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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago
Solihull and Brentwood |
Prefer it tbh. As the next time, you go to message the person or couple. You get a wacking great message saying:
Warning. You've messaged this person before. Do you really want to waste your own time again.  |
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"To delete messages after reading?
Do you think it as off putting your messages are read and replied but deleted afterwards?"
Yet another argument for thd sent items box to be removed as a site tool! Now we can't even delete messages we've replied to!  |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
No I don't think it's rude. I've had plenty of sent messages read and deleted doesn't bother me. If it's a big deal to you and annoying you why not just delete the sent messages and then you can't see what happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think deleted means a polite no thanks
Women get 100s of messages a day they can’t reply to them all
Read the faq. Deleted = no thanks "
He means after they’ve been replied to |
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By *lzbobMan
over a year ago
plymouth |
"If my message had been read, deleted and not responded to I'd take the hint?
No biggie  "
Exactly it's better to know that there's no interest with a deleted message than just wondering if there will ever be a reply. Used to bother me at first now I'm happy enough to have a virgin inbox yet to get a reply. Tidier is much better. |
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"To delete messages after reading?
Do you think it as off putting your messages are read and replied but deleted afterwards?"
Yes it's very rude. Rude as hell. I still have messages written in ink. Fab are digitalising them for me so I can add them to my ever lengthening list of messages that do nothing else but use up bandwidth.
Hope that helps. xx |
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"To delete messages after reading?
Do you think it as off putting your messages are read and replied but deleted afterwards?"
Only if your are arranging a meet and havnt sort other means of communication |
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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago
Cardiff |
Most commonly I do this when I reply
"Thank you", because they sent me a compliment of some description.
Or "I'm not interested, sorry" or a combination of the two.
I don't see any point keeping the messages. Why would it be considered rude to delete? |
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By *olmate OP Man
over a year ago
west mids |
Actually, I got messages from them. I read and replied (it was a no thank) and just deleted the messages but then I got message from them saying how rude I was to delete their message!
That is the whole thing that made me ask your opinions.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone has the manners to reply to you then they aren’t rude, rude would be ignoring then straight up deleting.
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Still not rude. Site rules state no reply = not interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone has the manners to reply to you then they aren’t rude, rude would be ignoring then straight up deleting.
Still not rude. Site rules state no reply = not interested."
Exactly it’s in the FAQs it’s not rude at all  |
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By *not123Couple
over a year ago
sp1 |
"To delete messages after reading?
Do you think it as off putting your messages are read and replied but deleted afterwards?"
I get such abuse when I delete but hate loads of messages stuck there |
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I read the message go look at profile and if it’s clear they didn’t read profile ie it’s a smoker then yeah I delete. I know my profile is a fecking epic biography but if you can’t spend a minute reading it you won’t gonna spend that time working out what gets us off so fuck it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm still chatting to them I just assume they are good at housekeeping and like to keep things tidy. If they delete and then never reply back then that's that. |
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They are probably just keeping a tidy inbox but it still makes me feel shit. 
