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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough? "
1 or 2 is enough for a fab meet really. Heck 1 is usually enough for a fab meet at least for me if I’m in the “looking for sex” mode
But if I want to date someone and that someone Is gonna turn into a potential partner then all 4 kinda need to align x
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It was always all 4 for me. Number 1 wasn’t anything to do with physical attraction it was about the person being attractive. Meeting a knob wasn’t for me as it was never just about sex. I wanted relationships just not exclusive ones. I gained far more from them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Physical and mental attraction roll into one when I meet someone so 1 and 2 hard to separate.
Not sure what intellectual equivalence means ? I like a lively mind but that comes in so many forms.
Values and goals seems like more of a long term relationship factor. Generally on Fab if they don't drop litter or have plans to invade Poland then we're good.  |
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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago
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1&2 are prerequisite even for a coffee, never mind sex.
3 is highly desirable.
4 would be the cherry on the cake.
I made the mistake of marrying someone on the basis of 1&2 only. Won't be doing that again!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Physical and mental attraction roll into one when I meet someone so 1 and 2 hard to separate.
Not sure what intellectual equivalence means ? I like a lively mind but that comes in so many forms.
Values and goals seems like more of a long term relationship factor. Generally on Fab if they don't drop litter or have plans to invade Poland then we're good. "
What is mental attraction for you? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"1&2 are prerequisite even for a coffee, never mind sex.
3 is highly desirable.
4 would be the cherry on the cake.
I made the mistake of marrying someone on the basis of 1&2 only. Won't be doing that again!!
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I do agree with you on points 1-4.
Even with a social it is always my intention that at the very least we part as friends.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough? "
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Physical and mental attraction roll into one when I meet someone so 1 and 2 hard to separate.
Not sure what intellectual equivalence means ? I like a lively mind but that comes in so many forms.
Values and goals seems like more of a long term relationship factor. Generally on Fab if they don't drop litter or have plans to invade Poland then we're good.
What is mental attraction for you?"
Easier to recognise than describe ! But I'd say someone where the conversation flows with little effort from the start, and is wide ranging from the serious to the silly. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really "
You are pretty  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty "
And all yours? |
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty "
Damn, beat me to it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty
And all yours?"
Only if you ask nicely |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty
Damn, beat me to it "
The beard strikes again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty
Damn, beat me to it "
Better be quicker next time!  |
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty
Damn, beat me to it
The beard strikes again "
A bird in the hand is worth two in the beard dear boy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty
Damn, beat me to it
Better be quicker next time! "
Hey gorgeous fancy that coffee x  |
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty
Damn, beat me to it
Better be quicker next time! "
I like to take my time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1&2 for me, but I’m not looking for a relationship, for that I need to Chuck in 3&4 for the full house.
For now, being able to talk to a lady, I find attractive inside and out would be just fine |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty
Damn, beat me to it
Better be quicker next time!
Hey gorgeous fancy that coffee x "
Where you taking me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty
Damn, beat me to it
Better be quicker next time!
I like to take my time "
I have the patience of a child  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty
Damn, beat me to it
Better be quicker next time!
Hey gorgeous fancy that coffee x
Where you taking me? "
Italy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty
Damn, beat me to it
Better be quicker next time!
Hey gorgeous fancy that coffee x
Where you taking me?
Italy? "
Been there. Done that. How about the south of France? |
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty
Damn, beat me to it
Better be quicker next time!
I like to take my time
I have the patience of a child "
Shame, it's a virtue after all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty
Damn, beat me to it
Better be quicker next time!
Hey gorgeous fancy that coffee x
Where you taking me?
Italy?
Been there. Done that. How about the south of France?"
Perfect I’ll pack my shorts |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’d be stuffed with number 3, but thankfully mr pc can tick that box if needed haha! I think connection, being on a similar wave length is important! Miss pc "
Can you explain a little more about a similar wavelength? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty
Damn, beat me to it
Better be quicker next time!
I like to take my time
I have the patience of a child
Shame, it's a virtue after all "
Add it to the list of virtues I don’t possess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty
Damn, beat me to it
Better be quicker next time!
Hey gorgeous fancy that coffee x
Where you taking me?
Italy?
Been there. Done that. How about the south of France?
Perfect I’ll pack my shorts "
Would prefer a nudist beach. But shorts will do - |
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty
Damn, beat me to it
Better be quicker next time!
I like to take my time
I have the patience of a child
Shame, it's a virtue after all
Add it to the list of virtues I don’t possess. "
Fs it's longer than my arm at this point  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty
Damn, beat me to it
Better be quicker next time!
Hey gorgeous fancy that coffee x
Where you taking me?
Italy?
Been there. Done that. How about the south of France?
Perfect I’ll pack my shorts
Would prefer a nudist beach. But shorts will do -"
As long as they serve coffee then I’m happy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty
Damn, beat me to it
Better be quicker next time!
I like to take my time
I have the patience of a child
Shame, it's a virtue after all
Add it to the list of virtues I don’t possess.
Fs it's longer than my arm at this point "
…you know what they say about short arms  |
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough? "
1a) I find them physically attractive
1b) I find them banter attractive.
End of - for a meet.
I have no need to wonder if they would make a deep and meaningful friend and I can't see why their life goals have to match with mine.
Hello, I want to be an Air Force pilot.
Oh sorry darling, I aim to get this door knocker Brasso reflective.
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty
Damn, beat me to it
Better be quicker next time!
I like to take my time
I have the patience of a child
Shame, it's a virtue after all
Add it to the list of virtues I don’t possess.
Fs it's longer than my arm at this point
…you know what they say about short arms "
Uh huh, they belong on a T-rex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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1 is fine for certain situations, prefer 2.
3 and 4 not necessary for what we're looking for but have made a very good friend or two on here where we've just clicked x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty
Damn, beat me to it
Better be quicker next time!
I like to take my time
I have the patience of a child
Shame, it's a virtue after all
Add it to the list of virtues I don’t possess.
Fs it's longer than my arm at this point
…you know what they say about short arms
Uh huh, they belong on a T-rex"
My thoughts exactly… |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty
Damn, beat me to it
Better be quicker next time!
I like to take my time
I have the patience of a child
Shame, it's a virtue after all
Add it to the list of virtues I don’t possess.
Fs it's longer than my arm at this point
…you know what they say about short arms
Uh huh, they belong on a T-rex"
Big hands for a T-Rex |
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty
Damn, beat me to it
Better be quicker next time!
I like to take my time
I have the patience of a child
Shame, it's a virtue after all
Add it to the list of virtues I don’t possess.
Fs it's longer than my arm at this point
…you know what they say about short arms
Uh huh, they belong on a T-rex
My thoughts exactly…"
Great minds |
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty
Damn, beat me to it
Better be quicker next time!
I like to take my time
I have the patience of a child
Shame, it's a virtue after all
Add it to the list of virtues I don’t possess.
Fs it's longer than my arm at this point
…you know what they say about short arms
Uh huh, they belong on a T-rex
Big hands for a T-Rex "
Have you ever seen a real live Trex's hands? |
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"1,2 and 3 are essential… 4 seems to be the fab unicorn.
Is 4 something you actively seek out? "
I wouldn’t say actively as I rarely meet. Finding the first 3 is hard enough so I’ve kind of resigned myself to that being the more realistic option for now… |
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty
Damn, beat me to it
Better be quicker next time!
I like to take my time
I have the patience of a child
Shame, it's a virtue after all
Add it to the list of virtues I don’t possess.
Fs it's longer than my arm at this point
…you know what they say about short arms
Uh huh, they belong on a T-rex
My thoughts exactly…
Great minds "
Have you just reduced yourself to a shallow minded, self conceited and narcissistic 20 year old? Tough days work for a Thursday afternoon |
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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.
For me there are 4 levels of connection.
1. You find someone attractive
2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost
3. You have intellectual equivalence
4. Your values and life goals are aligned.
Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?
Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really
You are pretty
Damn, beat me to it
Better be quicker next time!
I like to take my time
I have the patience of a child
Shame, it's a virtue after all
Add it to the list of virtues I don’t possess.
Fs it's longer than my arm at this point
…you know what they say about short arms
Uh huh, they belong on a T-rex
My thoughts exactly…
Great minds
Have you just reduced yourself to a shallow minded, self conceited and narcissistic 20 year old? Tough days work for a Thursday afternoon "
Au contraire, I'm pulling you up a few levels by the bootstraps but you're right it's tough work |
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"1,2 and 3 are essential… 4 seems to be the fab unicorn.
Is 4 something you actively seek out?
I wouldn’t say actively as I rarely meet. Finding the first 3 is hard enough so I’ve kind of resigned myself to that being the more realistic option for now… "
I understand this completely. 3 is becoming a minimum requirement for me. 4 is so deep that it’s one in a million find |
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