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"Nope.
Why would I be happy at someone else's misery if they've done nothing to make me want the karma bus to run them over, then reverse, then stall whilst they're under the wheels? "
I've missed your explanations xxx |
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"Nope.
Why would I be happy at someone else's misery if they've done nothing to make me want the karma bus to run them over, then reverse, then stall whilst they're under the wheels?
I've missed your explanations xxx"
Been full on at work and generally just fried. I felt like I had nowt worthwhile to say and was getting a bit discombobulated running over the same old ground. It wasn't doing me any good.
Feeling a little fresher now xx |
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Did I miss a notification saying today was the day for men to moan and complain about FAB & the ladies.
I've been on FAB 8 weeks, been to 4 City / Town socials, spa twice, a few social coffees to see if there is a connection. I'm nothing great to look at but I'm genuinely interested in the scene and the whole social aspect.
Stop moaning and complaining and get out there and meet people with no expectations for sex and you'll find you get invited to more things and play then follows. |
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"Did I miss a notification saying today was the day for men to moan and complain about FAB & the ladies.
I've been on FAB 8 weeks, been to 4 City / Town socials, spa twice, a few social coffees to see if there is a connection. I'm nothing great to look at but I'm genuinely interested in the scene and the whole social aspect.
Stop moaning and complaining and get out there and meet people with no expectations for sex and you'll find you get invited to more things and play then follows."
Is this along way of saying you don’t know what Schadenfreude means ? |
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Maybe if someone is a massive bellend. But I'd feel the same way about a woman too if she had no luck. I'd think good, you deserve it you wanker. But I can't think of a time where it has popped into my head so it's not a very common thought.
I had to Google the fancy word. |
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"Maybe if someone is a massive bellend. But I'd feel the same way about a woman too if she had no luck. I'd think good, you deserve it you wanker. But I can't think of a time where it has popped into my head so it's not a very common thought.
I had to Google the fancy word. "
Make sure you shoe horn the word in wherever you can. |
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"Did I miss a notification saying today was the day for men to moan and complain about FAB & the ladies.
I've been on FAB 8 weeks, been to 4 City / Town socials, spa twice, a few social coffees to see if there is a connection. I'm nothing great to look at but I'm genuinely interested in the scene and the whole social aspect.
Stop moaning and complaining and get out there and meet people with no expectations for sex and you'll find you get invited to more things and play then follows.
Is this along way of saying you don’t know what Schadenfreude means ?"
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"Yes 
Thank you 
I also close the doors on the lift when I see people rushing to make it.
When I get out the lift I fart and close the doors.  "
That’s a good one. I’ll have to remember that.
When it’s my turn to make coffees at work everyone gets caffeinated even if they want decaf. They will learn that I don’t like making the tea round. |
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"Did I miss a notification saying today was the day for men to moan and complain about FAB & the ladies.
I've been on FAB 8 weeks, been to 4 City / Town socials, spa twice, a few social coffees to see if there is a connection. I'm nothing great to look at but I'm genuinely interested in the scene and the whole social aspect.
Stop moaning and complaining and get out there and meet people with no expectations for sex and you'll find you get invited to more things and play then follows.
Is this along way of saying you don’t know what Schadenfreude means ?"
No, it's a simple way of saying life is what you make of it and if you think women get pleasure from watching men struggle on here you are obviously chatting to very different ladies than I am. |
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"Yes
Thank you
I also close the doors on the lift when I see people rushing to make it.
When I get out the lift I fart and close the doors.
That’s a good one. I’ll have to remember that.
When it’s my turn to make coffees at work everyone gets caffeinated even if they want decaf. They will learn that I don’t like making the tea round. "
This is sage advice.
When it’s my turn to make the coffees I simply get in my car and drive home and come back into work the next day hoping some other sucker made them. |
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"I only ask the question as an observation at viewing some women’s status updates, so I thought I’d open the question up to The Lounge. "
Try viewing the men's status updates instead. Otherwise your brain will become uneven and your head will be on a permanent wonk  |
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"Did I miss a notification saying today was the day for men to moan and complain about FAB & the ladies.
I've been on FAB 8 weeks, been to 4 City / Town socials, spa twice, a few social coffees to see if there is a connection. I'm nothing great to look at but I'm genuinely interested in the scene and the whole social aspect.
Stop moaning and complaining and get out there and meet people with no expectations for sex and you'll find you get invited to more things and play then follows.
Is this along way of saying you don’t know what Schadenfreude means ?
No, it's a simple way of saying life is what you make of it and if you think women get pleasure from watching men struggle on here you are obviously chatting to very different ladies than I am."
I think you’re getting confused, it’s a general question, more based in women having to answer to the patriarchy for years and finally being in the box seats for once, it has nothing to do with the women i chat to. |
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"I only ask the question as an observation at viewing some women’s status updates, so I thought I’d open the question up to The Lounge.
Try viewing the men's status updates instead. Otherwise your brain will become uneven and your head will be on a permanent wonk "
No thanks, I have to listen to their shite at work, |
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"I only ask the question as an observation at viewing some women’s status updates, so I thought I’d open the question up to The Lounge.
Try viewing the men's status updates instead. Otherwise your brain will become uneven and your head will be on a permanent wonk
No thanks, I have to listen to their shite at work, "
We thus cannot be held responsible for any kilter-outages in your brain *nods sagely* |
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From the view I have, very few women feel this way OP unless they feel there l they are being used, abused or treated like a lower class. Then they have every right as a human to let loose.
Often I see the same threads of ‘I’m not getting meets’ etc and more often than not, there are women genuinely trying to help the guys out.
On the whole I would say very few if any in the forum take pleasure from men’s misery |
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"is there a sense of Schadenfreude watching men struggle on here ? "
At times yes. Couples and females can be soo horrible at times,when it's uncalled for. But sometimes men don't help themselves. But I never paint all with the same brush |
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I think the problem is there a lot of men compared to the amount of women and couples on here and the men get very defensive when there told no or not for us but that’s how it is , we would love to find a unicorn who like us both but sadly we’re still looking |
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