What does discreet even mean.
We’re not exactly going to take an advert out on local radio saying “Jan and Steve are swingers and we’ve fucked them”
But we’re also not going to sneak around and dress incognito for pub socials.
We’ve got to the point most of our friends know we’re ENM, so if we have a social and our friend comes over to our table it’s not awkward!
Friends in the lifestyle said recently they had a social where the guy of the couple was constantly watching the door and his head was darting around looking at all the others in the pub! Which was a bit off putting. You’re better off just talking like you would with vanilla friends than looking all suspicious! |
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Well if they're a true living together couple, then I can't see why they have anything to worry about.
Maybe this scene isn't for them.
I mean come on, you're just in a pub  |
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The ‘I can’t show you my face pic’ discreet types are frustrating.
Unless you are a famous celebrity then the chances are we are not going to know you and if we do know you, then we are both on here so it makes no difference.
We get the being careful but when it gets to a point where they want to meet us without sending face pics then there’s little point chatting.
A deeper attraction can only be made once we’ve seen your eyes.
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This why I don't fab close to home, I like at least 20 miles distance for playtime, the further the better is preferable as I like to keep fab life and real life strictly seperate, don't want to be bumping into anyone when I'm out with my mates and the kids
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"Well if they're a true living together couple, then I can't see why they have anything to worry about.
Maybe this scene isn't for them.
I mean come on, you're just in a pub "
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"What does discreet even mean.
We’re not exactly going to take an advert out on local radio saying “Jan and Steve are swingers and we’ve fucked them”
But we’re also not going to sneak around and dress incognito for pub socials.
We’ve got to the point most of our friends know we’re ENM, so if we have a social and our friend comes over to our table it’s not awkward!
Friends in the lifestyle said recently they had a social where the guy of the couple was constantly watching the door and his head was darting around looking at all the others in the pub! Which was a bit off putting. You’re better off just talking like you would with vanilla friends than looking all suspicious! "
this is so true nobody really goes about shouting from the rooftops I'm a swinger bit we all know who we are
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We’re discreet as in not bragging and drawing attention publicly and expect the same from who we are meeting. We have adult age children and jobs that do not need to know about our lifestyle and want to keep it that way too. Respect is a two way street. We have absolutely no interest in people who cannot understand this. Unfortunately there is a minority out there that couldn’t care less.
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