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By *EAT..85 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
How many conversations have you started up with forumites you rather fancy and missed your chance at the sexy dance as things patter out friendly and mundane?
How many conversations would you wish to reverse back to the point of suggesting rampant sexy times? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably the opposite for me ! My Fab chats usually begin with a friendly vibe, if that goes in a sexual direction for both then happy days, but if not there's still a cool friendship. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
I don’t think anyone has communicated with me with a genuine interest to boff me from the forums. I think it’s always just been harmless flirting on their part and me being too shy to reciprocate.
I’m hard work to chat with so I take full responsibility. So friend zoned? Maybe? Or just passed over as really hard work!
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By *EAT..85 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"I don’t think anyone has communicated with me with a genuine interest to boff me from the forums. I think it’s always just been harmless flirting on their part and me being too shy to reciprocate.
I’m hard work to chat with so I take full responsibility. So friend zoned? Maybe? Or just passed over as really hard work!
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Aww Luna, I bet you're so wrong!
Folks, make it stupendously obvious if you want to bump uglies with her! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Zero. I'm one of those awkward sods who needs to be friends with someone before I can properly start to want to do the horizontal tango with them.
Sometimes that doesn't work out but I've still got a friendship there and to be honest, I'm a selective 'mare so my friendship is a lot easier. |
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By *EAT..85 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"99.9% of my meets are with people who don't use the forums, prefer to keep it that way. "
Mines a mixture, though more non forumites due to location ease. I'm terrible at figuring out who has/is nabbing who |
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"99.9% of my meets are with people who don't use the forums, prefer to keep it that way.
Mines a mixture, though more non forumites due to location ease. I'm terrible at figuring out who has/is nabbing who "
I just find there is less drama involved meeting non formites. Been there, done it and can't be arsed with all the childlike behaviour x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What will be, will be. If I'm friendly with someone I fancy and chat about cake or the weather or something, I'll still jump into bed with them if the chance presented itself 
I do know though, that if they can't hold a nice sexual, friendly conversation with me, I'm unlikely to want to sleep with them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many conversations have you started up with forumites you rather fancy and missed your chance at the sexy dance as things patter out friendly and mundane?
How many conversations would you wish to reverse back to the point of suggesting rampant sexy times? "
Is no one going to pick up on the terms ‘sexy dance’ and ‘sexy times’, OP have you got too much sexy you need to get rid of ? |
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"I don’t think anyone has communicated with me with a genuine interest to boff me from the forums. I think it’s always just been harmless flirting on their part and me being too shy to reciprocate.
I’m hard work to chat with so I take full responsibility. So friend zoned? Maybe? Or just passed over as really hard work!
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We talked about IKEA! |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"I don’t think anyone has communicated with me with a genuine interest to boff me from the forums. I think it’s always just been harmless flirting on their part and me being too shy to reciprocate.
I’m hard work to chat with so I take full responsibility. So friend zoned? Maybe? Or just passed over as really hard work!
We talked about IKEA! "
Mmmmmmmm meatballs *rubs thighs* |
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"How many conversations have you started up with forumites you rather fancy and missed your chance at the sexy dance as things patter out friendly and mundane?
How many conversations would you wish to reverse back to the point of suggesting rampant sexy times?
Is no one going to pick up on the terms ‘sexy dance’ and ‘sexy times’, OP have you got too much sexy you need to get rid of ?"
I didn’t notice that, I was too busy having a schoolboy smirk over “beating around the bush”  |
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"I don’t think anyone has communicated with me with a genuine interest to boff me from the forums. I think it’s always just been harmless flirting on their part and me being too shy to reciprocate.
I’m hard work to chat with so I take full responsibility. So friend zoned? Maybe? Or just passed over as really hard work!
We talked about IKEA!
Mmmmmmmm meatballs *rubs thighs* "
You and your balls!
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None really. The minute I have any sexual conversation with someone I cannot meet them. I say all sorts of bollocks midwank and it would be too awkward with too much pressure sitting through a coffee chatting about the weather after that 
Sex definitely comes after the friendly chit chat but before the dirty flirty stuff for me |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"I don’t think anyone has communicated with me with a genuine interest to boff me from the forums. I think it’s always just been harmless flirting on their part and me being too shy to reciprocate.
I’m hard work to chat with so I take full responsibility. So friend zoned? Maybe? Or just passed over as really hard work!
We talked about IKEA!
Mmmmmmmm meatballs *rubs thighs* "
Mmmmmmmm stools *rubs thighs* |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
I normally end up in the friend zone.
There's been a couple of instances where I'd hoped for more, but I'd rather keep a friend than lose them trying to push for something that they didn't want. |
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There are some forumites that I fancy - and tell them so!
Most of my "sexy time" meets follow on from a friendship, anyway. If they friend zone me, that's ok. Likewise, I've friend zoned a couple.
Only one person has ever been a dick about it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to be on and off this site and found it fairly easy to find what I was looking for. Since becoming a site supporter and using the forums I haven't had one meet.
And I've not had any formite "indecent proposals" either.
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Tbh friendships are more important to me than sex, so I'm never going to be disappointed being in a friendzone.
If it becomes sexual I'm a happy bunny, but if not I've gained a friend... so I'm still a happy bunny. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In prefer the concept of Fight clubs "single serving friends" where I go out, meet people and become besties for that day then never see each other again. im not great at maintaining relationships. |
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Is an interesting question this actually as there has certainly has been one or two I'd like to start over with and one who was interested but I've given up haha ...
But that's fab so no major biggie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is not the first time I have been on here. Last time, when the conversations dried up, I took it as a failing on my part. The reality is I am one of so many men on here, it is buyer’s market.
One of the women I chatted to (and still do, bless her) tried to explain to me swinging is all about friendships, not sex and hook ups. I didn’t get that at the time but I think I do now.
Unless they start getting ‘ sexy’ I stay away from that now. Did it in the past and found it lasts two weeks tops. Now I chat, have a laugh, if the conversation comes to an end, or they stop replying then I leave it at that. Maybe life has got in the way or they have moved on, it is their choice  |
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None really. I’ve made lots of friends on here which I never really expected. It’s actually very rare that I want to take it further but when I have it’s always been worth it. No regrets or shoulda woulda coulda’s here x |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I tend to friend zone myself all the time  
There are some I'd just wished I'd said straight off what I wanted but nerves and stuff got in the way. What's done is done I guess "
We are who we are.
Taking that first step is a very anxious time.
Try and be brave (i should do the same).  |
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By *EAT..85 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"How many conversations have you started up with forumites you rather fancy and missed your chance at the sexy dance as things patter out friendly and mundane?
How many conversations would you wish to reverse back to the point of suggesting rampant sexy times?
Is no one going to pick up on the terms ‘sexy dance’ and ‘sexy times’, OP have you got too much sexy you need to get rid of ?"
Does it show?
I'm a little without at the moment |
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By *EAT..85 OP Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"I'm a complete wall flower in here, nobody notices me or really answers to anything I comment on.
I can be quite contentious, or boring?  "
I see you. Keep at it and you'll float someone's boat |
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