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Say you are in and ask someone a question in private and they answer on here.
This gets through to the end (quicker) by people asking questions as well and maybe ask questions back to the asker 
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Number one fantasy…erm…we’ve done so many top shelf memories…I guess it’s our dinner party idea.
4 couples, 2 singles and 7 light bite courses. Everyone has fun inbetween courses with games to get to know people…  |
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Neither of us brought it up. We met on here, became FB’s then we became a couple so we set up a couples profile and decided to try and tick as many fantasies off as we could…
We aren’t doing too bad |
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We both met on here…we’d joined as we didn’t want a relationship after our previous ones ended. Just wanted casual fun.
We then met, met met met met x loads and decided we wanted more. We hadn’t done half the stuff we wanted so we decided to set up this profile and try and get the list completed. Unfortunately/fortunately we keep adding to the list  |
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It’s been quite a tough year for me this year in my personal life and work life, many changes all coming at the same time. The best part was just getting away from it all for a week with my kid.
Oh and not forgetting I joined fab!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I think so. Since being active on the forums I actually no longer that bothered about the lack of interest single males get. I get lots of nice feedback from the forums and that is enough to keep me here. |
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I’d be going abroad, somewhere hot and secluded in an alcove on a beach to meet and have fun with a hot sexy woman in the skimpiest of bikinis. Taking with me a bottle of spiced rum. Then go skinny dipping before sunset |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
In some ways yes, and in some ways no.
And by the same token, some good, some bad.
I've seen the absolute worst of men here, yet honestly no worse than in the outside world.
And I've seen the best. I've seen that there are men who blow everything from my past out of the water and have made me realise that actually the deep wells of care and emotion can be there no matter what the plumbing.
I'm not sure that actually answered the question  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Difficult question as every women is different but I’ll try.
I’d go for sensory stimulation. All very slow and soft. I’d use soft touches, ice, warm breath and scented oils.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In some ways yes, and in some ways no.
And by the same token, some good, some bad.
I've seen the absolute worst of men here, yet honestly no worse than in the outside world.
And I've seen the best. I've seen that there are men who blow everything from my past out of the water and have made me realise that actually the deep wells of care and emotion can be there no matter what the plumbing.
I'm not sure that actually answered the question "
It's a great answer no matter what the question was! |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"In some ways yes, and in some ways no.
And by the same token, some good, some bad.
I've seen the absolute worst of men here, yet honestly no worse than in the outside world.
And I've seen the best. I've seen that there are men who blow everything from my past out of the water and have made me realise that actually the deep wells of care and emotion can be there no matter what the plumbing.
I'm not sure that actually answered the question
It's a great answer no matter what the question was!"
Thanks lovely |
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This was a huge learning curve for both of us as a couple as when we were singles, you can just enjoy it without feelings about someone else.
When becoming a couple, we had to think how each of us would feel seeing each other with another. We talked and talked but it’s only when faced with the situation do you know how you’d truly feel.
Thankfully we both found it hot and it’s brought us closer…
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"In some ways yes, and in some ways no.
And by the same token, some good, some bad.
I've seen the absolute worst of men here, yet honestly no worse than in the outside world.
And I've seen the best. I've seen that there are men who blow everything from my past out of the water and have made me realise that actually the deep wells of care and emotion can be there no matter what the plumbing.
I'm not sure that actually answered the question "
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"This was a huge learning curve for both of us as a couple as when we were singles, you can just enjoy it without feelings about someone else.
When becoming a couple, we had to think how each of us would feel seeing each other with another. We talked and talked but it’s only when faced with the situation do you know how you’d truly feel.
Thankfully we both found it hot and it’s brought us closer…
K"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The moment has passed but somehow is still alive. Seeing someone - and them not aware yet of your presence- bending over a notepad and scribbling wondrous thoughts before I said hello.. Just watching and smiling. This is what I expected. |
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C has always been sub..maybe not so much in vanilla world, but she took herself down rabbit holes when she joined FAB and explored BDSM.
I’d explored it with a previous partner but it was only when we got together and built trust and we started exploring things further and knocking down boundaries. Things we didn’t think we’d enjoy 6 months ago, we are doing…we don’t know where the line is yet but we are enjoying the ride |
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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago
Wellingborough |
The difference between a couples and single blokes profile but then finding the forums and real people with depth and that it's slowly bringing me out of myself... and yourself  in all of the best ways |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
The most exciting..... probably starting a conversation by text (with inappropriate timing apparently) that turned into a completely unexpected phone call. And the reaction to my reaction.
Although I should point out, that's just been one peak of a whole load of high points |
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This will sound cheesy but we love spending time together in bed, maybe on our phones or chatting…but it’s the feeling of being close, body next to body. We’ve spent many an hour just doing nothing but feeling like it’s been something… |
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I do like to be dominant, but not explored too much into the scene. The only scenarios so far have been tying up to a chair while blindfolded and using various toys to make her squirt…..a bit of spanking and cuffing too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just how much can change from one day to the other. How easily things shift and that the only constant is change. Change of mind. Change of heart. Change of circumstances. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been surprised by the community in the forum tbh - the challenges, byplay, the "fabbing", the conversations that have resulted. The first two weeks on the site were colourless by comparison |
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Probably meeting people who are now great friends in my real life as well as fab life. And also how easily I have accepted my promiscuity and how liberating it feels now, compared to pre Fab times. |
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Most surprising thing so far is how many people actually use this site. I’ve got blow job offers off a guy I used to work with that is living straight and doesn’t know it’s me he’s very keen and sends dick pics regularly and another guy I used to drink with has his profile openly showing face and cock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Apart from how popular I am with the gays ??...the first time I tried Fab I found it a bit seedy and left after short while. However this time round after being around the forums I realise that this isn't the case. It's full of interesting, normal people that just enjoy sex outside what is thought of as "normal".
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
I'd ask them to consider why they do the things they do. Why they are cruel, and hurtful, and why making themselves feel good has to be achieved by putting others down so often.
And that wouldn't taken five minutes if I just did it as it is written there, but as we all know, I babble crap that fills in the gaps.
(Case in point ) |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
Either two men, in which case starting the scenario in a bar or somewhere similar, with surreptitious touches and kissing both of them, really winding both up and having them do the same to me until we absolutely have to be in private.... and having one behind me kissing my neck and holding my arms while the other is in front of me kissing my mouth and down to my collarbone.
Just being shared.
Or a male female pair..... and then I'm a blank canvas. Just no sitting on my face or tying me down. |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Someone who sets my soul on fire, who literally can brush their finger tips along my thigh and I get that wave of electricity, who can tie me up and use me but not make me feel used in the same breath, who knows how to flick my switch without being told, who basically takes my mind and body to a place of no return and keeps going!
That kind of connection x |
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"Someone who sets my soul on fire, who literally can brush their finger tips along my thigh and I get that wave of electricity, who can tie me up and use me but not make me feel used in the same breath, who knows how to flick my switch without being told, who basically takes my mind and body to a place of no return and keeps going!
That kind of connection x"
This! I want this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmm i don't think any fantasy could shock me in honesty... But it's the kind of thing you share when you have a connection so that it becomes a shared experience
.... It's shocking what some people think is ok to share in first messages   |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
To completely dominate a woman whilst I have the man I fancy tied up watching me, teasing him, my eyes burning into his as her body intertwines with mine, to watch his reactions, to feed off them, to be admired as well as desired, to give him a visual display of my sexual prowess with the inability to touch till I let him x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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 Well i fancied a change...
I am not permitted to change my 'petname' so i thought i use one of my 4 free gos to change my fab name. In honesty I can't remember how it came about but it made me and my DD laugh so hard that it was 'the one'
I can't get used to seeing it though, so i will probably change back next week 
I do have a hankering to go back to my original Black Midnight profile! |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Oral…every time! The kind that makes you fling your head back, your back arches, your hips rise to meet his mouth and your legs quiver! That outer body experience that leaves you thinking about it for days to come x |
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"To completely dominate a woman whilst I have the man I fancy tied up watching me, teasing him, my eyes burning into his as her body intertwines with mine, to watch his reactions, to feed off them, to be admired as well as desired, to give him a visual display of my sexual prowess with the inability to touch till I let him x"
Just gonna use this post as my application for the position |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
"To completely dominate a woman whilst I have the man I fancy tied up watching me, teasing him, my eyes burning into his as her body intertwines with mine, to watch his reactions, to feed off them, to be admired as well as desired, to give him a visual display of my sexual prowess with the inability to touch till I let him x
Just gonna use this post as my application for the position "
Without question! You beautiful woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmm so the easy answer is my daughters but not my possession.
Materially? Nothing as they are just things at the end of the day.
Esoterically..my body. It's my only vessel in this life and if I want to enjoy this life I need to make sure it able to carry me through as. |
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"To completely dominate a woman whilst I have the man I fancy tied up watching me, teasing him, my eyes burning into his as her body intertwines with mine, to watch his reactions, to feed off them, to be admired as well as desired, to give him a visual display of my sexual prowess with the inability to touch till I let him x
Just gonna use this post as my application for the position
Without question! You beautiful woman "
I will be the (camera if need be) man... |
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"To completely dominate a woman whilst I have the man I fancy tied up watching me, teasing him, my eyes burning into his as her body intertwines with mine, to watch his reactions, to feed off them, to be admired as well as desired, to give him a visual display of my sexual prowess with the inability to touch till I let him x
Just gonna use this post as my application for the position
Without question! You beautiful woman "
What fun that would be
Loving the pink hair gorgeous |
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"To completely dominate a woman whilst I have the man I fancy tied up watching me, teasing him, my eyes burning into his as her body intertwines with mine, to watch his reactions, to feed off them, to be admired as well as desired, to give him a visual display of my sexual prowess with the inability to touch till I let him x
Just gonna use this post as my application for the position
Without question! You beautiful woman I will be the (camera if need be) man..."
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
"To completely dominate a woman whilst I have the man I fancy tied up watching me, teasing him, my eyes burning into his as her body intertwines with mine, to watch his reactions, to feed off them, to be admired as well as desired, to give him a visual display of my sexual prowess with the inability to touch till I let him x
Just gonna use this post as my application for the position
Without question! You beautiful woman
What fun that would be
Loving the pink hair gorgeous "
Thank you lovely x |
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"To completely dominate a woman whilst I have the man I fancy tied up watching me, teasing him, my eyes burning into his as her body intertwines with mine, to watch his reactions, to feed off them, to be admired as well as desired, to give him a visual display of my sexual prowess with the inability to touch till I let him x
Just gonna use this post as my application for the position
Without question! You beautiful woman
What fun that would be
Loving the pink hair gorgeous "
Now this,I’ve got to see!!!’ |
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"To completely dominate a woman whilst I have the man I fancy tied up watching me, teasing him, my eyes burning into his as her body intertwines with mine, to watch his reactions, to feed off them, to be admired as well as desired, to give him a visual display of my sexual prowess with the inability to touch till I let him x
Just gonna use this post as my application for the position
Without question! You beautiful woman
What fun that would be
Loving the pink hair gorgeous
Now this,I’ve got to see!!!’ "
You’d be the one tied up |
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"To completely dominate a woman whilst I have the man I fancy tied up watching me, teasing him, my eyes burning into his as her body intertwines with mine, to watch his reactions, to feed off them, to be admired as well as desired, to give him a visual display of my sexual prowess with the inability to touch till I let him x
Just gonna use this post as my application for the position
Without question! You beautiful woman
What fun that would be
Loving the pink hair gorgeous
Now this,I’ve got to see!!!’
You’d be the one tied up "
Exactly what i was thinking |
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