Does anyone else personally feel like they are doing something wrong on here??
I think we post sexy pics and statuses - we also message others but never seem to attract anyone (except men pretending they are part of a MF couple)
What are we doing wrong? - can anyone help please xxxx |
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"Does anyone else personally feel like they are doing something wrong on here??
I think we post sexy pics and statuses - we also message others but never seem to attract anyone (except men pretending they are part of a MF couple)
What are we doing wrong? - can anyone help please xxxx"
Welcome to fab! We got blocked earlier just from sending our face pictures to a couple we was chatting to! I just said to the hubby I would love a site of genuine swingers not a site where anyone can just join  |
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From experience and people I've met or spoken to you're very lucky to find "that something or someone you had in mind" on here.
It's not for the faint hearted only some will be successful but from what I can see you don't seem like you should have any problems so I'm not sure... |
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Although your pics are very sexy, I think to attract the type you want, you maybe need to leave a little more wrapped up to stimulate their mind and imagination. That might get the flirty chat going a bit more. Maybe leave the full frontals in the friends only box. Just a suggestion that might be worth a try. Some people like the reward for their effort of a flirty chat. And maybe save the kik names only for those worthy. Hope you find what you're looking for x  |
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"Although your pics are very sexy, I think to attract the type you want, you maybe need to leave a little more wrapped up to stimulate their mind and imagination. That might get the flirty chat going a bit more. Maybe leave the full frontals in the friends only box. Just a suggestion that might be worth a try. Some people like the reward for their effort of a flirty chat. And maybe save the kik names only for those worthy. Hope you find what you're looking for x "
very negative profile |
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"Does anyone else personally feel like they are doing something wrong on here??
I think we post sexy pics and statuses - we also message others but never seem to attract anyone (except men pretending they are part of a MF couple)
What are we doing wrong? - can anyone help please xxxx
Welcome to fab! We got blocked earlier just from sending our face pictures to a couple we was chatting to! I just said to the hubby I would love a site of genuine swingers not a site where anyone can just join "
Why aren't they genuine if they don't like the look of you and use a site tool to prevent any further communication from people they don't want to fuck?
What is a genuine swinger? |
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over a year ago
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"Does anyone else personally feel like they are doing something wrong on here??
I think we post sexy pics and statuses - we also message others but never seem to attract anyone (except men pretending they are part of a MF couple)
What are we doing wrong? - can anyone help please xxxx"
From looking at your profile we would say you seem like hard work.
You want to chat online before a meet, which is fine but our impression is the chats will be never ending and the meets some way off in the distance.
We are not saying that's what would happen but it is the impression we get.
Having said that we do not have much spare time to sit and chat online so we prefer to use fab to arrange meets and have fun |
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Definitely go to fab organised socials and events at clubs, it's a brill experience and you can make loads of friends (potential play partners) face to face, much easier than the online dance for many |
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"Does anyone else personally feel like they are doing something wrong on here??
I think we post sexy pics and statuses - we also message others but never seem to attract anyone (except men pretending they are part of a MF couple)
What are we doing wrong? - can anyone help please xxxx"
You’re not doing anything wrong in particular it’s just Fab world exactly the same happens to us ,we think there is a winning formula for some people though on here  |
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"Your most recent pic is just two tubs of icecream with neither of you in the pic at all. "
didn't think that was allowed? I've had a pic rejected (after being uploaded for some time) because I'm not in it (even though my hand was  |
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"Seems weird people want to meet in person before having fun to see if they want each other "
Why is that weird? Makes sense to me. I never meet to play unless there has been a social prior |
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Your profile gives the impression that you aren't very approachable. You use the word fun a few times but there is no sense of fun or humour in your pics or your bio so that may be offputting to many. |
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"Seems weird people want to meet in person before having fun to see if they want each other
Why is that weird? Makes sense to me. I never meet to play unless there has been a social prior"
Same here.
Although some socials have and will lead directly to the bedroom.
If everyone gets along and the attraction is there.
With regards to what you’re doing wrong, probably nothing, we’d advise you to attend a group social together and meet lots of real people that way.
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What are we doing wrong? - can anyone help please xxxx"
Have you thought about rewriting your profile to explain more about the sort of people you are looking for and what you would like to do if you met them ? |
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I have lost faith on this site. Alot of fakes! Especially men pretending to be a MF couple. Its really sad.
You will have more luck on Tinder and thats sad |
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As the lady in this couple the negativity and volume of cock on the profile wouldn't inspire me.
We're a laid back couple and want to meet with people that we can have fun with.
I also really like to see photos of couples together. It shows that they are a couple.
You need patience in spades, a sense of humour and a thick skin, if you're using Fab as your sole means of meeting. We find clubs are a much better option.
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"Please can you recommend any xx"
Clubs?
We have been to loads and enjoyed the vast majority. They're all different and we don't really know what's in your area or what would suit you.
Have a look at the reviews and websites and choose one that you like the sound/look of.
Let them know it's your first visit and you should get a tour and etiquette advice.
Enjoy 
Nita |
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that made me lol way more than it should have 
