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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Or throw a "sarcastic" comment at people just to hide their own insecurities on here.

But then it's all jokes and no malice meant.

Happy Friday haters.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Haters gon hate

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By *iBBWLondonWoman over a year ago

London

"Or throw a "sarcastic" comment at people just to hide their own insecurities on here.

But then it's all jokes and no malice meant.

Happy Friday haters."

Are you ok, OP? x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't worry man.

Focus on yourself and making your way in the world.

They just confused admirers.

All the best.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan over a year ago

Gloucestershire

There’s always been jealous and insecure people on the forums, but also an awful lot of lovely genuine ones too. It doesn’t matter if it’s fab, photography or any other forums, you’ll always come across people like that.

You just need to rise above it and laugh it off. Keep smiling OP

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"[Removed by poster at 27/08/21 11:58:35]"

Ffs removed that by accident.

I don’t think what I think you are referring to was meant in a nasty way xx

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Or throw a "sarcastic" comment at people just to hide their own insecurities on here.

But then it's all jokes and no malice meant.

Happy Friday haters."

I saw it brush it off

It was meant as humour

I know

I know we have different humour

By the way

Your very handsome xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Or throw a "sarcastic" comment at people just to hide their own insecurities on here.

But then it's all jokes and no malice meant.

Happy Friday haters.

I saw it brush it off

It was meant as humour

I know

I know we have different humour

By the way

Your very handsome xx"

Wise one x

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By *tue555Man over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"Or throw a "sarcastic" comment at people just to hide their own insecurities on here.

But then it's all jokes and no malice meant.

Happy Friday haters."

It is the way of the forums OP don't let them grind you down - people don't practice what they preach. Over the years I have developed teflon covered thick skin.

Honestly I'd probably worry more if people actually started being nice to me

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Or throw a "sarcastic" comment at people just to hide their own insecurities on here.

But then it's all jokes and no malice meant.

Happy Friday haters.

I saw it brush it off

It was meant as humour

I know

I know we have different humour

By the way

Your very handsome xx

Wise one x"

Owl?? X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is this off the back of another thread, OP?

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By *andsome HandMan over a year ago

roundabout

I honestly think it was a joke, not a swipe or owt

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm fine, I've always been able to shrug comments off (whether sarcastic or not) but when someone has never interacted with me before and makes such a comment, that's what annoys me as they don't know me at all.

Thanks for the positivity everyone.

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By *otMe66Man over a year ago

Terra Firma

"Or throw a "sarcastic" comment at people just to hide their own insecurities on here.

But then it's all jokes and no malice meant.

Happy Friday haters."

If you want to get tougher and train at deflecting this type of stuff, can I recommend you install a well known suite of productivity apps for business and then call the helpline? It has worked wonders for my view of people around me and helped significantly in my patience

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By *rMojoRisinMan over a year ago

Sheffield

"I'm fine, I've always been able to shrug comments off (whether sarcastic or not) but when someone has never interacted with me before and makes such a comment, that's what annoys me as they don't know me at all.

Thanks for the positivity everyone."

Water off a ducks back mate!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Or throw a "sarcastic" comment at people just to hide their own insecurities on here.

But then it's all jokes and no malice meant.

Happy Friday haters.

Thanks for the advice, it hasn't cut me to the bone, just annoyed me as the person doesn't know me at all and has never interacted with me either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks for the positivity everyone.

Water off a ducks back mate!

Quack quack

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thanks for the positivity everyone."

That's good. I thought it was an unnecessary dig but also we all have different humour so who knows. Best forgotten.

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By *rMojoRisinMan over a year ago

Sheffield

Thanks for the positivity everyone.

Water off a ducks back mate!

Quack quack

That’s the ticket!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thanks for the positivity everyone."

Ah just do what I do, float through life totally spaced out and ignoring everyone's bs, it's very fluffy up here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thanks for the positivity everyone.

Water off a ducks back mate!

Quack quack

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By *atnip make me purrWoman over a year ago

Reading

Since you don't know either way just go with they mean it to be funny. And move on before it triggers you. Noone on here is worth being upset over.

But to answer your original quotation there are some dicks on here who think they are just hilarious but are very cutting with it. They have learnt to sail closer to the wind. But they are a tiny minority. Most people here are lovely.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Since you don't know either way just go with they mean it to be funny. And move on before it triggers you. Noone on here is worth being upset over.

You get the same irl too, some people just want attention. The more you react to them, the more they get off on it. Always best ignored and to remember it's their own insecurities showing their ugly heads

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By *uddy laneMan over a year ago

dudley

Someone calls me nice I tell them to fuck off because I aint, nice in Latin 'nescius'.. ignorant.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op sounds very much like life in general.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Haters hate, taters tate. You gotta shake it off

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

If someone has been nasty, abusive or night report them. If it was misunderstood humour ignore it.

Either way it's best not to start a thread about it as airing dirty laundry is against forum rules

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