We're the same. This site works perfectly well for chat.
We never use WhatsApp as it saves giving numbers out and being hassled. At least with here we can log out when we want a break and not have the annoyance of blocking numbers etc.
We have Kik accounts but rarely use them either. |
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over a year ago
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"I have a seperate phone and sim. Old phone and cheapest sim and no impact on my personal phone. I'll move people to WhatsApp after enough chat on here. "
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"I have a seperate phone and sim. Old phone and cheapest sim and no impact on my personal phone. I'll move people to WhatsApp after enough chat on here. "
We've considered this too but not gotten around to it yet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only people that i've shagged have my Whatsapp, it's like progression to anal 
You told me I was the only one! 
Jeez DF. Way to stab a girl in the heart  "
That was back in the day ya know?  i've changed now 
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Only people that i've shagged have my Whatsapp, it's like progression to anal
You told me I was the only one!
Jeez DF. Way to stab a girl in the heart
That was back in the day ya know? i've changed now
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You have changed. So I'm totally your one and only, right?
In a purely platonic, non sexy times but you yearn for me kinda way obviously  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only people that i've shagged have my Whatsapp, it's like progression to anal
You told me I was the only one!
Jeez DF. Way to stab a girl in the heart
That was back in the day ya know? i've changed now
You have changed. So I'm totally your one and only, right?
In a purely platonic, non sexy times but you yearn for me kinda way obviously "
Of course
Goes without saying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whatsapp only if your comfortable with giving your phone number to someone.
When getting to know someone, I prefer chatting on here and then moving to kik."
this x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I rarely give out my number, only usually to close friends and people I’ve met.
I hate talking on the phone and video is even worse, so I don’t do either.
It’s not let me down so far |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Only people that i've shagged have my Whatsapp, it's like progression to anal
You told me I was the only one!
Jeez DF. Way to stab a girl in the heart
That was back in the day ya know? i've changed now
You have changed. So I'm totally your one and only, right?
In a purely platonic, non sexy times but you yearn for me kinda way obviously
Of course
Goes without saying "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only people that i've shagged have my Whatsapp, it's like progression to anal
You told me I was the only one!
Jeez DF. Way to stab a girl in the heart
That was back in the day ya know? i've changed now
You have changed. So I'm totally your one and only, right?
In a purely platonic, non sexy times but you yearn for me kinda way obviously "
He’s got so many on speed dial I bet. I thought I felt special too . Clearly WRONG!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When people message you you and ask you do you have WhatsApp it's like why can't we just chat on here for the time being 
I have kik for chatting as well as here. Its easier for me on kik
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I agree with this |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Only people that i've shagged have my Whatsapp, it's like progression to anal
You told me I was the only one!
Jeez DF. Way to stab a girl in the heart
That was back in the day ya know? i've changed now
You have changed. So I'm totally your one and only, right?
In a purely platonic, non sexy times but you yearn for me kinda way obviously
He’s got so many on speed dial I bet. I thought I felt special too . Clearly WRONG! "
We should drown our sorrows together Kylie |
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over a year ago
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"Only people that i've shagged have my Whatsapp, it's like progression to anal
You told me I was the only one!
Jeez DF. Way to stab a girl in the heart
That was back in the day ya know? i've changed now
You have changed. So I'm totally your one and only, right?
In a purely platonic, non sexy times but you yearn for me kinda way obviously
He’s got so many on speed dial I bet. I thought I felt special too . Clearly WRONG!
We should drown our sorrows together Kylie "
Before we do that doll, I’m gonna go rip his dick off with my teeth then we can go party , I’ll take you to Magic Mike live |
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over a year ago
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"Only people that i've shagged have my Whatsapp, it's like progression to anal
You told me I was the only one!
Jeez DF. Way to stab a girl in the heart
That was back in the day ya know? i've changed now
You have changed. So I'm totally your one and only, right?
In a purely platonic, non sexy times but you yearn for me kinda way obviously
He’s got so many on speed dial I bet. I thought I felt special too . Clearly WRONG!
We should drown our sorrows together Kylie
Before we do that doll, I’m gonna go rip his dick off with my teeth then we can go party , I’ll take you to Magic Mike live "
I hope you get shit seats |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only people that i've shagged have my Whatsapp, it's like progression to anal
You told me I was the only one!
Jeez DF. Way to stab a girl in the heart
That was back in the day ya know? i've changed now
You have changed. So I'm totally your one and only, right?
In a purely platonic, non sexy times but you yearn for me kinda way obviously
He’s got so many on speed dial I bet. I thought I felt special too . Clearly WRONG!
We should drown our sorrows together Kylie
Before we do that doll, I’m gonna go rip his dick off with my teeth then we can go party , I’ll take you to Magic Mike live
I hope you get shit seats "
I HATEEEE YOU!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not so worried about using WhatsApp as I take the view that I can always block if need be, but I'm also sensitive to the concerns of others. That said, I think guys are probably way more likely to be a nuisance on messaging than women, so I can see why a lady wouldn't necessarily want to give out her number to chat on WhatsApp. Kik is bloody awful as an app. Telegram or Signal are better imho. You can actually reply to specific messages. |
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over a year ago
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"Only people that i've shagged have my Whatsapp, it's like progression to anal
You told me I was the only one!
Jeez DF. Way to stab a girl in the heart
That was back in the day ya know? i've changed now
You have changed. So I'm totally your one and only, right?
In a purely platonic, non sexy times but you yearn for me kinda way obviously
He’s got so many on speed dial I bet. I thought I felt special too . Clearly WRONG!
We should drown our sorrows together Kylie
Before we do that doll, I’m gonna go rip his dick off with my teeth then we can go party , I’ll take you to Magic Mike live
I hope you get shit seats "
And I’m gonna send Dave round to rida ya In the night , sweet cheeks. Watcha back … |
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over a year ago
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"Only people that i've shagged have my Whatsapp, it's like progression to anal
You told me I was the only one!
Jeez DF. Way to stab a girl in the heart
That was back in the day ya know? i've changed now
You have changed. So I'm totally your one and only, right?
In a purely platonic, non sexy times but you yearn for me kinda way obviously
He’s got so many on speed dial I bet. I thought I felt special too . Clearly WRONG!
We should drown our sorrows together Kylie
Before we do that doll, I’m gonna go rip his dick off with my teeth then we can go party , I’ll take you to Magic Mike live
I hope you get shit seats
And I’m gonna send Dave round to rida ya In the night , sweet cheeks. Watcha back … "
Why would you even go there
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only write my number on the wall of the Gents in Swindon KFC. #winning
There's only one KFC in Swindon is there?
#askingforafriend"
There's actually three but that only adds to the thrill of the chase
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"I only write my number on the wall of the Gents in Swindon KFC. #winning
There's only one KFC in Swindon is there?
#askingforafriend
There's actually three but that only adds to the thrill of the chase
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Ah well..... 3 of those weird milkshake things with the bits in for me today then..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only people that i've shagged have my Whatsapp, it's like progression to anal
You told me I was the only one!
Jeez DF. Way to stab a girl in the heart
That was back in the day ya know? i've changed now
You have changed. So I'm totally your one and only, right?
In a purely platonic, non sexy times but you yearn for me kinda way obviously
He’s got so many on speed dial I bet. I thought I felt special too . Clearly WRONG!
We should drown our sorrows together Kylie
Before we do that doll, I’m gonna go rip his dick off with my teeth then we can go party , I’ll take you to Magic Mike live
I hope you get shit seats
And I’m gonna send Dave round to rida ya In the night , sweet cheeks. Watcha back …
Why would you even go there
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Stop pretending not to know I’m a scorned woman 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're fine chatting through here, until we are seriously considering arranging a meet, then we like to take it to a phonecall, and WhatsApp too.
Once we've established something could possibly grow from messaging online to real life.
WhatsApp means we don't have to log in here to message or receive messages, it saves the barrage of messages because we're showing online and saves people wondering why we've not yet read their message when we've been online.
If our focus is on one at the time.
It means we can feel comfortable publicly sending and receiving messages via WhatsApp, rather than logging in here.
We have a spare/swing/play phone so we don't have to give out our personal numbers, means we can leave it off when needed. |
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We keep all chat here at first then use Whatsapp only if/when we're arranging to meet.
We'd advise people never to never use their own private numbers for this purpose though. It's far safe to use a cheap PAYG dedicated 'swingphone' or have a separate PAYG SIM in a dual sim phone.
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over a year ago
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"I only write my number on the wall of the Gents in Swindon KFC. #winning
There's only one KFC in Swindon is there?
#askingforafriend
There's actually three but that only adds to the thrill of the chase
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You can buy fried chicken in Swindon now? |
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over a year ago
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"I only write my number on the wall of the Gents in Swindon KFC. #winning
There's only one KFC in Swindon is there?
#askingforafriend
There's actually three but that only adds to the thrill of the chase
You can buy fried chicken in Swindon now?"
So they say, although the local pigeon population has noticeably declined.  |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?) |
"Happy to exchange numbers early to verify real people.
Let's face it all the fakes and time wasters hide their numbers or use anonymous messengers.
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...with you on this - it's another level of filtering out time wasters and genuine folk who want to meet...otherwise how else can you be sure |
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I don’t think you can win - some people want to move to WhatsApp or kik for proof, and if you do ask, some people get offended that you asked. Personally I’m happy chatting on here, and will only give out personal details to ones I’m comfortable with. Not that I have loads of admirers….just saying this as a rule of thumb |
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As Fab doesn't have push notifications, and you can't distinguish individual chat with couples, we find it hard to have spontaneous conversations on here.
If we're friends, or want to take things that way, we chat on Telegram, for privacy.
C |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
I'll give out my number to someone I've spoken to for a good while on here and at the point of looking to meet.(it's also good for group chats with couples) Just general chit chat I'll do telegram if I get fed up of having to scroll for messages and not ready to progress to meet stage x |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
Stick to Fab for messaging unless we know somebody in which case we will go to WhatsApp to chat. If we are arranging a meet with somebody new and they want to move off fab then we will happily use kik or telegram as neither require us to give out our phone number. |
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"When people message you you and ask you do you have WhatsApp it's like why can't we just chat on here for the time being "
We dont like kik or WhatsApp at all. Rather keep it all on fab and then a meet if its left up to us. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
The trouble with whatsapp (and I use it very sparingly for Fabs) is that there seems to be an expectation that it means chatting (a lot) and I do not have the time or inclination tbh to flirt etc on Whatsapp when I am busy working, making dinner, going to the gym or doing other "busy" "me-time"stuff. It actually becomes a nuisance then. |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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"If I really trust you I'm happy to chat on Kik, otherwise it stays on here. Only 1 or 2 people have been given my number"
...that's because everyone is after your Rolex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm happy to meet someone then I'm happy to give them my number, can't be doing with more complicated arrangements. I've never liked WhatsApp because of the Facebook tie in and kik is awful now with the ads. Telegram is the best App if you want to chat off Fab, imo. |
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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago
Reading |
I start in here if I get messages lol. I find though , unless you keep refreshing app. New messages do not show. Like today , replied to couple messages. I was then reading a long forum thread. No update on message , still black. Then went back etc. New message . Asking for some info. Replied but saw profile gone offline. Perhaps profile checked my message not read etc. So gave up ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I'm happy to meet someone then I'm happy to give them my number, can't be doing with more complicated arrangements. I've never liked WhatsApp because of the Facebook tie in and kik is awful now with the ads. Telegram is the best App if you want to chat off Fab, imo."
You can disable WhatsApp from sharing your info with Facebook if need be Mr Blooms.
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"If I'm happy to meet someone then I'm happy to give them my number, can't be doing with more complicated arrangements. I've never liked WhatsApp because of the Facebook tie in and kik is awful now with the ads. Telegram is the best App if you want to chat off Fab, imo.
You can disable WhatsApp from sharing your info with Facebook if need be Mr Blooms.
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Thanks Dreamy. I just don't like it when those things are owned by same company. Potential for data breaches for sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I will chat here for along as possible, you started here so the chat history is here, if we are getting on and chatting quick then I would suggest we move to an app with notifications but not WhatsApp since it can be traced back to a real name, I got a burner sim but still prefer to use apps like Kik or Telegram.
It’s all down to personal choice at the end of the day, if your back and forward it can be slow on here and get mixed up with other messages if you get loads everyday |
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"If I really trust you I'm happy to chat on Kik, otherwise it stays on here. Only 1 or 2 people have been given my number
...that's because everyone is after your Rolex "
Haha. It's just a name. There is no Rolex |
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