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"I am 6ft and I find this, 5ft 8 males seem to be the lowest height for me and I wear flats so it's not blatantly obvious on the height difference"
Cool, good for you, most women wouldn’t even try x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why is there a stigma for many women that their male partner should be taller. I have short friends who find it difficult to be with taller women even.
Genuinely would bother me seeing a woman who was taller than me, I’d just love her in heels either way  |
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"Why is there a stigma for many women that their male partner should be taller. I have short friends who find it difficult to be with taller women even.
Genuinely would bother me seeing a woman who was taller than me, I’d just love her in heels either way "
It's not a stigma, it's a preference surely? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is there a stigma for many women that their male partner should be taller. I have short friends who find it difficult to be with taller women even.
Genuinely would bother me seeing a woman who was taller than me, I’d just love her in heels either way
It's not a stigma, it's a preference surely? "
I would agree that it is a preference rather than a stigma. It is a subconscious choice to who we are attracted to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My friend is 5ft and his wife is 6ft been together since school. She's fit as fuck aswell big tits that I need to play with "
Is the fact she is fit got any bearing on if he is with her or not? Genuine question. I mean if she wasn’t would be be with someone a foot taller than him? |
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"My husband is shorter than me but I do have a preference for taller but that's all it is a preference.
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Actually, we tend to head for the opposite of what we have as far as swinging goes, but that’s not at the expense of any lovely person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He has to be taller than me. I’m 5’6” x so I mean it isn’t something that hard to achieve but yeah the taller the better x
Makes me feel definitely more petite x and love a good height difference and if say he’s 6’2” and up then I can afford putting on my stilettos  |
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Doesn't really bother me. That said I usually go for shorter women.
But I wouldn't mind a taller lady, but like you said, they seem to like guys taller than them.
Previously women have said to makes them feel safe to have a bigger guy. Or feel like they have someone to throw them round etc. |
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So woman is 6ft, the man is 5ft 8. If the man was really handsome, a really nice guy with a great personality the woman would sat no because of height difference? Think the man is lucky if she says no tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im just under 6ft2 in bare feet.... will admit to liking taller gents! I put heels and platforms on a lot, so can be as much as 6ft8
Love the shock value!! |
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By *igtatsMan
over a year ago
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"Im just under 6ft2 in bare feet.... will admit to liking taller gents! I put heels and platforms on a lot, so can be as much as 6ft8
Love the shock value!!"
Jaws must drop and tongues wag as you walk in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im just under 6ft2 in bare feet.... will admit to liking taller gents! I put heels and platforms on a lot, so can be as much as 6ft8
Love the shock value!!
Jaws must drop and tongues wag as you walk in "
Lets put it this way....i can silence a pub within 5 seconds hahahah |
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By *igtatsMan
over a year ago
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"Im just under 6ft2 in bare feet.... will admit to liking taller gents! I put heels and platforms on a lot, so can be as much as 6ft8
Love the shock value!!
Jaws must drop and tongues wag as you walk in
Lets put it this way....i can silence a pub within 5 seconds hahahah "
Takes them that long to work their way up |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm not sure why it is OP but it's a definite thing. Maybe women like feeling smaller? Linked to feeling feminine? More delicate?
I don't mind height at all, I kind of like men my own height or a bit shorter. I'm not sure how I'd feel about wearing heels around them because I don't but might try it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m 7ft, yeah I know that kind of extreme but it comes with the shoes, anyways always seem to go for shorter woman also….
And yes probably does look strange to others my shortest girl friend being 5’2! |
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By * LKA.43Man
over a year ago
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You guys keep talking like
you Wearing heel 24h/7!
Are you also wearing them
when you’re at the gym ????
Women in general should Make sense before making choices ..
it’s hurtful to get rejected constantly or to keep getting ignored in messages on here..
Specially as we knows this is purely a website for sex dating.. .
So who cares really !!!
If you need good sex .. you even no need to be showing off everywhere in couple at all the time you’ll want to fck!
we’re all human
before anything !!!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You guys keep talking like
you Wearing heel 24h/7!
Are you also wearing them
when you’re at the gym ????
Women in general should Make sense before making choices ..
it’s hurtful to get rejected constantly or to keep getting ignored in messages on here..
Specially as we knows this is purely a website for sex dating.. .
So who cares really !!!
If you need good sex .. you even no need to be showing off everywhere in couple at all the time you’ll want to fck!
we’re all human
before anything !!!!!!!!"
I dunno about this one, man |
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"You guys keep talking like
you Wearing heel 24h/7!
Are you also wearing them
when you’re at the gym ????
Women in general should Make sense before making choices ..
it’s hurtful to get rejected constantly or to keep getting ignored in messages on here..
Specially as we knows this is purely a website for sex dating.. .
So who cares really !!!
If you need good sex .. you even no need to be showing off everywhere in couple at all the time you’ll want to fck!
we’re all human
before anything !!!!!!!!"
Call it a hunch, but I don’t think this post is going to help you with “sex dating” whatsoever |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You guys keep talking like
you Wearing heel 24h/7!
Are you also wearing them
when you’re at the gym ????
Women in general should Make sense before making choices ..
it’s hurtful to get rejected constantly or to keep getting ignored in messages on here..
Specially as we knows this is purely a website for sex dating.. .
So who cares really !!!
If you need good sex .. you even no need to be showing off everywhere in couple at all the time you’ll want to fck!
we’re all human
before anything !!!!!!!!"
Not our problem! So because it’s purely sex we should fuck guys we don’t find attractive too? If someone is having trouble getting meets despite being taller than a good chunk of the female population I’d wager their height isn’t the issue!
And many positions are logistically a nightmare with guys shorter than me. You’re not entitled to fuck taller women if that isn’t what they want. |
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"You guys keep talking like
you Wearing heel 24h/7!
Are you also wearing them
when you’re at the gym ????
Women in general should Make sense before making choices ..
it’s hurtful to get rejected constantly or to keep getting ignored in messages on here..
Specially as we knows this is purely a website for sex dating.. .
So who cares really !!!
If you need good sex .. you even no need to be showing off everywhere in couple at all the time you’ll want to fck!
we’re all human
before anything !!!!!!!!
Call it a hunch, but I don’t think this post is going to help you with “sex dating” whatsoever "
I've a good feeling you are right |
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By *rjamesMan
over a year ago
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I was in a long-term relationship with a woman who was 6'3" and I'm only 5'10". Nevertheless, there were no practical issues in our day to day lives or in the bed room. Don't be afraid to mix it up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was the same height as an ex and she said it never bothered her (both 5ft 10) as she preferred trainers. Next time i saw her she was with a 6ft 4 bloke and she was in heels  still adore a long limbed lady tho |
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"Many many years ago I met my gorgeous wife and we’ve been married for 28 years. I’m 5ft 8, she’s 5ft 10. That way round seems to be far more unpopular, what’s it all about? "
Social media + apps have given women more choice then ever, so they are starting to realise they don’t have to make any compromises. When you have a million men a swipe away, why not ask for 6 foot minimum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s simply all about Chemistry. Enjoying and being happy with each other."
This^
I'm 5'11, the last guy I met was 5'9. Didn't bother me at all as we actually got on. |
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"Many many years ago I met my gorgeous wife and we’ve been married for 28 years. I’m 5ft 8, she’s 5ft 10. That way round seems to be far more unpopular, what’s it all about?
Social media + apps have given women more choice then ever, so they are starting to realise they don’t have to make any compromises. When you have a million men a swipe away, why not ask for 6 foot minimum "
All dem picky bitches |
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"Many many years ago I met my gorgeous wife and we’ve been married for 28 years. I’m 5ft 8, she’s 5ft 10. That way round seems to be far more unpopular, what’s it all about?
Social media + apps have given women more choice then ever, so they are starting to realise they don’t have to make any compromises. When you have a million men a swipe away, why not ask for 6 foot minimum "
You can ask….. what you get is a whole different thing all together |
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I've never really been too bothered, but have generally gone with taller guys and shorter women. No specific reason, just ended up that way. (5ft 9)
Do remember a workmate who seemed to have a bit of a dislike for taller / bigger women. Just not his thing. Until a night out when I turned up (for a dare) full Domme in leather skirt and corset with very sheer shirt and 6 inch platform boots on.
He was a quivering wreck and the rest of the guys just died of shock.
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"Isn’t it just basic statistics? The average woman is a lot shorter than the average man so “on average” the males will be taller in a relationship. That natural bias has just become a social norm."
You ain't short mate |
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"Isn’t it just basic statistics? The average woman is a lot shorter than the average man so “on average” the males will be taller in a relationship. That natural bias has just become a social norm."
Do you say that to all the girls then? |
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"Isn’t it just basic statistics? The average woman is a lot shorter than the average man so “on average” the males will be taller in a relationship. That natural bias has just become a social norm.
You ain't short mate "
I didn’t realise only short men could comment  |
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"Isn’t it just basic statistics? The average woman is a lot shorter than the average man so “on average” the males will be taller in a relationship. That natural bias has just become a social norm.
You ain't short mate
I didn’t realise only short men could comment "
I'm not a man?  |
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Social media + apps have given women more choice then ever, so they are starting to realise they don’t have to make any compromises. When you have a million men a swipe away, why not ask for 6 foot minimum "
This is very true, chasing the 3 6's, 6 pack, 6 figure income and 6 ft. But then you see the same women time and time again on dating apps, clearly not having found what they're looking for. No harm in asking though... |
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Social media + apps have given women more choice then ever, so they are starting to realise they don’t have to make any compromises. When you have a million men a swipe away, why not ask for 6 foot minimum
This is very true, chasing the 3 6's, 6 pack, 6 figure income and 6 ft. But then you see the same women time and time again on dating apps, clearly not having found what they're looking for. No harm in asking though..."
No harm in asking, no. But I find most don’t just ask, they blame their lack of success on there being “no good men”. Never on the fact that they have nothing to offer.
It’s a weird situation. So many are chasing the 666 type of guy that he’s got so many offers he’s never gonna settle down, why would he. So in the end you have a bunch of guys getting almost nothing, and bunch of women getting fucked and ghosted by these top tier guys, then those top tier guys are living their best life. |
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It’s a weird situation. So many are chasing the 666 type of guy that he’s got so many offers he’s never gonna settle down, why would he. So in the end you have a bunch of guys getting almost nothing, and bunch of women getting fucked and ghosted by these top tier guys, then those top tier guys are living their best life. "
I think you are over thinking the top tier guy thing. I don’t think it really exists to the extent you say and if it does it is only for a subset of women. People want different things so what is top tier for one will not be the same for another.
Just because people are active on social media/forums does not mean they are representative. You can see that on these forums: the vast majority of the sites users never come on the forum and I know a lot of what is presented as “fact” on the forum does not reflect what happens in real meets. |
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It’s a weird situation. So many are chasing the 666 type of guy that he’s got so many offers he’s never gonna settle down, why would he. So in the end you have a bunch of guys getting almost nothing, and bunch of women getting fucked and ghosted by these top tier guys, then those top tier guys are living their best life.
I think you are over thinking the top tier guy thing. I don’t think it really exists to the extent you say and if it does it is only for a subset of women. People want different things so what is top tier for one will not be the same for another.
Just because people are active on social media/forums does not mean they are representative. You can see that on these forums: the vast majority of the sites users never come on the forum and I know a lot of what is presented as “fact” on the forum does not reflect what happens in real meets. "
These just come from things I read and things I see. There’s what I would call a top tier guy at my gym and he’s showed me his app and it’s like shooting fish in a barrel
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I think you are over thinking the top tier guy thing. I don’t think it really exists to the extent you say and if it does it is only for a subset of women. People want different things so what is top tier for one will not be the same for another.
Just because people are active on social media/forums does not mean they are representative. You can see that on these forums: the vast majority of the sites users never come on the forum and I know a lot of what is presented as “fact” on the forum does not reflect what happens in real meets. "
I used to think 80% of women chased 20% of men, but the percentage of men apparently is as low as 10%. So in theory, if you fall into the category of 10% male, you're attracting most of the women. There's a few studies online discussing this. |
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My preference was for shorter women initially, but life taught me to realise height was really not an important criteria so I’ve widened my height preferences.
At 5’5, I now have more choice and it has resulted in better interactions, dates and even relationships. |
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