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What's wrong with me to be neglected?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Been here for a while now, spending time and sending ladies who I find attractive and looking for someone my age, sending face pics too
I have been told that I have good stamina, fit, good looking and very clean, I am professional and smart
I do respect people who I text but still getting ignored or i am not their type.
Is it normal or its something wrong with me? |
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"You can’t be doing that badly; you’ve got kitty in your friends list… 
Can people see who you’re friends with?! 
Not in the mobile version but on a pc if they haven't picked the hide option"
Oh  where’s the hide option? |
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"You can’t be doing that badly; you’ve got kitty in your friends list…
Can people see who you’re friends with?!
Not in the mobile version but on a pc if they haven't picked the hide option
Oh where’s the hide option?"
Account and then privacy settings |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
"You can’t be doing that badly; you’ve got kitty in your friends list…
Can people see who you’re friends with?!
Not in the mobile version but on a pc if they haven't picked the hide option
Oh where’s the hide option?"
Privacy settings twinny |
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By *zlakMan
over a year ago
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"You can’t be doing that badly; you’ve got kitty in your friends list…
Can people see who you’re friends with?!
Not in the mobile version but on a pc if they haven't picked the hide option
Oh where’s the hide option?
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Its in the privicy settings scroll down to show friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been here for a while now, spending time and sending ladies who I find attractive and looking for someone my age, sending face pics too
I have been told that I have good stamina, fit, good looking and very clean, I am professional and smart
I do respect people who I text but still getting ignored or i am not their type.
Is it normal or its something wrong with me? "
Completely and utterly normal for Fab. I don’t know what the ratio of men:women is here, but it’s probably about 100:1, if not greater.
You just have to stick with it and play the game.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’d work on your bio and change your wording a bit a little more effort into it and a few more pictures that give more of an idea of what you look like x "
Can you tell me more about it please? |
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"Been here for a while now, spending time and sending ladies who I find attractive and looking for someone my age, sending face pics too
I have been told that I have good stamina, fit, good looking and very clean, I am professional and smart
I do respect people who I text but still getting ignored or i am not their type.
Is it normal or its something wrong with me? "
“Neglected” means “not receiving proper attention”. It use in this context smacks of entitlement and victimisation. Why do you feel you deserve people’s attention? |
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"I’d work on your bio and change your wording a bit a little more effort into it and a few more pictures that give more of an idea of what you look like x "
Yes OP, exactly this ^^ 
And have patience  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Been here for a while now, spending time and sending ladies who I find attractive and looking for someone my age, sending face pics too
I have been told that I have good stamina, fit, good looking and very clean, I am professional and smart
I do respect people who I text but still getting ignored or i am not their type.
Is it normal or its something wrong with me?
“Neglected” means “not receiving proper attention”. It use in this context smacks of entitlement and victimisation. Why do you feel you deserve people’s attention? "
Thats not what I meant and I am not entitled or a victim
I was only seeking advice but thanks for making it clear. Have a good day |
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"Ah ok thanks people! All good xx
Sorry op. Back to you . Give it time you’ve not been on long. You look good to me from what I can see. "
Sorry to tread on the toes of your post, OP, but I have a ‘Hello, hope you’re doing ok” from your very first Fab meet, Nora xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most guys whom I strike up a conversation with or even (gasp) message first are on the forums. And a few guys have told me that's how they're getting chats and meets. It's the secret sauce! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Apparently you are not looking to meet couples so straight away you lost my wife as were stag vixen if you don't know what it is look up stag vixen couple ..might help a little "
I just noticed it
And i know what is stag vixen, been with a wife many times before |
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Four weeks is nothing here. There are ten or more men for every woman so you need to stand out, sell yourself.
You're of to a better start than many as your photos are way better than average. More profile text and get yourself known in the forums. Consider a social event. As people get to know you, so you will find it easier to get chatting and meet. |
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"Ah ok thanks people! All good xx
Sorry op. Back to you . Give it time you’ve not been on long. You look good to me from what I can see.
Sorry to tread on the toes of your post, OP, but I have a ‘Hello, hope you’re doing ok” from your very first Fab meet, Nora xx "
Bloody hope not. It was a disaster and I nearly decked him  . Can’t think who! I’ve messaged you x
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Hi Sexologist,
For what it's worth from an old bi guy like wot I am I would support what the other posters have advised. Patience. Don't let frustration come out in your posts/messages and go to socials and clubs. I was treading water for a long while until I took a deep breath, dug out a pair of big boy pants, put them on and went to a club. It's great meeting other Fabbers face to face and having a drink and a natter. It puts a rwal, human perspective on the profile pics and texts.
And, if you don't mind me saying in a non bi or pervy way.....ahem....you have a great body and you are young. You'll be fine. Good luck.  |
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