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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi
Im sure some of you are om here who are in committed relationships but for some reason or another are on fab looking for discreet hook ups. Now is it wrong for a guy or girl to do this ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi
Im sure some of you are om here who are in committed relationships but for some reason or another are on fab looking for discreet hook ups. Now is it wrong for a guy or girl to do this ?
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Its deeply unsatisfying to be in a relationship with secrets and lies like this, I personally don't see the point, it won't bring you closer together and is disrespectful to the one you're meant 'to love'. You don't love them in fact you need them and that's something else so personally I see this cheating behavior as needy and that is not attractive in the slightest. Right or wrong you decide, wrong approach to intimacy 100% |
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I personally think it’s not all black and white
Divorce laws in this country are fucked. You could lose all your shit just because you’ve fallen out of love in a sexless marriage
So they come here to get their needs fulfilled without going through a costly and messy divorce |
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Who am I to judge? People have their reasons, and those reasons will be many and varied...how do I know if those reasons are valid if I don't live their life. And what has it got to do with me anyway?
Very little in this world is black and white. |
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By *ickyquimCouple
over a year ago
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"Who am I to judge? People have their reasons, and those reasons will be many and varied...how do I know if those reasons are valid if I don't live their life. And what has it got to do with me anyway?
Very little in this world is black and white."
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"Who am I to judge? People have their reasons, and those reasons will be many and varied...how do I know if those reasons are valid if I don't live their life. And what has it got to do with me anyway?
Very little in this world is black and white."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think probably don’t judge until you’ve been in the position of having a whole side of you that can’t be fulfilled but trying to hold something else together for bigger reasons than yourself |
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Tbh I don't care, its their buisness why and I don't come on here to judge people...
The only thing I want to know is that they are in a relationship, then I can make a decision on whether I want to go forward or not |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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"Am I being judgmental about it if it’s not my preference to meet someone who is playing behind their partners back?
It’s never judgemental to meet who you want under the circumstances you want."
Then it’s not my business what they get up to but unless their partner is joining us then I don’t want to meet them  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"Tbh I don't care, its their buisness why and I don't come on here to judge people...
The only thing I want to know is that they are in a relationship, then I can make a decision on whether I want to go forward or not"
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"Tbh I don't care, its their buisness why and I don't come on here to judge people...
The only thing I want to know is that they are in a relationship, then I can make a decision on whether I want to go forward or not"
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