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Dick pics: public, friends only or not at all?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Should a male profile have a dick pic on it or is ok not to?
I currently don't as I like to keep some things to the imagination, but is it an expectation to have one on FAB? |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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As the self appointed Advocate-of-Anti-Cock-Pictures, I would like to state that cock pics are fine if they make the cockowner happy as part of his exhibitionism. Not being sarcastic here btw.
As such one or two in public view... by all means but let those be not the only ones as it might suggest there is nothing more to the person than a cock.
As for sending one, I am probably the odd one out but I really really do not want one in the first-to 10th message. And I would never ever ask for one.
Sex, good sex is about so much more than a visual representation of genitalia- for me - others may disagree.  |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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"As the self appointed Advocate-of-Anti-Cock-Pictures, I would like to state that cock pics are fine if they make the cockowner happy as part of his exhibitionism. Not being sarcastic here btw.
As such one or two in public view... by all means but let those be not the only ones as it might suggest there is nothing more to the person than a cock.
As for sending one, I am probably the odd one out but I really really do not want one in the first-to 10th message. And I would never ever ask for one.
Sex, good sex is about so much more than a visual representation of genitalia- for me - others may disagree. "
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"I have only one and that's in my friends only folder.
Cheeky glance at profile... you do not need one - your pictures are great!
Seconding again ... "
We could always.... share...
Now I feel bad for saying that and objectifying such a great guy! Shame on me!
Is there a shame emoji? |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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"I have only one and that's in my friends only folder.
Cheeky glance at profile... you do not need one - your pictures are great!
Seconding again ...
We could always.... share...
Now I feel bad for saying that and objectifying such a great guy! Shame on me!
Is there a shame emoji? "
Careful the FMF mob will pick up on the sharing suggestion (whilst completely overlooking the objectification element!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unless it's part of a forum thread ...
Generally keep dick pics as friends at most. As friends are ppl Im chatting to and may meet, then feels okay to shiw what's on offer ...
But most ppl don't need to see it. And if they want to, they can ask. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I can't stand pics of cock, vagina or bumholes. Especially bumholes to be fair. 
But each to their own, everything is subjective. I agree with you OP leave a little to the imagination. Not everyone agrees. If they wanna wave it all about so be it. |
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As they're so standard here, it's fine to have one and it may just be the difference between your profile or another 1 getting the interest returned.
Many dislike the ultra close up and there are ways of retaining some allure, without baring all. Checking some of the forum guys, to spark your imagination is a good step.
People are going to be with your body, so helping them to build a picture of how it will be, in their minds eye, isn't a bad thing.
With several pics in a profile, people will click on those of interest and avoid those which they don't want to see. |
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I have mine out because nothing says “ere love fancy a go” better.
At the end of the day, it is a little “aggressive” I suppose but as long as you are not sending unsolicited dick pics I think it’s all okay. When someone deigns to look at your profile, that’s on them, if they don’t like it, then really it’s a case of “buyer beware” isn’t it? I mean it would be a little naive to think that when opening up the gallery of a man on a swinging website that you wouldn’t have the potential to see his waffle worrier. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I have mine out because nothing says “ere love fancy a go” better.
At the end of the day, it is a little “aggressive” I suppose but as long as you are not sending unsolicited dick pics I think it’s all okay. When someone deigns to look at your profile, that’s on them, if they don’t like it, then really it’s a case of “buyer beware” isn’t it? I mean it would be a little naive to think that when opening up the gallery of a man on a swinging website that you wouldn’t have the potential to see his waffle worrier. "
I just learnt a new term
Tbh I don't find cock pictures aggressive in nature - now more than I would find pussy shots vulnerable.
I just find even the best looking cock as a cockshot is not that great to look at. Maybe it is just me.
A guy's full body shot, however, even with an erect/ flaccid cock is a million times more attractive. |
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