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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It depends on the setting really. If I'm at work then I do quite a good poker face, outside of it and on a more personal level than no, I'm dire at hiding how I'm feeling. That's not a bad thing. |
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"Are you good at hiding/concealing your feelings?
Would someone be able to tell just by looking at you, if say you were sad, angry, upset etc....."
I’ve made 20 years of married based around it hehe well that’s maybe unfair… it was good for a while |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you good at hiding/concealing your feelings?
Would someone be able to tell just by looking at you, if say you were sad, angry, upset etc....."
Periodically. But I found that eventually it often leads to some sort of outbursts of these compressed feelings, whether positive or negative. So fucked if you do and fucked if you don't..   better just get it out usually, unless you know the best outcome for everyone is to hold a lid on them. Not sure if it's that healthy long term. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you good at hiding/concealing your feelings?
Would someone be able to tell just by looking at you, if say you were sad, angry, upset etc....."
Terrible my eyes give it away |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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Nope and I don’t think you should endeavour to do so either I’ll always speak my mind, some people see showing emotion/feeling as weakness when in fact it’s the total opposite.
I’m not afraid of how I feel however I’m also not naive enough to think that my feelings won’t scare others once out in the open, what someone chooses to do with them may hurt but at least I’ve been true to myself xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you good at hiding/concealing your feelings?
Would someone be able to tell just by looking at you, if say you were sad, angry, upset etc....."
I am very bad in concealing emotions, and dont even try, it is for reason and other should know
 is of no use if i am angry on someone. |
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"Are you good at hiding/concealing your feelings?
Would someone be able to tell just by looking at you, if say you were sad, angry, upset etc....."
I spent 5 years hiding a suppressing my emotions I don't think I could do it again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I generally hide them well from strangers but then that was developed though working in corporate.
If someone gets to know me then I’m very open and honest with my feelings. Some may say blunt at times. |
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Nope, my face speaks a thousand words! And if you don’t see that, I’m pretty vocal too.. if you are rude, annoy or anger me, I will definitely tell you.
I promise I’m not a bad person! I’m kind to anyone until they give me a reason not to be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you good at hiding/concealing your feelings?
Would someone be able to tell just by looking at you, if say you were sad, angry, upset etc....."
Definitely not. I go red and the end of my nose goes really red when I'm trying not to cry. And I cry if I'm sad, upset and angry. I'm a very expressive person. |
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The only ones I even try to hide are in work...for instance I had to give a presentation to my senior VP on Monday, I was bricking it but my manager asked how I don't get scared, so I guess I did a good job of pretending not to be nervous.
In my personal life, why would I want to hide my feelings? I'm direct and can't abide silly mind games...and I much prefer others to be the same. We all have feelings, surely it's better to let them be known than presume people are psychic. |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
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If I chose to hide my feelings then no, No-one would know the truth. The main reason I would hide them is while I cogitate before deciding how I truly feel about something. Instantly reacting to things can lead down bad paths.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope I’m an open book, my face gives it away plus I’m vocal.
I’ve learnt that hiding my feelings is not good for me.. it has lead to outcomes that were sad at the time but I’d rather express myself whatever the result. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At work I can, and other situations where it is needed, but on a personal level I can at times, or so I'm told, be quite quite the give away with certain expressions I may not be aware of doing/showing. |
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I used to find it very easy to say ‘I’m ok’ when I was falling apart a few years back.
So many people were asking the same question, and it was easier to just say I’m fine rather than opening up. I don’t think a lot would’ve liked the answer tbh.
This past year or so I’ve found myself quite emotional, if something upsets me my face will tell you, and if someone compliments me that makes me fill up too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you good at hiding/concealing your feelings?
Would someone be able to tell just by looking at you, if say you were sad, angry, upset etc....."
I'm absolutely terrible at hiding my feelings, eveyone knows straight away, it's really annoying.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was always massively shy and as such I couldn’t express annoyance or anger I just bottled it up
So very angry makes tears come to my eyes as I don’t shout or argue,then I feel foolish and embarrassed at myself. Other than that I’m read like an early learning book |
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