FabSwingers.com
 

FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > Ethical Slut

Ethical Slut

Jump to: Newest in thread

 

By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Reading an interesting book called - Thriving in Non-Monogamy - An Ethical Sluts Guide.

Absolutely loving the content, very thought provoking.

I had never heard of the term ‘Ethical Slut’ before picking up this book and think I might be one.

Anyone else know of this and/or share some more insight?

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Fantastic book. Read The Ethical Slut years ago and tend to gift the book to friends.

Great guide to the conundrums of the swinging lifestyle and polyamory in general.

Enjoy your read x

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *acDreamyMan  over a year ago

Wirral

It really helps with the emotions of jealousy and getting your mind around different approaches to the whole thing.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I did read a comment a few days ago from a couple that claimed to be ethical non monogamy and it sparked my curiosity.

Thanks for sharing the book, it'll be gifted to my wife soon

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think I'll be purchasing this, I'd seen it mentioned in the forums a while back and totally forgot the name of it.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never heard of it

Probably because I spent last 30yrs living under a rock.

Gonna look for it now though

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ok found it ..

Read first 8 pages and I can now happily identify as such a slut (always thought that term applied to females only - i know better now).

Lots of reading ahead

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *etite_delightWoman  over a year ago

BunnyLand

my favourite book at all times! I got the audio one too so keep listening over and over when I needed during my journeys

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"my favourite book at all times! I got the audio one too so keep listening over and over when I needed during my journeys "

Mine to, helps gives things perspective and puts your head back together when it's having a wobble x

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *ickedwillyCouple  over a year ago

Bangor

Thanks for that you learn something on here everyday.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

For those who haven't read the book, what is an ethical slut? x

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *etwifeandhim69Couple  over a year ago

Darlington

Cant say we have heard of the book. Weve been non monogamous for a couple of decades and very happy about it so wondering if it have something to offer us?

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *nly4funMan  over a year ago

Nottingham


"For those who haven't read the book, what is an ethical slut? x"

Exactly. Not sure that if warm to anyone who refers to themselves as a slut, but without knowing exactly what is an “ethical slut” I may be jumping the gun!!

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For those who haven't read the book, what is an ethical slut? x"

My guess is a someone's who tries to justify themselves in being a slut?

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *atnip make me purrWoman  over a year ago

Reading

Reading it now and have been enm for a while now.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Read this yonks ago and opened my eyes to ENM.

Irrc in a nutshell you can have multiple partners but in an ethical (oepn honest etc) way. I think the use of slut was a useful term to repurpose given the negatiev connotations.

May be wrong. Has been a while.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *etwifeandhim69Couple  over a year ago

Darlington


"For those who haven't read the book, what is an ethical slut? x

My guess is a someone's who tries to justify themselves in being a slut? "

People shouldnt have to justify liking to shag.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The book doesn't seek to justify wanting to "shag", but discusses the issues that arise when singles and couples choose to be non monogamous.

Really good read for anyone in the lifestyle, who wants to swing, or have non monogamous relationships in an ethical way; without all the lying cheating and jealousy that often comes with that.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The ethical slut is a great book. It helped change / firm up my perspective on many things.

Well worth investing in

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

 

By *lenderfoxMan  over a year ago

Leeds

Really need to finish it, I started it a while back. Was very good the chapters I read

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

  

By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"The book doesn't seek to justify wanting to "shag", but discusses the issues that arise when singles and couples choose to be non monogamous.

Really good read for anyone in the lifestyle, who wants to swing, or have non monogamous relationships in an ethical way; without all the lying cheating and jealousy that often comes with that. "

Beautifully explained

It’s about enjoying your sexuality in an open, honest and ethical way

I like it

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

» Add a new message to this topic

0.0156

0