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Is it still looks over personality?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Me and my mate discussing this I've always said it's All About Personality forget about the looks if someone has got a good personality and you get on with that person that's all that matters when I was younger it was all about they look good they look fit I want to bang them maybe that's where I went wrong in my younger years   |
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Surely it's got to be a mixture of both. I couldn't fuck someone I didn't find at least a bit attractive nowadays, but then again the guy I found most attractive I couldn't fuck as we had no spark. |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
There’s got to be an attraction for me to fancy someone and want to take anything further, a great personality is definitely helpful but if that’s all that’s there it would be a platonic thing. I like the full package x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks are important, yes I said it...
When you meet someone you have to have a certain something that lures the other person in.
Once initial observations have been made though you need character, personality and usually a soh to help build the connection.
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Either or arguments are useless in the context of what will make you want to engage with someone. Initial attraction is physical, followed up by an assessment of personality. If both are not there in sufficient quantity, there will be no spark. |
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"One doesn't work without the other but both are wholly subjective and sometimes undefinable."
Exactly this. Initially it has to be looks but there needs to be a personality too for any longevity or any chance of fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The attraction comes first before you get a chance to know the personality. But for me, I can only become attracted if they have the personality to match. A beautiful person can become ugly very quickly if they are a horrible person. |
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By *arty84Man
over a year ago
Orpington |
If it's just a one night thing then yeah looks are the way to go.
But for anything more than a one time thing, then yeah it's mostly personality for me.
There does need to be a bit of an attraction, but some of the best times for me personally where with someone I connected with on a mental level.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on what I am looking for and what they looking for in witch way the scales tip
If it’s just out and out one night bang then looks take presdint
If your looking for a fb or fwb then I let the looks slide a little in favour off some personality
If your looking for a full on realship then it’s even more in the personality than looks department
And if your looking for a realship and to share me with others then that’s way on the personality side |
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By *tue555Man
over a year ago
Passed Beyond Reach |
If is always looks first - nobody says Oh wow what a personality on that one. If you have a great personality or not it will be looks that make the first move - that is different for different people
It will always be looks that is a constant |
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Surely it depends on the situation… if it’s to satisfy a need for you both then physical attraction will be more important… if it’s going to be more long term then of course you need to be attracted to both elements |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’ll be 9 out of 10 times that a face pic or a smile that attracts me over a body pic… but once I’m chatting it’s personality and connection that decides if it’s taken any further. I’ve chatted to lots of people in life and on here and made some wonderful connections with a few ladies.
Some have been amazing partners and some are still. And some drift away to sail their own path but are true close friends.
By it’s always come from their personality that it became what it was  |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Like most who have posted, I need both. I wouldn't meet someone I wasn't attracted to, unless it was just for a cuppa and a chat,if we got on.
Equally, I wouldn't meet someone who was hot but dull. |
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"Me and my mate discussing this I've always said it's All About Personality forget about the looks if someone has got a good personality and you get on with that person that's all that matters when I was younger it was all about they look good they look fit I want to bang them maybe that's where I went wrong in my younger years "
Attraction can come in many ways for me, and others will know what I mean when I say 'that spark', but I can't just fuck someone simply because they're there, and available. No 'posh wanks' for me  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"Attraction comes in many forms. I am attracted to someones manner and confidence. They do not need to be super handsome but they need to have that certain something about them."
Perfectly put! |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Attraction comes in many forms. I am attracted to someones manner and confidence. They do not need to be super handsome but they need to have that certain something about them."
When scientists have found out what my 'certain something' is then I may be a happy man.   |
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