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Have you ever met someone on here that you cannot forget? In a situation you cannot meet again?
To say its painful is a silly over the top description but it slightly eats away with a "if only" and "What if?"
I ask this because back in late 2029 I met someone from here on two occasions.
The first time u can honestly say it was the best evening I've ever spent with a woman. If I'd have been single (yes I'm married) I could have easily wanted more. She was that amazing.
Now in 2021 I cannot help think about her. Nearly two years on and she's still in my head  |
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By *opinovMan
over a year ago
Point Nemo, Cumbria |
Yes, I met someone here a few times whom I think about a lot, and I'm aching to see her again - we had such fun. Hopefully, the right circumstances for us to resume will arise before too long. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had this with someone, got to a point where she would be at mine when I got home from work to stay the night or I would go to hers. Didn't expect it to go the way it did but was a couple of months I will never forget. Haven't been that happy in a long time but sadly just ended abruptly with no further contact  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not from here, but yes. In my ill fated time with tinder (not all that bad, made some close friends) I met an Israeli American who might be the actual coolest person I've ever been on a date with. Chemistry was incredible, I was smitten. She liked me too it appeared. Wasn't to be. Pleasant memories tho even with the "what ifs"  |
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"Yes. It's been a while but feels still fresh when I go back in my memories. He was out of this world. His way with words, his curiosity of me and the way he looked at me first time. Everything scarily perfect and in tune. So healing and so intense. The circumstances and timing weren't in our favour. But I still think of him sometimes. And message on His birthday when I look back on my pics of that time, my eyes tell a story of a woman who felt the top of the world and was looked at with love and desire, which made me bloom
I'm glad I got to feel that even if it didn't last. "
This exactly. Our meeting was intense.
I've had many intimate meetings. Be it relationships or one night stands and my two nights with her was amazing. Never knew sex like it. Easily the best experience in my lifetime.
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Used to meet a married woman from here about once a week for a year
She was crazy curvy. Tiny waist, big bum, big boobs, great kisser and just filthy
She would come over, fuck my brains out, then she would lay in bed just chatting and kissing, she would suddenly pop up, get dressed, “gotta pick the kids up” and she’d be gome.
She went silent for a few weeks then finally txt me saying she was having problem at home and had to stop seeing me.
She was absolutely perfect. Everything from her smile, her stretch marks, her curves, the way she would wind me up amd joke around with me.
Kinda fell in love a little. Miss her a lot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah definitely. Similar to above with a married woman, we used meet regularly for about 4/5 hours during the day. Then she went quiet, then told she’d fallen pregnant. There’s still a faint hope for one last hurrah. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last year I met a young man from bdsm date. He was 25, tall, pale as a ghost, lots of tattoos and skinny as a rake. Basically everything I tend to look for on my profiles. On top of that he was shy, innocent and so sweet. Had these big green eyes and looked like a baby deer lol. However he had only ever had sex once before (10 years ago) and was just not a very sexual person.
I suspected he may of been on the Autistic spectrum as he had very rigid, predictable behaviours. We ended it as he thought he wouldn't be enough for me and would be jealous if I saw other people. It's a shame because hecwas an awesome drinking partner and friend. He still randomly messages me if he's had a strange dream about me or is worried something has happened to me.
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
Yes recently, both wish we'd have met sooner so we could have had what we had for longer, we just clicked and everything just felt so natural between us. Unfortunately distance and free time is a bitch and they'll no longer be local so we decided to end things on a high and remain friends for now and if circumstance so happens that we can meet again we will. |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
West Wales and Cardiff |
It wasn’t intense in the sense of falling for someone, or similar, but I met a couple in late 2018 that I’ll never forget and I think about often.
They were both lovely people. When I nervously knocked the door (the nerves are still there after all these years, which I love!) she came to the door virtually naked. I remember feeling a jolt go through my body that was more powerful than any I’d experienced. She looked amazing.
It came at the end of a horrible year in which I felt numb to the nice things in life. While I often have that image on the doorstep in my head (it’s burnt on my retina, I swear!), the two evenings with them is more a reminder to hang in there, and that good things and great new experiences can happen after dark times.
They were passing through and live hundreds of miles away, but we are still in contact . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best meet I had didn’t involve sex at all, a kiss on the cheek hello for what was to be a social, after about 20 minutes of talking away deer started coming quite close and we spent two hours watching them and speaking. It was really nice |
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"Have you ever met someone on here that you cannot forget? In a situation you cannot meet again?
To say its painful is a silly over the top description but it slightly eats away with a "if only" and "What if?"
I ask this because back in late 2029 I met someone from here on two occasions.
The first time u can honestly say it was the best evening I've ever spent with a woman. If I'd have been single (yes I'm married) I could have easily wanted more. She was that amazing.
Now in 2021 I cannot help think about her. Nearly two years on and she's still in my head "
Would it be possible to think of those two meetings as a great experience without the sadness? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. It's been a while but feels still fresh when I go back in my memories. He was out of this world. His way with words, his curiosity of me and the way he looked at me first time. Everything scarily perfect and in tune. So healing and so intense. The circumstances and timing weren't in our favour. But I still think of him sometimes. And message on His birthday when I look back on my pics of that time, my eyes tell a story of a woman who felt the top of the world and was looked at with love and desire, which made me bloom
I'm glad I got to feel that even if it didn't last.
This exactly. Our meeting was intense.
I've had many intimate meetings. Be it relationships or one night stands and my two nights with her was amazing. Never knew sex like it. Easily the best experience in my lifetime.
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Ditto we lived ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've seen him once but exchanged hundreds of messages. He tied me up and photographed me and then I knelt for him. One of the most wonderful people I know. I will see him again hopefully. |
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I made a great friend well I thought I did. Circumstances seen me going through a tough time looking after a dying family member where he was on a different path having fun (which was fine). I just struggle With showing people my vulnerable side so I guess I pushed him away. We had such a good time together but it is what it is. |
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"Yes. It's been a while but feels still fresh when I go back in my memories. He was out of this world. His way with words, his curiosity of me and the way he looked at me first time. Everything scarily perfect and in tune. So healing and so intense. The circumstances and timing weren't in our favour. But I still think of him sometimes. And message on His birthday when I look back on my pics of that time, my eyes tell a story of a woman who felt the top of the world and was looked at with love and desire, which made me bloom
I'm glad I got to feel that even if it didn't last. "
This sounds perfect  |
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Would it be possible to think of those two meetings as a great experience without the sadness? "
Oh the memory outweighs the sadness but the latter does make me think.
I wish I'd met her years ago. I honestly do. |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
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"Best meet I had didn’t involve sex at all, a kiss on the cheek hello for what was to be a social, after about 20 minutes of talking away deer started coming quite close and we spent two hours watching them and speaking. It was really nice "
That sounds like a perfect day x |
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Would it be possible to think of those two meetings as a great experience without the sadness?
Oh the memory outweighs the sadness but the latter does make me think.
I wish I'd met her years ago. I honestly do."
Sometimes the idea of what might have been is better than what would have been. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Best meet I had didn’t involve sex at all, a kiss on the cheek hello for what was to be a social, after about 20 minutes of talking away deer started coming quite close and we spent two hours watching them and speaking. It was really nice
That sounds like a perfect day x"
It was awesome, never did get a follow up but I’m happy leaving it with that memory |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Met a guy off here…wasnt actually my type at all but really hit it off…or so I thought. He was so shit over text but in person he was so sweet and the sex was out of this world. The best kisser I have ever met.
But yeah I guess he lost interest and then got into a relationship with someone else. And that’s that. Still think of him sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes. It's been a while but feels still fresh when I go back in my memories. He was out of this world. His way with words, his curiosity of me and the way he looked at me first time. Everything scarily perfect and in tune. So healing and so intense. The circumstances and timing weren't in our favour. But I still think of him sometimes. And message on His birthday when I look back on my pics of that time, my eyes tell a story of a woman who felt the top of the world and was looked at with love and desire, which made me bloom
I'm glad I got to feel that even if it didn't last.
This sounds perfect "
It was. For a while.
I looked him up on fb today because of this. I think he is single now..   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honestly wish I had not seen this thread, it’s really made me kind of sad for so many reasons. "
Melancholy isn't a bad thing. It's a passing emotion like any other. A pensive but not depressive mood... I was sad for a while reminiscing but I know I gave it all. No turning back. Hugs. X |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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The only one who I still think about is my first true love who I split with when I was 27 after being with him since I was 18 and I remember the good times over the bad and look back on our relationship with fondness. No bad feeling.
Otherwise no. If I’m not with someone then there is a very good reason for that and I try not to dwell on it. Life goes on and eventually most feelings fade with time.
And I have to say that for me, personally, I’d be a bit gutted meeting up with someone only to find their thoughts were haunted by feelings for someone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And I have to say that for me, personally, I’d be a bit gutted meeting up with someone only to find their thoughts were haunted by feelings for someone else. "
Like a punch in a crotch when you are faced with this.
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"Honestly wish I had not seen this thread, it’s really made me kind of sad for so many reasons.
Melancholy isn't a bad thing. It's a passing emotion like any other. A pensive but not depressive mood... I was sad for a while reminiscing but I know I gave it all. No turning back. Hugs. X"
You are right, it just sparks emotions not of what happened but what was going on in my life at the time. It was a hard time that I just rather not revisit. Alas I will return to my blissful memory block soon enough. Thank you. X |
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