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On the theme of hotlists...
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This is a kind of continuation from the other hotlist thread.
How many people have you met who started out on your hotlist? How did you make the transition from perving to meeting? Do you even want to meet those on your hotlist or do you prefer to admire from afar?
Really just wondering of it's more of a shopping basket where you add things to buy later or a wish list that you'd like to have buy probably won't - if you won't, why not? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My hotlist is usually the starting point for people I meet. It’s a short; curated list, and I take the time to try to get to know the people on it.
It helps me filter the general perving/lusting! From the people that I may actually want to meet sometime! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My hotlist is usually the starting point for people I meet. It’s a short; curated list, and I take the time to try to get to know the people on it.
It helps me filter the general perving/lusting! From the people that I may actually want to meet sometime!"
And. It’s open for additions at the moment! |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"My hotlist is usually the starting point for people I meet. It’s a short; curated list, and I take the time to try to get to know the people on it.
It helps me filter the general perving/lusting! From the people that I may actually want to meet sometime!"
In fairness.. this sums it up nicely.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Over my 10 years on and off hear lost count
My hot list is a bit off a mix
Off people that I want to meet and people that I wouldn’t as I am not what they looking for
But they pic has cought my eye
So I just watch from a far hopeing they prefinces change |
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"My hotlist is usually the starting point for people I meet. It’s a short; curated list, and I take the time to try to get to know the people on it.
It helps me filter the general perving/lusting! From the people that I may actually want to meet sometime!"
Probably about the same for me really. Although some I will never meet for various reasons and others I would if they were interested in me but I'm not brave enough to find out if they are or not. |
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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago
Norfolk East anglia |
Usually it's from playing games on the forum and then I've added guys to my hot list.
Then in the game of telling the person they are on your list I've told a few and then things progressed into pm and then on tk meeting
Only met 3 who I had on my hotlist.
I would meet the others who are on there are some point if the time comes |
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I've never met anyone on my hotlist but then again I've only met 2 on my friends list.
Those on the current hotlist are people I've chatted to through the forums but not on a regular enough basis to progress to the friends list.
Others on the hotlist are not there to be perved on at all. The opposite in fact. They are there so I can observe questionable behaviour and the drama they try to involve me in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I couldn't say to be fair. I've had people on my hotlist who then graduated to my friends list, some I've met, some I'd like to. My hotlist goes through phases of perving material, profiles I want to keep an eye and everything in between. Then occasionally I get bored, delete all of its and start again. |
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"I couldn't say to be fair. I've had people on my hotlist who then graduated to my friends list, some I've met, some I'd like to. My hotlist goes through phases of perving material, profiles I want to keep an eye and everything in between. Then occasionally I get bored, delete all of its and start again. "
Yes, I've a few on mine who are purely there to keep an eye on, as though I'm the actual Fab Police or something
Trying to think if anyone I've met from here was ever on my hotlist...Indint think they were. I think they all took me by surprise with a message from the blue, so perhaps O was originally on theirs - I don't know. I sometimes get Fabs from people on my hotlist, so perhaps there's some mutual perving going on  |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
I've met a few people from my hotlist, some I haven't and possibly won't as I just admire from afar,some I'd like to and it may be a possibility, but I'll happily just take things as they come, others are on there as I like what they post. |
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"It’s a mixture of people I’ve met socially and more, along with some I chat to and may see socially one day. Plus some profiles that I like their photos and might draw one day, if they allow. "
Wow, I would absolutely love to be drawn xx |
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"Blimey mine is just an absolute fantasy list, it's only a small list but snowballs chance in hell I will ever even have a conversation with any of them."
How do you know you wouldn't have a conversation with them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Blimey mine is just an absolute fantasy list, it's only a small list but snowballs chance in hell I will ever even have a conversation with any of them.
How do you know you wouldn't have a conversation with them?"
Im just hyper realistic. I did send one a friend request after she told me I was on her hotlist too. She ignored it. It is what it is.  |
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"Blimey mine is just an absolute fantasy list, it's only a small list but snowballs chance in hell I will ever even have a conversation with any of them.
How do you know you wouldn't have a conversation with them?
Im just hyper realistic. I did send one a friend request after she told me I was on her hotlist too. She ignored it. It is what it is. "
Being onna hotlist isn't an invitation to be "friends" though. I'd want to chat with someone before that, but that's just me.
I wonder how many pairs here are on each other's hotlists and both think the other wouldn't want to speak to them, let alone meet  |
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Our hotlist is people we like the look of who we haven’t contacted yet.
Time is our biggest constraint and so if we are already chatting to a number of others then we won’t have time to chat or arrange a meet with new people.
So they remain there for future and to perve on their new pics 
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One person from my hotlist moved to my friends list and we met.
My friends list is more about people I've met. My hotlist is a mixture of social accounts so I can see updates and people I enjoy perving at but where we aren't a good fit so I don't message them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Blimey mine is just an absolute fantasy list, it's only a small list but snowballs chance in hell I will ever even have a conversation with any of them.
How do you know you wouldn't have a conversation with them?
Im just hyper realistic. I did send one a friend request after she told me I was on her hotlist too. She ignored it. It is what it is.
Being onna hotlist isn't an invitation to be "friends" though. I'd want to chat with someone before that, but that's just me.
I wonder how many pairs here are on each other's hotlists and both think the other wouldn't want to speak to them, let alone meet "
Maybe I misunderstand the friends thing. I literally just wanted to chat as a friendly person her nothing more. |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
"Blimey mine is just an absolute fantasy list, it's only a small list but snowballs chance in hell I will ever even have a conversation with any of them.
How do you know you wouldn't have a conversation with them?
Im just hyper realistic. I did send one a friend request after she told me I was on her hotlist too. She ignored it. It is what it is.
Being onna hotlist isn't an invitation to be "friends" though. I'd want to chat with someone before that, but that's just me.
I wonder how many pairs here are on each other's hotlists and both think the other wouldn't want to speak to them, let alone meet "
I often do wonder that too  |
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"Blimey mine is just an absolute fantasy list, it's only a small list but snowballs chance in hell I will ever even have a conversation with any of them.
How do you know you wouldn't have a conversation with them?
Im just hyper realistic. I did send one a friend request after she told me I was on her hotlist too. She ignored it. It is what it is. "
 Stupid woman! |
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"Blimey mine is just an absolute fantasy list, it's only a small list but snowballs chance in hell I will ever even have a conversation with any of them.
How do you know you wouldn't have a conversation with them?
Im just hyper realistic. I did send one a friend request after she told me I was on her hotlist too. She ignored it. It is what it is.
Stupid woman!"
Is it just me, or did anyone else hear Renè from ‘Allo ‘Allo saying that in their heads?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Blimey mine is just an absolute fantasy list, it's only a small list but snowballs chance in hell I will ever even have a conversation with any of them.
How do you know you wouldn't have a conversation with them?
Im just hyper realistic. I did send one a friend request after she told me I was on her hotlist too. She ignored it. It is what it is.
Stupid woman!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use it more to track the profiles who set up socials.
Got a few other odds and sods. Mainly people I think it would be cool to get beer with than either a crush or wanna fuck aganda.
Buy I'm not really here for getting jiggy with it, so not really a surprise I've not used it like many here ... |
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"Blimey mine is just an absolute fantasy list, it's only a small list but snowballs chance in hell I will ever even have a conversation with any of them.
How do you know you wouldn't have a conversation with them?
Im just hyper realistic. I did send one a friend request after she told me I was on her hotlist too. She ignored it. It is what it is.
Being onna hotlist isn't an invitation to be "friends" though. I'd want to chat with someone before that, but that's just me.
I wonder how many pairs here are on each other's hotlists and both think the other wouldn't want to speak to them, let alone meet
I often do wonder that too "
It's a sad thing when people are crippled by lack of confidence. |
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