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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have you ever met someone off here and sort of got addicted to having sex with them?
Like when you think of them you think of the sex you've had with them. You meet them and come away thinking I've got to stop doing this but then days later your sat there with your phone in your hand thinking shall I call them or not then say to yourself don't do it. Then 2 minutes later your phoning them arranging to meet for sex.
It's like having a addiction with no self control and yes we all have had different partners in the past but have you ever had one that you just think of when you need sex.
Is it even a addiction or just desire at that time when your horny?
Is it wrong to just think of them like that?
Is it wrong to lose your self control?
Or is it normal to feel this way about someone?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been absolutely obsessed with someone (not from here) to the point we’re five years later, I’m still struggling to wean myself off them. It’s awful |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm addicted to someone on here and I'm enjoying it for as long as I possibly can. Why stop a good thing  "
Addicted to them
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Addicted to the sex you have with them? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ve been absolutely obsessed with someone (not from here) to the point we’re five years later, I’m still struggling to wean myself off them. It’s awful "
So its normalish then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are doing things that are affecting the rest of your life, then I'd suggest you seek help. Real addiction can be damaging. If you are worried I'd suggest looking up SLAA.  |
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"If you are doing things that are affecting the rest of your life, then I'd suggest you seek help. Real addiction can be damaging. If you are worried I'd suggest looking up SLAA. "
It's not affecting my life.I'm not worried and I don't regret it afterwards but I just wondered if it's normal to have no sexual self control with one person.
I guess addiction is the wrong word.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not affecting my life.I'm not worried and I don't regret it afterwards but I just wondered if it's normal to have no sexual self control with one person.
I guess addiction is the wrong word.
Sorry "
You are in lust. You think of him and you want to experience and fulfil every sexual desire with him. I wouldn’t say it’s normal but it isn’t abnormal. Not everyone gets to feel this way. It isn’t exactly rare but it isn’t common.
People may feel lust for someone when they’re falling in love but concupiscence, pure lust is slightly different.
You are in lust. Enjoy it as long as you manage it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's not affecting my life.I'm not worried and I don't regret it afterwards but I just wondered if it's normal to have no sexual self control with one person.
I guess addiction is the wrong word.
Sorry
You are in lust. You think of him and you want to experience and fulfil every sexual desire with him. I wouldn’t say it’s normal but it isn’t abnormal. Not everyone gets to feel this way. It isn’t exactly rare but it isn’t common.
People may feel lust for someone when they’re falling in love but concupiscence, pure lust is slightly different.
You are in lust. Enjoy it as long as you manage it."
Well that sort of makes sense of how I feel. Apart from I'm not in love with him I don't think. It's just the sexual side of what we do I'm focused on when I think of him. I guess it's what you say. I'm in lust  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve been dickmatised a few times, shit hot sex is pretty addictive, but I’m able to walk away when needed."
Dickmatised hahaha I like that.
I should of titled this thread addicktion  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm addicted to someone on here and I'm enjoying it for as long as I possibly can. Why stop a good thing
Addicted to them
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Addicted to the sex you have with them?"
Both....but in healthy way  |
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