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Are we all a little bit broken?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As a newish (5 weeks actually using it) fab user I’ve come to realise there’s a lot of people from all different walks of life, and generally, genuinely nice peops.
Although is there an underlying reason why we’re all so horny? Something broke or some emotional needs need fulfilling that we’re channeling through into sex? |
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"As a newish (5 weeks actually using it) fab user I’ve come to realise there’s a lot of people from all different walks of life, and generally, genuinely nice peops.
Although is there an underlying reason why we’re all so horny? Something broke or some emotional needs need fulfilling that we’re channeling through into sex? "
I’m not here just for sex or even go to clubs with the intention of meeting for sex. It’s a chance to dress up and socialise in a non judgmental place. Where else can you walk around in your lingerie and get admiring looks rather than shocked ones.
Everyone is here for their own reasons not all of them are because of sex. |
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"As a newish (5 weeks actually using it) fab user I’ve come to realise there’s a lot of people from all different walks of life, and generally, genuinely nice peops.
Although is there an underlying reason why we’re all so horny? Something broke or some emotional needs need fulfilling that we’re channeling through into sex? "
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"As a newish (5 weeks actually using it) fab user I’ve come to realise there’s a lot of people from all different walks of life, and generally, genuinely nice peops.
Although is there an underlying reason why we’re all so horny? Something broke or some emotional needs need fulfilling that we’re channeling through into sex? "
No we just enjoy sex |
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I’m not broken, I didn’t come here just for sex I joined for the experienced and the people I met along the way, the club atmosphere, meeting people on a regular basis who you can be yourself with  |
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I think that's a bit of a trope used by more traditionally conformist people: "Oh so your sex life isn't good enough so you thought you'd try swinging", "Your man can't please you so you invited a new man into the bedroom", "Really you just need love but you seek sexual attention as a makeshift alternative".
For some people maybe bit not most people I know, not those who are truly sex positive and into "tje scene".
There are certainly tje socially inept, cheats and shaggers but they're not really swingers and will try every avenue possible to meet their needs with little regard for whether it's appropriate or not |
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If I am totally honest I first came on here nearly 3 years ago because I was emotionally broken due to the shit that can happen in life.
I needed a release that I couldn't find without disapproval of family and friends and I found it here.
It still remains a secret from my normal day to day life but Fab helped me to fix myself.
All is good. |
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By *an4funMan
over a year ago
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I'd say everyone is, at the very least, a bit "broken". Not just those on this site but anyone who has ever walked this earth. We start our lives as a blank canvas and innocent then life gradually eats away at us.
No such thing as normal. |
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I'm not broken, or here because I want sex all the time. If my sex drive was that high, my husband would still be more than enough.
I'm here, as a single and with my husband, for something a little extra every so often.
Most of us are nonconformist rather than broken. We don't fit what is expected by "polite society".
OP your post suggests that you don't understand swinging, or that people will be on Fab for a variety of reasons. |
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"As a newish (5 weeks actually using it) fab user I’ve come to realise there’s a lot of people from all different walks of life, and generally, genuinely nice peops.
Although is there an underlying reason why we’re all so horny? Something broke or some emotional needs need fulfilling that we’re channeling through into sex? "
Surely the ones who are broken are those who deny themselves the joys of a more varied sex life? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quite insightful after just 5 weeks it usually takes much longer and a bit of drama to work out. 
Although as someone said above, we are all affected by life, not particulary broken just well lived in maybe. |
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There may be broken people on here, but there's broken people everywhere. What is normal to one person isn't necessarily normal to another. Lots of reasons why we are on here, lots of reasons why people read and also partake in these forums. I only started reading them during lockdown, rarely partake though and didn't at first. They can be enjoyable, informative, interesting and infuriating. |
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"As a newish (5 weeks actually using it) fab user I’ve come to realise there’s a lot of people from all different walks of life, and generally, genuinely nice peops.
Although is there an underlying reason why we’re all so horny? Something broke or some emotional needs need fulfilling that we’re channeling through into sex? "
Is there something wrong with being horny? Isn’t it the most natural thing in the world? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a newish (5 weeks actually using it) fab user I’ve come to realise there’s a lot of people from all different walks of life, and generally, genuinely nice peops.
Although is there an underlying reason why we’re all so horny? Something broke or some emotional needs need fulfilling that we’re channeling through into sex? "
There are people dealing with trauma everywhere and in every part of society.
The inhabitants of fab forums are just a particularly open lot when it comes to talking about their trauma.
I know people here who have no trauma and would grind away on a lamp post if they thought it would get them over the edge to an orgasm.
I feel like fab is a fairly representative slice of most of society (excepting the richest and poorest parts)
The sad part of that is that there is so much trauma in society in general that it is represented here too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a newish (5 weeks actually using it) fab user I’ve come to realise there’s a lot of people from all different walks of life, and generally, genuinely nice peops.
Although is there an underlying reason why we’re all so horny? Something broke or some emotional needs need fulfilling that we’re channeling through into sex? "
I am neither broken or have emotional needs that need fulfilling OP. I’m definitely not ‘so horny’.
My reasons for being on fab are personal and actually align with many other peoples.
I would suggest that if you are describing yourself or anyone thinking that’s them need to seek help from another place entirely. And I say it with the greatest of care.
Swinging isn’t for the faint of heart and if you are coming into the lifestyle fragile it will only make matters worse.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nah I’m not broken.. I like adventure & exploration and not into following conventional societal rules about relationships & sex.
I joined at the beginning of lockdown and since being here have made some truly amazing friends… it’s a great community to be part of and it’s certainly not just about sex & being horny all the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel I’m intelligent enough and honest enough to make an adult decision about what type of person/activity is of interest and think this is actually a very respectful place to find such a person/activities
Being honest about our sexual interests doesn’t have to be the result of trauma etc
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