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over a year ago
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"What are your biggest turn offs in a potential partner?
I think 1 turn off is if they are over confiden, way over the top I mean"
Fine line between confident & arrogant! |
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Smoking and/or drugs. Never tried them, never want to. Smoke particles are very painful when you wear contact lenses, plus it’s that horrible smell. Although I love the smell of tobacco in a pouch or a tin; reminds me of my grandad  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Smoking and/or drugs. Never tried them, never want to. Smoke particles are very painful when you wear contact lenses, plus it’s that horrible smell. Although I love the smell of tobacco in a pouch or a tin; reminds me of my grandad "
I guess each to their own! I think smoking is really down to the individual! I smoke in social settings but couldn’t think of anything worse that smoking before a meet, or kissing someone with fag breath -
It’s nice that you have that sentiment though  |
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Racists and people that are just mean for no reason.
Before my FAB time, I went on a date with with someone who was really attractive, but the stuff she said 
I told her I found it really unacceptable and ugly, paid for my drink and left.
Beauty is from the mind as well as the body. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Racists and people that are just mean for no reason.
Before my FAB time, I went on a date with with someone who was really attractive, but the stuff she said
I told her I found it really unacceptable and ugly, paid for my drink and left.
Beauty is from the mind as well as the body."
 sure is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fakeness. And I don’t mean in looks I mean In personality.
I hate drama and bitchiness.
If you’re open an honest from the start it’s so much better in the long term. |
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"Racists and people that are just mean for no reason.
Before my FAB time, I went on a date with with someone who was really attractive, but the stuff she said
I told her I found it really unacceptable and ugly, paid for my drink and left.
Beauty is from the mind as well as the body."
You, sir, are a gentleman and a star  |
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"Smoking and/or drugs. Never tried them, never want to. Smoke particles are very painful when you wear contact lenses, plus it’s that horrible smell. Although I love the smell of tobacco in a pouch or a tin; reminds me of my grandad
I guess each to their own! I think smoking is really down to the individual! I smoke in social settings but couldn’t think of anything worse that smoking before a meet, or kissing someone with fag breath -
It’s nice that you have that sentiment though "
Oh, absolutely each to their own - I have no problem with people who smoke, I just can’t be around them without looking like I’m ugly crying. Hard contact lenses are a pain in the… eyes  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Racists and people that are just mean for no reason.
Before my FAB time, I went on a date with with someone who was really attractive, but the stuff she said
I told her I found it really unacceptable and ugly, paid for my drink and left.
Beauty is from the mind as well as the body."
Agreed! Although my bio might seem contrary to, looks only go so far! Mental stimulation is a must! |
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"Racists and people that are just mean for no reason.
Before my FAB time, I went on a date with with someone who was really attractive, but the stuff she said
I told her I found it really unacceptable and ugly, paid for my drink and left.
Beauty is from the mind as well as the body.
Agreed! Although my bio might seem contrary to, looks only go so far! Mental stimulation is a must!"
There is nothing wrong with your profile. Both things are important and you are just using the easier out of the two to judge as an initial filter. |
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"Racists and people that are just mean for no reason.
Before my FAB time, I went on a date with with someone who was really attractive, but the stuff she said
I told her I found it really unacceptable and ugly, paid for my drink and left.
Beauty is from the mind as well as the body.
You, sir, are a gentleman and a star "
That's very kind of you to say, thank you. |
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By *ocoa89Man
over a year ago
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"What are your biggest turn offs in a potential partner? "
Absolutely dislike unkind people. If I get a sniff of someone treating others like shit or using people, I'm turned all the way off irredeemably. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Smoking.
BO.
Racism. Sexism. (Lots of ‘isms’)
Homophobia.
Trans phobia
Strong political or religious or sporting views that they feel the need to force on me.
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Smokers are my number one turn off. I love kissing it’s what’s gets my fire going and I just couldn’t do that with a smoker.
Physically it’s muscle or bone definition. I don’t know why, I guess we don’t get to pick and choose what turns us on or off. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Smoking.
BO.
Racism. Sexism. (Lots of ‘isms’)
Homophobia.
Trans phobia
Strong political or religious or sporting views that they feel the need to force on me.
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Couldn’t agree with this one more! |
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Bad hygiene
Negativity
Inability to laugh and be silly
Bad dress sense
Being overly serious
Often nothing in particular, just their general vibe
I could go on and on...lots of things give me the ick |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bad hygiene
Negativity
Inability to laugh and be silly
Bad dress sense
Being overly serious
Often nothing in particular, just their general vibe
I could go on and on...lots of things give me the ick "
The smallest things give me the ick! |
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"Racists and people that are just mean for no reason.
Before my FAB time, I went on a date with with someone who was really attractive, but the stuff she said
I told her I found it really unacceptable and ugly, paid for my drink and left.
Beauty is from the mind as well as the body."
I feel this, I once took a stunning woman out for a date. All was going well.
She worked in a nursing home and started banging on about 'they're taking our jobs, etc'
No thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd have to say ignorance. We all make mistakes or do silly things ... which is okay. We are human. But if you continue to make those same mistakes or ignore you're continuation of such things then, it will probably become an issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it is certainly ego and rudeness
So many people are unnecessarily rude in some of their message responses, if you are not interested etc, not for me, or no reply, no harm done. We all know why we are on fab, we are all adults, but a little mutual respect goes a long way |
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"People who have dogs, place smells or they are out around your feet and jumping on you at their house.
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It's the opposite for me.
I love dogs and I'd possibly be more inclined to go on a dog walking social, especially if they have cute puppies I can play with. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lack of a sense of humour
Lack of basic decency
An over inflated ego
Damn! Guess I’m not the one for you then :’)
Which attribute is it you possess? "
All of the above! |
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"Lack of a sense of humour
Lack of basic decency
An over inflated ego
Damn! Guess I’m not the one for you then :’)
Which attribute is it you possess?
All of the above! "
Damn, it just wasn't meant to be.
Are you the type that says 'that's funny' rather than laugh at a good joke? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lack of a sense of humour
Lack of basic decency
An over inflated ego
Damn! Guess I’m not the one for you then :’)
Which attribute is it you possess?
All of the above!
Damn, it just wasn't meant to be.
Are you the type that says 'that's funny' rather than laugh at a good joke? "
Took the words right out of my mouth! |
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"Lack of a sense of humour
Lack of basic decency
An over inflated ego
Damn! Guess I’m not the one for you then :’)
Which attribute is it you possess?
All of the above!
Damn, it just wasn't meant to be.
Are you the type that says 'that's funny' rather than laugh at a good joke?
Took the words right out of my mouth! "
Do you also kick little old lady's walking stick out from under them?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lack of a sense of humour
Lack of basic decency
An over inflated ego
Damn! Guess I’m not the one for you then :’)
Which attribute is it you possess?
All of the above!
Damn, it just wasn't meant to be.
Are you the type that says 'that's funny' rather than laugh at a good joke?
Took the words right out of my mouth!
Do you also kick little old lady's walking stick out from under them?? "
100%, how dare they be in my line of walk? |
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"Lack of a sense of humour
Lack of basic decency
An over inflated ego
Damn! Guess I’m not the one for you then :’)
Which attribute is it you possess?
All of the above!
Damn, it just wasn't meant to be.
Are you the type that says 'that's funny' rather than laugh at a good joke?
Took the words right out of my mouth!
Do you also kick little old lady's walking stick out from under them??
100%, how dare they be in my line of walk?"
I'll wager if you were chocolate you'd eat yourself |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lack of a sense of humour
Lack of basic decency
An over inflated ego
Damn! Guess I’m not the one for you then :’)
Which attribute is it you possess?
All of the above!
Damn, it just wasn't meant to be.
Are you the type that says 'that's funny' rather than laugh at a good joke?
Took the words right out of my mouth!
Do you also kick little old lady's walking stick out from under them??
100%, how dare they be in my line of walk?
I'll wager if you were chocolate you'd eat yourself "
I used to always used to say if I were an orange I’d peel myself & suck the juices out  |
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Some of the gratuitous attention seeking shown on fab is a huge turn off and ick. We all want some attention but when it's craved so much...
Points to much deeper needs than fab can really provide. A bit like quick fix for a junky. |
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"Lack of a sense of humour
Lack of basic decency
An over inflated ego
Damn! Guess I’m not the one for you then :’)
Which attribute is it you possess?
All of the above!
Damn, it just wasn't meant to be.
Are you the type that says 'that's funny' rather than laugh at a good joke?
Took the words right out of my mouth!
Do you also kick little old lady's walking stick out from under them??
100%, how dare they be in my line of walk?
I'll wager if you were chocolate you'd eat yourself
I used to always used to say if I were an orange I’d peel myself & suck the juices out "
No further questions, I rest my case your honour. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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People who are needy in a way that they instantly want to know everything about you (in the Fab context) - I do not want to be rude but equally I do not want to give them chapter and verse about me without any idea whom I am actually talking to.. It is concerning.... |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Neediness and someone who wants to be with me all the time. I like a bit of space.
Plenty more but I won’t bang on."
I get that completely... the older I get the more I am aware of my growing need for a bit of me-time and space. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Attitude , people who feel the need to state they are intelligent (they usually aren’t) or people who criticise others "
What if you cannot help stating that you are.... when it is so obvious ....?
(tongue and stuff...;-)  |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Attitude , people who feel the need to state they are intelligent (they usually aren’t) or people who criticise others
What if you cannot help stating that you are.... when it is so obvious ....?
(tongue and stuff...;-) "
But why ? It’s just a measure and it’s subjective, , it’s not that interesting either compared to things like passion and sense of adventure and awesomeness |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Attitude , people who feel the need to state they are intelligent (they usually aren’t) or people who criticise others
What if you cannot help stating that you are.... when it is so obvious ....?
(tongue and stuff...;-)
But why ? It’s just a measure and it’s subjective, , it’s not that interesting either compared to things like passion and sense of adventure and awesomeness "
Was only teasing - not serious |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Feeling like they aren't interested in me as a person, just ticking me off from a list or because their penis/quim brain is engaged.
Bad hygiene.
Rudeness to people they perceive as below them. Eurgh. Can't stand it.
An inability to engage with me - I could ask one hundred and one questions about any poor sod but occasionally it's nice to have some directed at me and it not to become the Them Show with me as a supporting actor.
'isms
But more things attract me to a person then turns me off of them so it's not too bad.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Smoking.
BO.
Racism. Sexism. (Lots of ‘isms’)
Homophobia.
Trans phobia
Strong political or religious or sporting views that they feel the need to force on me.
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Excellent dont's.... stick to those morals n u cant go wrong xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This could be a very list for me OP.
But I think what’s sums up most of it for me, is when they have a bad demeanour. "
My demeanour is the worst! There goes the idea of me and you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This could be a very list for me OP.
But I think what’s sums up most of it for me, is when they have a bad demeanour.
My demeanour is the worst! There goes the idea of me and you "
We can work on it |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
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No I'm not back just getting my affairs in order - just passing through on my way to beyond reach
Love this thread/posts it's like reading my CV, maybe should rename it to, "ick like me".
Oh all apart from the poor hygiene, I have excellent hygiene and always smell exquisite - even after a vindaloo
Meli don't ever change xx
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What are your biggest turn offs in a potential partner? a lady that speaks like a child
Using words like “Ickes” "
Firstly, *ick
Secondly, bloody good job I’m not interested in you then x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1.Claps when the plane lands.
2. Giant eyelashes on car headlights.
3. Says ‘Fact’ after spouting an opinion.
4. Claims to be a liberal, but won’t debate or engage with anyone who holds a different opinion.
5. ‘Powered by Fairydust’ sticker in car window. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Attitude , people who feel the need to state they are intelligent (they usually aren’t) or people who criticise others "
Like not criticising the unitelligent self confessed intelligent you mean |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are your biggest turn offs in a potential partner? "
Arrogance and the rudeness that comes with it. Some people can be gorgeous, but if they act like they are God's gift to the world, it is an instant turn off for me. |
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