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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do others get annoyed by people looking at your profile that you are obviously not what they are looking for because of gender age ethnicity etc "
They can't see without looking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do others get annoyed by people looking at your profile that you are obviously not what they are looking for because of gender age ethnicity etc "
No, they may not know whether you are what they seek until they've looked.
Plus, they can look just out of curiosity through forum posts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It does make me wonder why so many "straight" guys look at my profile but doesn't actually bother me."
Probably to see what the competition is mate. I try not to look at guys profiles on here anymore as everyone seems to have a huge dick so it's depressing. Haha.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do others get annoyed by people looking at your profile that you are obviously not what they are looking for because of gender age ethnicity etc "
No. What annoys me is that because I’m not a site supporter, I can’t always see who’s viewed me. If people view me, I’d like them to say hi or something |
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"No, I far prefer it. What is worse is when people message having not read what or who you are after (typically with the title "fancy a fuck I'm close")"
That's what annoys us, shows they can't read properly ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And a lot of people obviously don't know how to use stealth mode OP. If I like a woman's profile I'll check all her veris to see what sort of guys she's been meeting. If they're all gym types/hung/young etc then I assume I might not be what she's looking for and saves me having to send message/her having to delete it. I would hazard a guess that most guys aren't looking at your profile to get themselves off.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really no. Most only see my profile when I post a pic/ video or comment on the forums, so they don’t realise I’m not what they’re looking for or vice versa. |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
"It does make me wonder why so many "straight" guys look at my profile but doesn't actually bother me."
Looking for some inspiration from your profile text?
Want to copy some of your pics?
Read something you wrote in a post and want to know more about the author?
They are "Fab" straight?
Could be loads of reasons I suppose.
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"Do others get annoyed by people looking at your profile that you are obviously not what they are looking for because of gender age ethnicity etc "
No. More power to them as I do the same.
I look at profiles that I know don’t fit what I am looking for just to check out their photos. |
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"Do others get annoyed by people looking at your profile that you are obviously not what they are looking for because of gender age ethnicity etc "
I rarely bother to check who has looked at me.
Without looking at a profile, you don't know if they they might be of interest. |
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Why would it ? 
There’s certain people I’d rather not look at me, especially those with status comments that are insulting of others or the site. But it’s the nature of the site to look and hopefully engage with strangers you’d not normally meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do others get annoyed by people looking at your profile that you are obviously not what they are looking for because of gender age ethnicity etc
No. What annoys me is that because I’m not a site supporter, I can’t always see who’s viewed me. If people view me, I’d like them to say hi or something"
I have a secret little work around that means you can see who is checking you out but keep it to yourself. PM me and I'll tell you what to do and it will only cost you £5 for 65 days of access. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really what I find strange is the amount of times said people look aty profile but not looking for single guys or straight once yes twice but more weird. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happy for people to look, I turn ninja mode off sometimes because I want people to know I looked
You can’t tell my gender by my username so no wonder folk look.
Love it when a potential match has looked, sometimes I’m even brace enough to message. Could do with a reply next |
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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago
Reading |
Today at present 54 views. I would from that number assume at least 90% are males. This due to messages from them today. Yet on profile . I state not bi or bisexual. So these are chancers or do not read. All messages from males about meeting are blocked and messages deleted. Yes annoying . Could block all males . Sometimes asked on forums if can be private message, so leave open.  |
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
South Lakes |
I like that people view my profile, it's a sign that something is initially grabbing their attention and I have been messaged by people who are not apparently looking for someone like me so let them look and make their minds up if the like you. |
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"Do others get annoyed by people looking at your profile that you are obviously not what they are looking for because of gender age ethnicity etc "
It's not obvious to me why people move on after looking at my profile, since there's no feedback of any kind. It doesn't matter to me because those who do take the time to contact me are the ones I am looking for. Extremely rare for me but extremely good outcome. |
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It doesn't bother me at all because strangely the last 10 or 12 people to view my profile have absolutely nothing in common.
Only a couple of them are interested in meeting men. I don't fit any of their age ranges and I'm certainly not local as they request so either their search options do not match their profiles or they just clicked on a forum comment. |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
"Do others get annoyed by people looking at your profile that you are obviously not what they are looking for because of gender age ethnicity etc
No. What annoys me is that because I’m not a site supporter, I can’t always see who’s viewed me. If people view me, I’d like them to say hi or something"
For the princely sum of 10p per day you could become a site supporter. |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
"I get loads of looks especially if I write a story. I had over 40 in a day at one point. But sadly I had no mails from it 
Over 40 "
I any have looked at yours over 40 times a day..... You'll never know though   |
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Happy for anyone to look and even get in touch. Chatting costs nothing and occasionally leads to socials and meets. Something I personally have missed during covid. But I'm a very social person. Each to their own |
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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago
Leeds + Newcastle |
"Do others get annoyed by people looking at your profile that you are obviously not what they are looking for because of gender age ethnicity etc "
They don't know whether you match or not until they view your profile so there's not much to get annoyed over? |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
No.
As a pathological narcissist of unspecified type (grandiose or vulnerable) I need all the narcissistic supply I can muster, to obviate my potential for spiralling into a fit of narcissistic rage.
Thankfully, it's a free country; within reason people are free to do whatever they wish!
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