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I’m not sure what I should do…
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By *adyBugs OP Woman
over a year ago
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…hello fabbers! I recently had a social with someone and all things went really well and we were on tracks to take it further until…they blocked my number with no explanation or behaviour that it would even happen. I’m really confused at the sudden turn around but my question is, should I now block them on here? They haven’t blocked me here. Or do I leave them as they are? What would you do? How would you handle it?
Your thoughts are appreciated x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"…hello fabbers! I recently had a social with someone and all things went really well and we were on tracks to take it further until…they blocked my number with no explanation or behaviour that it would even happen. I’m really confused at the sudden turn around but my question is, should I now block them on here? They haven’t blocked me here. Or do I leave them as they are? What would you do? How would you handle it?
Your thoughts are appreciated x"
Personally, I would block them. I know it's a bit shit when you think something went well but then the person turns around and does this. Scum move on their part and lack of communication skills, like if you aren't feeling it just say it, rather than ghost/block.
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"I would probably block on hear
Odd one for shour but would say they blowing they chance
Yeah I don’t think I’d be able to give them another chance. Thank you sweet  "
Absolutely block here and put it behind you, it's quite a knock that behaviour xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would probably block on hear
Odd one for shour but would say they blowing they chance
Yeah I don’t think I’d be able to give them another chance. Thank you sweet "
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By *olmateMan
over a year ago
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I think it is so rude and childish behaviour.
If I were you I won't even bother blocking them. As they won't even exist to block.
Just discard them from your mind as if they never existed and meet someone who makes you feel special and happy.
Xxx
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"…hello fabbers! I recently had a social with someone and all things went really well and we were on tracks to take it further until…they blocked my number with no explanation or behaviour that it would even happen. I’m really confused at the sudden turn around but my question is, should I now block them on here? They haven’t blocked me here. Or do I leave them as they are? What would you do? How would you handle it?
Your thoughts are appreciated x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"…hello fabbers! I recently had a social with someone and all things went really well and we were on tracks to take it further until…they blocked my number with no explanation or behaviour that it would even happen. I’m really confused at the sudden turn around but my question is, should I now block them on here? They haven’t blocked me here. Or do I leave them as they are? What would you do? How would you handle it?
Your thoughts are appreciated x"
Just forget about them, find someone else and show them what their missing |
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Could be an accidental block, new phone trying to get the jist of, sort of thing.
I did it once, couldn't figure out why they weren't replying to my messages, I'd put the number on a screening list by accident, new phone syndrome.
Message them on here and take it from there.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I'd likely message them here asking if things were ok and why the number block.
It seems bizarre they'd block your number with no apparent reason, yet but here. |
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Tough one, it's nice to have closure, but some are unwilling to divulge the truth, you could go round and round in circles,
stuck in benefit of the doubt and all that, I'd trust your gut and respond accordingly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the nature of the fab beast. You need to be tough to take the very brutal knocks that folk can dish out on here. Don't bother blocking, just move on and forget. |
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By *adyBugs OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Could be an accidental block, new phone trying to get the jist of, sort of thing.
I did it once, couldn't figure out why they weren't replying to my messages, I'd put the number on a screening list by accident, new phone syndrome.
Message them on here and take it from there.
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That’s true. Sounds like something I would do too lol
Thanks x |
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By *adyBugs OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Tough one, it's nice to have closure, but some are unwilling to divulge the truth, you could go round and round in circles,
stuck in benefit of the doubt and all that, I'd trust your gut and respond accordingly "
Yes this is true! I could just make myself crazy going in circles.
Appreciate your help x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Problems like this arise when miscommunication happens.
My advice to to just out them outright. If you aren’t blocked on here then message them and ask if they are still interested and why they blocked your number.
Be very clear on what you are asking. Set your bs radar to full though |
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By *adyBugs OP Woman
over a year ago
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"It's the nature of the fab beast. You need to be tough to take the very brutal knocks that folk can dish out on here. Don't bother blocking, just move on and forget. "
Yeah I’ve been here a few years and have experienced worse things. I guess I just got caught off guard as I’ve not met new people for a while and thought there was nice chemistry. Ah well!
Thank you! x |
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By *adyBugs OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Problems like this arise when miscommunication happens.
My advice to to just out them outright. If you aren’t blocked on here then message them and ask if they are still interested and why they blocked your number.
Be very clear on what you are asking. Set your bs radar to full though "
This is great advice! I shall do this later. Thank you |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
" Scum move on their part and lack of communication skills, like if you aren't feeling it just say it, rather than ghost/block. "
I was talking to a couple about a potential meet, but thought their answers were vague and they were reluctant to share a proper picture. I told them this and they got really arsey with me and actually said I should have just blocked them rather than try and explain.
So it seems like when you say "no thanks" you can't win!
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