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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What do you send out as a first message to profiles that catch your fancy?
Do you find yourself typing something then cringing at how bad it sounds when you read it back?
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It really all depends on what I read on their profile or status and saw in their photos as I try to make each message unique and focused on them.
Apart from that, I'd usually introduce myself (very quickly, as I don't want to repeat my profile which is there to read if they are at all interested) and say what I think I could offer.
I don't send too many though tbh, and recieve much less replies, so I have no idea if it works. I'm just happy I do get some replies. |
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I haven't sent a first contact message in 18 months but when I did it was always tailored to something in their profile that stood out. That might not necessarily be the most obvious thing but it showed I had read and understood the profile.
These days my free time is limited so I don't want to waste people's time by starting lots of new conversations.
I put all my effort into my profile and forum posts and all conversations during those 18 months have been initiated by others who appreciate that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you send out as a first message to profiles that catch your fancy?
Do you find yourself typing something then cringing at how bad it sounds when you read it back?
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If it’s making you cringe why would you send it.
Hey babe, have we got a kharmic chi love thang going on cause every time I look at your photos I get a swelling in my pants that I can’t keep down even with a vice, you know whatta I’m sayin’ ?!
Al the best to you both and kind regards Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello I am natalie my knickers are all ready at my ankles come blast me ha ha I need my bed in that odd sort off mood
Emmm on a serious note
Hello I am natalie I am nice awwsome person I was looking over your profile and I liked ( insert text about they profile)
Also had a little look at you pics very ( insert compliment about them )
I thought (insert pic date ) was good loved the dress shoes or what ever in the pic
Anyway I not take up to much more off your time
Just wondering if you would like to chat a little can be about anything like make up clothes or hobbies and see how things go
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