *addy400 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Quite a few people on here are looking to date.
Personally, I've never actively looked for it, but always remained open to the possibility...sometimes you just can't ignore that chemistry with someone you meet "
I think that’s true, gosh your pic is hot btw! |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"Actual dating? I find a lot of people use dating sites separately and this for sex, like you can’t possibly date on here as it’s a sex site?! "
...who said it was a sex site?    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite a few people on here are looking to date.
Personally, I've never actively looked for it, but always remained open to the possibility...sometimes you just can't ignore that chemistry with someone you meet "
Would happily take you out on a date  |
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"Actual dating? I find a lot of people use dating sites separately and this for sex, like you can’t possibly date on here as it’s a sex site?! "
Course you can, in many ways, it's actually better way to start chatting with someone. |
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I'd have no problem dating someone from here.
After all, if I want an open relationship, surely it's going to be easier to find people who are up for that on here than a normal dating site?
Were you looking to date? |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"Actual dating? I find a lot of people use dating sites separately and this for sex, like you can’t possibly date on here as it’s a sex site?!
...who said it was a sex site? "
Its Tinder for true grown ups  |
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"Quite a few people on here are looking to date.
Personally, I've never actively looked for it, but always remained open to the possibility...sometimes you just can't ignore that chemistry with someone you meet
I think that’s true, gosh your pic is hot btw! "
 Thank you x |
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By *addy400 OP Woman
over a year ago
warwick |
"I'd have no problem dating someone from here.
After all, if I want an open relationship, surely it's going to be easier to find people who are up for that on here than a normal dating site?
Were you looking to date? "
As a newly single person, I’m open to it for sure |
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"Quite a few people on here are looking to date.
Personally, I've never actively looked for it, but always remained open to the possibility...sometimes you just can't ignore that chemistry with someone you meet
Would happily take you out on a date "
I'm flattered...not sure my boyfriend would be too happy about it though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite a few people on here are looking to date.
Personally, I've never actively looked for it, but always remained open to the possibility...sometimes you just can't ignore that chemistry with someone you meet
Would happily take you out on a date
I'm flattered...not sure my boyfriend would be too happy about it though "
That’s ok not a problem just call it a fabbers date.. gorgeous profile picture x |
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By *addy400 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Actual dating? I find a lot of people use dating sites separately and this for sex, like you can’t possibly date on here as it’s a sex site?!
...who said it was a sex site?
Its Tinder for true grown ups "
I agree actually, not keen on that site! |
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I'm trying to date women but not very successfully so far. Yes I'm male but introducing Gemma right from the start I figure there's no elephant in the room to drop on the poor girl later and watch her flee in terror. It makes life harder but maybe one day soon my luck will change, fingers crossed. It seems women don't mind guys who dress, just so long as it's not the actual guy they are in a relationship with. That's a miserable tactic is that girls  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was told by a girl...a very sexy one I might add... after not being to forward, That this is a sex site not a dating site...
Then when I was chatting with another girl...I was a little bit more forward...and she responded... this is a swinger's site not a sex site... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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100 percent a dating approach…..my standards are the same, why would I sleep with someone I wouldn’t date???
ONS’s simply don’t appeal, the thought alone bores me. Plus…why give someone that instant access to you?? Each to their own….entirely. But it’s dating all the way for me. It’s a lifestyle for me, not a casual sex site. |
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my experience is with dating sites, i'd get men looking for a one night stand or sex not a relationship.
I guess I feel that Fab is 'more honest' about it. I'd like a date that ends with sex. or breakfast. :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if you really get on with that person and the chemistry is there you never know sometimes things could always develop into a relationship. You look on people's profiles and they say that they're looking for no strings attached but nobody knows what's around that corner you could literally meet that person get on with that person so much and then things could develop into a b c |
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Peopke do find theirvpartners pn here and are happy probably after a few meets n mayb go on a date to
But then i get slateres at times sayin this is not a dating sote its a sex site - so u wanna f*** or wat
If your after datin n relationship go n f*** off to Tinder n P.o.f
but even them so called 'dating sites'
The majority of them on there probably already have partners an just cos they see you on line at the time like on here if ur on line, they just msg u expectin u to meet up with them just for a shag,
But then when u start chattin n they ask what are u lookin for
N mayb if u are looking for a relationship
THEY JUST BLOCK YOU
An they are supposed to be dating sites
So u cant win half the time
On here if u meet somrome n u loke then n would like to meet up regularly and they were the same then mayb arrange a date n go from there if ur both happy
Then good luck to thrm
Its like one rule for on but one rule for another sometimes on here
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I ended up in a relationship with someone I met from here but it was a big mistake and bit something I’d do again. I’m regularly told how stupid I am for wanting to date on here because it’s a sex site because I want a social meet first- I don’t see that as a date, just as time to see if I fancy you in real life, feel comfortable with you and want to take it further. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Actual dating? I find a lot of people use dating sites separately and this for sex, like you can’t possibly date on here as it’s a sex site?! "
I wouldn't date anyone on here but lots of people do. People fall in love on here and get married.  |
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When I was single I used FAB for swinging related activities clubs, couples and singles on the scene. And dating sites for causal sex and dating (depending the share objective). Ironically unexpectedly I met Mrs Misfit on here and although we weren't looking to date everything just slotted into place.
(Mr)
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
I think most people don't come on here with that intention initially. Situations where they might actually begin dating and regularly seeing someone happen organically and of their own volition.
It's only natural if you happen to connect with someone that appeals to more than a desire for sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Quite a few people on here are looking to date.
Personally, I've never actively looked for it, but always remained open to the possibility...sometimes you just can't ignore that chemistry with someone you meet "
That is exactly how I feel, you never know who your going to meet and where if you have amazing chemistry and you both want to take it further it doesn’t matter where you meet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally just for fun
Friendships yes, relationship hmm I'm not sure "
Same. If I am meeting, it’s strictly one offs. Trying to reduce the chance of catching feelings |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally just for fun
Friendships yes, relationship hmm I'm not sure
Same. If I am meeting, it’s strictly one offs. Trying to reduce the chance of catching feelings "
I don't think it's possible, when you like someone. It just happens |
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Sex is one of the most important aspects in a relationship, so I think this site allows you to be introduced to open minded people.
If you then get on outside of the bedroom, it provides a good platform.
We met on here, both weren’t looking at all but realised that we enjoyed each other too much.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally just for fun
Friendships yes, relationship hmm I'm not sure
Same. If I am meeting, it’s strictly one offs. Trying to reduce the chance of catching feelings
I don't think it's possible, when you like someone. It just happens "
It’s definitely possible. Meet them once, don’t ask too many questions or reveal too much about yourself, have a good time physically and leave. Don’t see them again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally just for fun
Friendships yes, relationship hmm I'm not sure
Same. If I am meeting, it’s strictly one offs. Trying to reduce the chance of catching feelings
I don't think it's possible, when you like someone. It just happens
It’s definitely possible. Meet them once, don’t ask too many questions or reveal too much about yourself, have a good time physically and leave. Don’t see them again "
Don't you think you'll eventually find that quite cold and unfulfilling? |
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I have previously and have a similar approach for looking for a FWB
As someone else said, a social is quite like a date. I guess the difference here is people are more explicit with their desires and what they're looking for, which isn't a bad thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally just for fun
Friendships yes, relationship hmm I'm not sure
Same. If I am meeting, it’s strictly one offs. Trying to reduce the chance of catching feelings
I don't think it's possible, when you like someone. It just happens
It’s definitely possible. Meet them once, don’t ask too many questions or reveal too much about yourself, have a good time physically and leave. Don’t see them again "
I couldn’t do that. I think the more you know someone the better the sex becomes. I’m not just wanting meaningless sex I need a connection |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally just for fun
Friendships yes, relationship hmm I'm not sure
Same. If I am meeting, it’s strictly one offs. Trying to reduce the chance of catching feelings
I don't think it's possible, when you like someone. It just happens
It’s definitely possible. Meet them once, don’t ask too many questions or reveal too much about yourself, have a good time physically and leave. Don’t see them again "
Bit like F&G |
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
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"Personally just for fun
Friendships yes, relationship hmm I'm not sure
Same. If I am meeting, it’s strictly one offs. Trying to reduce the chance of catching feelings
I don't think it's possible, when you like someone. It just happens
It’s definitely possible. Meet them once, don’t ask too many questions or reveal too much about yourself, have a good time physically and leave. Don’t see them again
I couldn’t do that. I think the more you know someone the better the sex becomes. I’m not just wanting meaningless sex I need a connection "
I agree sometimes sex is better with connection. But I can detach feelings and still have awesome sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally just for fun
Friendships yes, relationship hmm I'm not sure
Same. If I am meeting, it’s strictly one offs. Trying to reduce the chance of catching feelings
I don't think it's possible, when you like someone. It just happens
It’s definitely possible. Meet them once, don’t ask too many questions or reveal too much about yourself, have a good time physically and leave. Don’t see them again
I couldn’t do that. I think the more you know someone the better the sex becomes. I’m not just wanting meaningless sex I need a connection
I agree sometimes sex is better with connection. But I can detach feelings and still have awesome sex "
I wish I was able to do that sometimes |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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I've posted in the past I'm on mainstream dating sites as well as this, I look at fab as another opportunity to meet the lady, will it happen possibly if I wasn't on here its one less chance.
My inbox is open ladies  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally just for fun
Friendships yes, relationship hmm I'm not sure
Same. If I am meeting, it’s strictly one offs. Trying to reduce the chance of catching feelings
I don't think it's possible, when you like someone. It just happens
It’s definitely possible. Meet them once, don’t ask too many questions or reveal too much about yourself, have a good time physically and leave. Don’t see them again
Bit like F&G "
Exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally just for fun
Friendships yes, relationship hmm I'm not sure
Same. If I am meeting, it’s strictly one offs. Trying to reduce the chance of catching feelings
I don't think it's possible, when you like someone. It just happens
It’s definitely possible. Meet them once, don’t ask too many questions or reveal too much about yourself, have a good time physically and leave. Don’t see them again
Don't you think you'll eventually find that quite cold and unfulfilling?"
Cold - yes, unfulfilling - not if they have good skills. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"Personally just for fun
Friendships yes, relationship hmm I'm not sure
Same. If I am meeting, it’s strictly one offs. Trying to reduce the chance of catching feelings
I don't think it's possible, when you like someone. It just happens "
This.
I met my ex on here, neither of us were looking for more but on our first meeting it was obvious that there was more there.
We saw each other again a few times over the next month then recognised that ‘something’ was happening.
When someone is right, it just happens |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally just for fun
Friendships yes, relationship hmm I'm not sure
Same. If I am meeting, it’s strictly one offs. Trying to reduce the chance of catching feelings
I don't think it's possible, when you like someone. It just happens
This.
I met my ex on here, neither of us were looking for more but on our first meeting it was obvious that there was more there.
We saw each other again a few times over the next month then recognised that ‘something’ was happening.
When someone is right, it just happens"
You might not be looking but you have to be open to it for it to happen.
You were obviously open to it.
I’m not. |
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"I just wondered what the thoughts are, do singles on fab ever date or just use it purely for sex??
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Have dated 3 separate girls from here.
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It would be weird if you'd dated 3 "joined together" girls from here
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