 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Women block so that they can't be messaged usually
Then that's it we will never see each other again. So quick to judge.
Is that a problem?"
It's not a good thing is it |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Could be to do with comment or forums posts "
Probably. If I was myself and I had a laugh on here I would probably get blocked by many more, because women are so quick to judge online. It's no skin off their nose because they have men coming at them from all directions. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Women block so that they can't be messaged usually
Then that's it we will never see each other again. So quick to judge.
Is that a problem?
It's not a good thing is it "
Being blocked means that you won't waste time or energy on profiles that don't want to interact with you. I think it's not something to bother about
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"Could be to do with comment or forums posts
Probably. If I was myself and I had a laugh on here I would probably get blocked by many more, because women are so quick to judge online. It's no skin off their nose because they have men coming at them from all directions. "
You know, and I really mean this nicely, by making a sweeping statement about "women so quick to judge" you are not really helping your case. It is comments like that that might put people off? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Could be to do with comment or forums posts
Probably. If I was myself and I had a laugh on here I would probably get blocked by many more, because women are so quick to judge online. It's no skin off their nose because they have men coming at them from all directions. "
But you're judging women... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Could be to do with comment or forums posts
Probably. If I was myself and I had a laugh on here I would probably get blocked by many more, because women are so quick to judge online. It's no skin off their nose because they have men coming at them from all directions. "
That reads like your judgement about why women block.
Saying being yourself and having a joke would lead to more blocks is a great way to get some preemptive blocks assigned to yourself. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Women block so that they can't be messaged usually
Then that's it we will never see each other again. So quick to judge.
Is that a problem?
It's not a good thing is it
Being blocked means that you won't waste time or energy on profiles that don't want to interact with you. I think it's not something to bother about
"
Maybe if some women took the time to know someone, they would want to interact with them |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Could be to do with comment or forums posts
Probably. If I was myself and I had a laugh on here I would probably get blocked by many more, because women are so quick to judge online. It's no skin off their nose because they have men coming at them from all directions.
But you're judging women..."
It's my opinion of some women online |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Women block so that they can't be messaged usually
Then that's it we will never see each other again. So quick to judge.
Is that a problem?
It's not a good thing is it
Being blocked means that you won't waste time or energy on profiles that don't want to interact with you. I think it's not something to bother about
Maybe if some women took the time to know someone, they would want to interact with them "
Women have a choice who they interact with. Nobody on fab or in life is entitled to interaction with anyone. Nobody owes anyone a chance. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"I’d say the Susan Boyle thread didn’t do you many favours. "
I could not remember the thread but yes, I think that may not have helped.
But people do give second chances - and people are posting on this thread, so onwards and upwards! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Women block so that they can't be messaged usually
Then that's it we will never see each other again. So quick to judge.
Is that a problem?
It's not a good thing is it
Being blocked means that you won't waste time or energy on profiles that don't want to interact with you. I think it's not something to bother about
Maybe if some women took the time to know someone, they would want to interact with them "
Maybe if men took the time to treat us like people capable of making our own decisions we'd want to interact with them.
Do you see how your statements work? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Could be to do with comment or forums posts
Probably. If I was myself and I had a laugh on here I would probably get blocked by many more, because women are so quick to judge online. It's no skin off their nose because they have men coming at them from all directions.
But you're judging women...
It's my opinion of some women online "
Ah so women judge but you have an opinion. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *tue555Man
over a year ago
Passed Beyond Reach |
"So many women blocked me? Most of which I haven't even messaged 
Is it something I said in the forums or what "
Personally I take women blocking me as a compliment. You'd be amazed how many compliments I get from women  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Could be to do with comment or forums posts
Probably. If I was myself and I had a laugh on here I would probably get blocked by many more, because women are so quick to judge online. It's no skin off their nose because they have men coming at them from all directions.
But you're judging women...
It's my opinion of some women online "
probs best to have said some then!
And it's coming ON them  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"So many women blocked me? Most of which I haven't even messaged
Is it something I said in the forums or what
Personally I take women blocking me as a compliment. You'd be amazed how many compliments I get from women "
Positive thinking at its finest |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So many women blocked me? Most of which I haven't even messaged
Is it something I said in the forums or what
Personally I take women blocking me as a compliment. You'd be amazed how many compliments I get from women
Positive thinking at its finest "
given how many blokes complain of messages getting no replies, preemptive blocking is a favour ...  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Women block so that they can't be messaged usually
Then that's it we will never see each other again. So quick to judge.
Is that a problem?
It's not a good thing is it
Being blocked means that you won't waste time or energy on profiles that don't want to interact with you. I think it's not something to bother about
Maybe if some women took the time to know someone, they would want to interact with them
Maybe if men took the time to treat us like people capable of making our own decisions we'd want to interact with them.
Do you see how your statements work?"
Ugh |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I’d say the Susan Boyle thread didn’t do you many favours.
That was a silly thread, I was bored it was said very much tounge in cheek "
And why was that thread closed down? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Could be to do with comment or forums posts
Probably. If I was myself and I had a laugh on here I would probably get blocked by many more, because women are so quick to judge online. It's no skin off their nose because they have men coming at them from all directions. "
It’s comments like that dose not help your case at all
When we haven’t interacted with a person all we can go on is they comments
Project how you want people to see you
If your comments are judgemental sexist or nasty so one sex or another or both that’s all people will see off you |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Could be to do with comment or forums posts
Probably. If I was myself and I had a laugh on here I would probably get blocked by many more, because women are so quick to judge online. It's no skin off their nose because they have men coming at them from all directions.
It’s comments like that dose not help your case at all
When we haven’t interacted with a person all we can go on is they comments
Project how you want people to see you
If your comments are judgemental sexist or nasty so one sex or another or both that’s all people will see off you "
Spot on |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Could be to do with comment or forums posts
Probably. If I was myself and I had a laugh on here I would probably get blocked by many more, because women are so quick to judge online. It's no skin off their nose because they have men coming at them from all directions.
It’s comments like that dose not help your case at all
When we haven’t interacted with a person all we can go on is they comments
Project how you want people to see you
If your comments are judgemental sexist or nasty so one sex or another or both that’s all people will see off you
Spot on "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Is there a way to see who blocked you? As far as I know there's only one that blocked me. But I'm not a serial message sender so I probably wouldn't notice if someone else had. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Is there a way to see who blocked you? As far as I know there's only one that blocked me. But I'm not a serial message sender so I probably wouldn't notice if someone else had. "
Just click on their profile, if it says blocked profile you are blocked |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So many women blocked me? Most of which I haven't even messaged
Is it something I said in the forums or what "
More than likely. Having green arrowed you, your ‘anyone notice’ thread probably didn’t help, didn’t exactly put you in a good light, that’s putting it mildly. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I see this as resulted in more people blocking me 
Omg am I really that bad do you keep tabs ?
(I suspect you are enjoying this !)
 "
The Welsh Wonko 
People block and you'll never know why. Don't sweat it, OP. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So many women blocked me? Most of which I haven't even messaged
Is it something I said in the forums or what
More than likely. Having green arrowed you, your ‘anyone notice’ thread probably didn’t help, didn’t exactly put you in a good light, that’s putting it mildly."
That’s the one |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
If I see comments by someone that I think are rude or offensive, or don't fit in with my values, I just block them as then I don't have to remember who I don't want to interact with. Saves them or me wasting any time. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I don’t block very often, for people on the forum, it’s usually because of something they’ve posted which is racist/sexist/misogynistic or just plain gross/creepy. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I’d say the Susan Boyle thread didn’t do you many favours.
That was a silly thread, I was bored it was said very much tounge in cheek
Maybe it was the thread asking where you can buy pig piss"
Why we all put it in our cars these days |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I’d say the Susan Boyle thread didn’t do you many favours.
That was a silly thread, I was bored it was said very much tounge in cheek
Maybe it was the thread asking where you can buy pig piss
Why we all put it in our cars these days "
AdBlue  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Could it be your profile? Most people like to see and read a bit more to get a picture of someone. "
Could be. I guess it's a combination of things and this thread.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"It was your thread about 'gym rats' looking like Susan Boyle that made me block you. Unnecessary and unkind so I know you're not my type. "
No I didn't say gym rats looked like Susan Boyle |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I’d say the Susan Boyle thread didn’t do you many favours.
That was a silly thread, I was bored it was said very much tounge in cheek
Maybe it was the thread asking where you can buy pig piss
Why we all put it in our cars these days
AdBlue "
That's the stuff my light came on and I was stressed out didn't know what else to call it |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I’d say the Susan Boyle thread didn’t do you many favours.
That was a silly thread, I was bored it was said very much tounge in cheek
Maybe it was the thread asking where you can buy pig piss
Why we all put it in our cars these days "
Only diesels after a certain date so not every car |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It was your thread about 'gym rats' looking like Susan Boyle that made me block you. Unnecessary and unkind so I know you're not my type.
No I didn't say gym rats looked like Susan Boyle "
You did, you said “How many gym rats are fucking Susan Boyle lookalikes on here?”
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It was your thread about 'gym rats' looking like Susan Boyle that made me block you. Unnecessary and unkind so I know you're not my type.
No I didn't say gym rats looked like Susan Boyle
You did, you said “How many gym rats are fucking Susan Boyle lookalikes on here?”
"
This definitely switched us off at the time of reading |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"It was your thread about 'gym rats' looking like Susan Boyle that made me block you. Unnecessary and unkind so I know you're not my type.
No I didn't say gym rats looked like Susan Boyle
You did, you said “How many gym rats are fucking Susan Boyle lookalikes on here?”
"
Yeah that sounds more like the thread |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"It was your thread about 'gym rats' looking like Susan Boyle that made me block you. Unnecessary and unkind so I know you're not my type.
No I didn't say gym rats looked like Susan Boyle
You did, you said “How many gym rats are fucking Susan Boyle lookalikes on here?”
Yeah that sounds more like the thread "
I was d*unk when I wrote that and it was meant to be a bit of fun but I got carried away drinking and I didn't have much time to comment in it before it was closed down.
I apologise to all the Susan Boyle lovers |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
