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Is it a little hypocritical...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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...for women to identify a certain body type they'll get with when they themselves don't match it? For instance...
"Must be tall and muscular only"
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If you don't like curves then I'm not for you.
Seems very double standards to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, I don't think so.
People like what they like. If people are honest (and preferably polite) about it, I don't see a problem.
Are we supposed to shag people we aren't attracted to, just to keep things 'fair'? Isn't that a bit creepy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really or we'd all only be able to be attracted to people with the same body type as ourselves surely?
What about putting it the other way, slim woman looking for a chunkier guy or "dad bod" etc
What about guys who look for a certain body type but don't match it themselves? Are they included in this?
So many questions!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Damn right!!
I want a man with a cock but I don't have one myself. Wtf?!
That would be an appendage not a body type  "
Good point well made! 
Imagine 2 footballs trying to shag each other... bounce bounce not much contact.
Imagine 1 deflated football wrapped around a pumped up football... much more fun innit.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at all OP. I had a female friend who was very slim and fancied the arse of her friend's brother, who was pretty ripped. She tried to "put the moves on him", but he showed no interest. She later discovered from her friend that the guy preferred much fuller figured ladies. Moral of the story: don't assume that one particular body type wants exactly the same in a sexual partner. We're all different. |
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"...for women to identify a certain body type they'll get with when they themselves don't match it? For instance...
"Must be tall and muscular only"
Bio reads
If you don't like curves then I'm not for you.
Seems very double standards to me."
Tough. Finish your sour grapes and keep looking. Have a nice day. |
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Not at all, we're all attracted to what we're attracted to...doesn't mean we're going to get it, as there has to be mutual attraction, but I personally think it's better for people to state clearly what they're looking for (as well as having clear and honest pictures) so you can see from their profile if you're compatible or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Damn right!!
I want a man with a cock but I don't have one myself. Wtf?!
That would be an appendage not a body type
Good point well made!
Imagine 2 footballs trying to shag each other... bounce bounce not much contact.
Imagine 1 deflated football wrapped around a pumped up football... much more fun innit.
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It's exactly this in my mind and opinion, two chunkies don't make for great sex..... they bring the lean, I bring the bouncy bits and it's much more fun all round ha ha  |
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"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?
Why would you ruin such a great idea with a cock 
Haha I could then go fuck myself then "
There's that I guess
Also leave the clone at home and come visit Ireland |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, that isn't double standards. That's just called preferences.
That's the same as someone who is 5ft wanting someone who is 6ft.
This subject makes no sense |
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"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?
Why would you ruin such a great idea with a cock
Haha I could then go fuck myself then
There's that I guess
Also leave the clone at home and come visit Ireland "
Now there's a plan, the clone could go to work and I can do whatever I wanted |
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No, it's not double standards.
Because there is no objective set of standards that means a larger woman is on a different, lower level to a muscular man.
People's tastes vary much more than "slim/muscular is best". |
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"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?
Why would you ruin such a great idea with a cock
Haha I could then go fuck myself then
There's that I guess
Also leave the clone at home and come visit Ireland
Now there's a plan, the clone could go to work and I can do whatever I wanted "
Indubitably, see you soon  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've seen plenty of male profiles that say things like "I'm not an Adonis, if that's what you want then move on", as well as "extremely fit/take care of myself and expect the same".
Remember you're only looking at women's profiles. Look at both sides before you make a judgement on what is abnormal on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Note how this is targeted at curvy women looking for muscular men.
Title should just read "chagrined man finds a new way to make a dig at fuller figured ladies he feels rejected by"  |
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"Note how this is targeted at curvy women looking for muscular men.
Title should just read "chagrined man finds a new way to make a dig at fuller figured ladies he feels rejected by" "
Totally agree as it always seems to be.
Hot as fuck avatar btw love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Note how this is targeted at curvy women looking for muscular men.
Title should just read "chagrined man finds a new way to make a dig at fuller figured ladies he feels rejected by" "
Yep! Any wobbly bits, curves or anything extra at all and we aren't allowed a preference
Think I'll change my looking for to just ladies with boobs and bums |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Loving the replies but not once did I criticise a particular person or say "stick to your own", twisting what I wrote to match that is wrong, it was simply a question around if people thought others were being hypocritical. I myself am a large man and am attracted to women of all shapes and sizes.
Without discussion and debate we don't grow as a society.
Much love to you all. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"No, it's not double standards.
Because there is no objective set of standards that means a larger woman is on a different, lower level to a muscular man.
People's tastes vary much more than "slim/muscular is best"."
This is perfectly put. I was trying to work out a way of explaining what felt a bit... off about the OP but that's it exactly. Almost as bad as leagues. |
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"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?
Have you cloned yourself recently? One or two misplaced letter(s) could bring disaster. It's just too risky. Never again.
Him x"
That's true that is that's how I came about, a cloning disaster, my real name is Dolly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Loving the replies but not once did I criticise a particular person or say "stick to your own", twisting what I wrote to match that is wrong, it was simply a question around if people thought others were being hypocritical. I myself am a large man and am attracted to women of all shapes and sizes.
Without discussion and debate we don't grow as a society.
Much love to you all."
Ranting is good foreplay. 
What does your profile name mean? |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"Loving the replies but not once did I criticise a particular person or say "stick to your own", twisting what I wrote to match that is wrong, it was simply a question around if people thought others were being hypocritical. I myself am a large man and am attracted to women of all shapes and sizes.
Without discussion and debate we don't grow as a society.
Much love to you all."
So do you feel like you're being hypocritical wanting ladies smaller than you (as you're attracted to women of all shapes and sizes you must do)? |
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"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?
Have you cloned yourself recently? One or two misplaced letter(s) could bring disaster. It's just too risky. Never again.
Him x
That's true that is that's how I came about, a cloning disaster, my real name is Dolly "
Wow, there are loads of ewe then, how do we know which one is the real you!? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's called personal preference.
You don't have to message or reply to anyone you don't want to.
You might not like their bio, their pictures, their body shape.
But everyone has different tastes and what works for one, does not necessarily work for others.
Or are you saying that only skinny should be attracted to skinny, curvy to curvy etc? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Note how this is targeted at curvy women looking for muscular men.
Title should just read "chagrined man finds a new way to make a dig at fuller figured ladies he feels rejected by"
Totally agree as it always seems to be.
Hot as fuck avatar btw love it "
Oh why thank you, glad someone likes it |
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"Loving the replies but not once did I criticise a particular person or say "stick to your own", twisting what I wrote to match that is wrong, it was simply a question around if people thought others were being hypocritical. I myself am a large man and am attracted to women of all shapes and sizes.
Without discussion and debate we don't grow as a society.
Much love to you all."
Oh C'mon. You clearly said, 'ITS DOUBLE STANDARDS TO ME' .......... it's there in black and white.
No one minds what you say but trying to wheedle out , back down and blame others isn't a good look.
You said it. End of. |
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"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?
Have you cloned yourself recently? One or two misplaced letter(s) could bring disaster. It's just too risky. Never again.
Him x
That's true that is that's how I came about, a cloning disaster, my real name is Dolly
Wow, there are loads of ewe then, how do we know which one is the real you!? X"
I bleat instead of scream when I cum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What is considered large here?
I personally would never make a statement like that in my profile but we all like different things so surely people can say what they want? Personally I wouldn't want someone too skinny as I would feel like I would kill them. I'm 5ft 6, size 14/16 hourglassy. |
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"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?
Have you cloned yourself recently? One or two misplaced letter(s) could bring disaster. It's just too risky. Never again.
Him x
That's true that is that's how I came about, a cloning disaster, my real name is Dolly
Wow, there are loads of ewe then, how do we know which one is the real you!? X
I bleat instead of scream when I cum "
An ex once bleated as I got inside her put me off my stroke |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was asking a friend today about this!
I was explaining that I liked toned men against my soft body, and he was saying he preferred curvy women.
I think you were saying its hypocritical to want what you don't have? Probably not gonna win you any fans here! |
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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago
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"...for women to identify a certain body type they'll get with when they themselves don't match it? For instance...
"Must be tall and muscular only"
Bio reads
If you don't like curves then I'm not for you.
Seems very double standards to me."
Just because someone doesn't fit a particular visual profile, doesn't mean they can't be attracted to that. And also vice versa, it's all down to personal preference. Something we are all entitled to our own unique version. |
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"...for women to identify a certain body type they'll get with when they themselves don't match it? For instance...
"Must be tall and muscular only"
Bio reads
If you don't like curves then I'm not for you.
Seems very double standards to me."
It's not a double standard at all, and obviously those tall, muscular men out there aren't obligated to contact them if they don't want to! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at all people can fancy the type of person that they prefer. Life would be dull if we all onky fancied certain types deemed ok because of our shape.
I think it limits your options though on meeting other genuinely nice people. But if they are only looking for sexual partners, then it’ll be down to what turns them on. |
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"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?
Have you cloned yourself recently? One or two misplaced letter(s) could bring disaster. It's just too risky. Never again.
Him x
That's true that is that's how I came about, a cloning disaster, my real name is Dolly
Wow, there are loads of ewe then, how do we know which one is the real you!? X
I bleat instead of scream when I cum "
Fortunate to be left the ability to cum. Preferable to developing an appetite for grass and roaming the mountains! X |
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Yard you suggesting that people of certain body types should only be intimate with those of a similar type? Also, by implication, your saying they don’t deserve to be with a body type you feel is above them?
You’ve a lot to learn about attraction! |
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"...for women to identify a certain body type they'll get with when they themselves don't match it? For instance...
"Must be tall and muscular only"
Bio reads
If you don't like curves then I'm not for you.
Seems very double standards to me."
No. They have a choice just like you do. If their 'demands' are totally unrealistic (or worse) they probbably won't get a lot of interest but not all of us want lots of interest. Some of us want something quite specific and aren't forcing anyone to have to comply. |
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"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?
Have you cloned yourself recently? One or two misplaced letter(s) could bring disaster. It's just too risky. Never again.
Him x
That's true that is that's how I came about, a cloning disaster, my real name is Dolly
Wow, there are loads of ewe then, how do we know which one is the real you!? X
I bleat instead of scream when I cum
Fortunate to be left the ability to cum. Preferable to developing an appetite for grass and roaming the mountains! X"
See I'm often found roaming mountains it's one of my favourite things. I've not started eating grass yet though |
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"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?
Have you cloned yourself recently? One or two misplaced letter(s) could bring disaster. It's just too risky. Never again.
Him x
That's true that is that's how I came about, a cloning disaster, my real name is Dolly
Wow, there are loads of ewe then, how do we know which one is the real you!? X
I bleat instead of scream when I cum
Fortunate to be left the ability to cum. Preferable to developing an appetite for grass and roaming the mountains! X
See I'm often found roaming mountains it's one of my favourite things. I've not started eating grass yet though "
Will look out for you next time we're at altitude. Do you cum while roaming? The bleating, while looking disinterested at the food on the floor will give it away I guess |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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Why is it double standards?
I'm a large woman and my other half is 6ft3 and average body type.
Sometimes opposites attract.
We are all here for our own pleasure, so makes sense to state what we like.
Some men like slimmer women, some like bigger ones and can make their choice. As can women on here too op, if you don't like a body type, simply move on to the next profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...for women to identify a certain body type they'll get with when they themselves don't match it? For instance...
"Must be tall and muscular only"
Bio reads
If you don't like curves then I'm not for you.
Seems very double standards to me."
For me, I'm looking for people that I cannot find in everyday life. I am a large woman and have played with much bigger then myself as well as much smaller but it is hard to find very skinny men, let alone ones that would be into me. I also look for very pale men and have got abuse about "being racist" when in everyday life I meet men of all ages, shapes and ethnicity’s.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would it be double standards if I only went for BBW?
I suspect some have a "rating system" for body types and one can't fuck upwards only across and downwards. |
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"...for women to identify a certain body type they'll get with when they themselves don't match it? For instance...
"Must be tall and muscular only"
Bio reads
If you don't like curves then I'm not for you.
Seems very double standards to me."
Why is it hypocritical? They're not saying that they are wrong for mot liking curves, just making the reader know they have tjrm to avoid disappointment. |
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"Damn right!!
I want a man with a cock but I don't have one myself. Wtf?!
That would be an appendage not a body type
Good point well made!
Imagine 2 footballs trying to shag each other... bounce bounce not much contact.
Imagine 1 deflated football wrapped around a pumped up football... much more fun innit.
It's exactly this in my mind and opinion, two chunkies don't make for great sex..... they bring the lean, I bring the bouncy bits and it's much more fun all round ha ha "
I've had amazing sex with other chunkies |
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I recall meeting a woman from Fab who was of the larger persuasion and she explained that her preference for a slimmer man was a function of her enthusiasm for giving head.
Essentially, she found that a large gut on a man spoiled the experience for her. |
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"Note how this is targeted at curvy women looking for muscular men.
Title should just read "chagrined man finds a new way to make a dig at fuller figured ladies he feels rejected by" "
It's not a new approach.... Happens almost daily |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Loving the replies but not once did I criticise a particular person or say "stick to your own", twisting what I wrote to match that is wrong, it was simply a question around if people thought others were being hypocritical. I myself am a large man and am attracted to women of all shapes and sizes.
Without discussion and debate we don't grow as a society.
Much love to you all.
Ranting is good foreplay.
What does your profile name mean? "
My initials |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Loving the replies but not once did I criticise a particular person or say "stick to your own", twisting what I wrote to match that is wrong, it was simply a question around if people thought others were being hypocritical. I myself am a large man and am attracted to women of all shapes and sizes.
Without discussion and debate we don't grow as a society.
Much love to you all.
Oh C'mon. You clearly said, 'ITS DOUBLE STANDARDS TO ME' .......... it's there in black and white.
No one minds what you say but trying to wheedle out , back down and blame others isn't a good look.
You said it. End of. "
I asked a question and got answers that's all Granny |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...for women to identify a certain body type they'll get with when they themselves don't match it? For instance...
"Must be tall and muscular only"
Bio reads
If you don't like curves then I'm not for you.
Seems very double standards to me."
In other words, women know your limits! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...for women to identify a certain body type they'll get with when they themselves don't match it? For instance...
"Must be tall and muscular only"
Bio reads
If you don't like curves then I'm not for you.
Seems very double standards to me.
In other words, women know your limits! "
We do.
Hard and fast please |
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Jeez so if we are in the top league we can only move across but never down?
If we get relegated from this league we can never move up again - just across?
What if one of us fancy a different body shape in a woman to the other?
K |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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1. Who decides what constitutes top league?
2. Who abides by what somebody else decides to be top league?
3. Why should I NOT be cuddly and womanly and still fancy a man who is tall,short, slim, stocky, overweight.....
Who actually says?
Who actually thinks I should or should not?
I kind of think I do!
With love to all forumites who are not quite perfect by somebody else's definition. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Interesting but keeping a low profile just in case and being politically correct
Do you think the bigger lass wears A
G Rope "
No. Us fat birds wear upside down marquees with holes cut in to fit our gargantuan arses and thunder thighs through. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...for women to identify a certain body type they'll get with when they themselves don't match it? For instance...
"Must be tall and muscular only"
Bio reads
If you don't like curves then I'm not for you.
Seems very double standards to me."
I’m fucking baffled how you come to this conclusion and what realm of reality is this double standards ?! |
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"...for women to identify a certain body type they'll get with when they themselves don't match it? For instance...
"Must be tall and muscular only"
Bio reads
If you don't like curves then I'm not for you.
Seems very double standards to me.
I’m fucking baffled how you come to this conclusion and what realm of reality is this double standards ?!"
Because if you're fat, you can't have a fit person |
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