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over a year ago
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I've noticed this strange behaviour recently. Only noticed in women sorry just observation. At college one women who I was good friends with bitching and getting pissy at one of the others. Pretty normal so far but they are always hanging out together sleepovers and such. The guy who was her friends and helped her out never even gets a message. Is this normal? Have I never seen it because never been around large groups of women? again sorry. Whatever it is its very strange and self destructive lol |
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"I've noticed this strange behaviour recently. Only noticed in women sorry just observation. At college one women who I was good friends with bitching and getting pissy at one of the others. Pretty normal so far but they are always hanging out together sleepovers and such. The guy who was her friends and helped her out never even gets a message. Is this normal? Have I never seen it because never been around large groups of women? again sorry. Whatever it is its very strange and self destructive lol "
This guy 'helped' her out , so now she owes him ...... ???
She should be nicer to him cos he was 'good' to her ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've noticed this strange behaviour recently. Only noticed in women sorry just observation. At college one women who I was good friends with bitching and getting pissy at one of the others. Pretty normal so far but they are always hanging out together sleepovers and such. The guy who was her friends and helped her out never even gets a message. Is this normal? Have I never seen it because never been around large groups of women? again sorry. Whatever it is its very strange and self destructive lol
This guy 'helped' her out , so now she owes him ...... ???
She should be nicer to him cos he was 'good' to her ?"
No I mean checking in a hi not all the time just once in a while. I'm obviously being nieve in thinking we was friends. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"So are you the guy???
Yes I'm a guy. I was asking a question about the Behaviour not my own feelings just about the behaviour. Hence the title "
Strange behaviour can be male or female
Why not fone your friend ask her |
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"I have been a listening ear for friends in the past who have subsequently not bothered with me. Some people are like that"
Thank you I haven't really noticed the bitching part before that's why it was strange behaviour to me. the dropping you part yea I've experienced that. |
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"I have been a listening ear for friends in the past who have subsequently not bothered with me. Some people are like that
Thank you I haven't really noticed the bitching part before that's why it was strange behaviour to me. the dropping you part yea I've experienced that. "
I once spent hours of my time (willingly I might add) with a friend whose marriage was in trouble. She dropped me like a hot potato as soon as things resolved. Meh! It happens.
I don't have time for bitching it's tiring, boring and immature it's not gender specific either. |
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"So are you the guy???
Yes I'm a guy. I was asking a question about the Behaviour not my own feelings just about the behaviour. Hence the title
Strange behaviour can be male or female
Why not fone your friend ask her"
I know it's not gender specific definitely not men do some odd shit to lol. I did ask the question and apologise because I don't want to assign gender bias or bias of any kind and I do apologise if it did seem that way. |
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"I have been a listening ear for friends in the past who have subsequently not bothered with me. Some people are like that
Thank you I haven't really noticed the bitching part before that's why it was strange behaviour to me. the dropping you part yea I've experienced that.
I once spent hours of my time (willingly I might add) with a friend whose marriage was in trouble. She dropped me like a hot potato as soon as things resolved. Meh! It happens.
I don't have time for bitching it's tiring, boring and immature it's not gender specific either. "
I didn't think it was maybe because my last group of friends all got along really well and just generally had no complaints. But the group now don't so maybe that why I'm now seeing this behaviour. I've just been fortunate lol. |
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"I have been a listening ear for friends in the past who have subsequently not bothered with me. Some people are like that
Thank you I haven't really noticed the bitching part before that's why it was strange behaviour to me. the dropping you part yea I've experienced that.
I once spent hours of my time (willingly I might add) with a friend whose marriage was in trouble. She dropped me like a hot potato as soon as things resolved. Meh! It happens.
I don't have time for bitching it's tiring, boring and immature it's not gender specific either.
I didn't think it was maybe because my last group of friends all got along really well and just generally had no complaints. But the group now don't so maybe that why I'm now seeing this behaviour. I've just been fortunate lol. "
Possibly. I've worked in offices where grown men and women got seriously upset because someone used a teabag before they'd put money in the tea fund.  . The bitching that went on was laughable. When I said it would be a sad day if I couldn't give a colleague a cup of tea without making them pay for it they all looked at me as if I was the strange one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have been a listening ear for friends in the past who have subsequently not bothered with me. Some people are like that
Thank you I haven't really noticed the bitching part before that's why it was strange behaviour to me. the dropping you part yea I've experienced that.
I once spent hours of my time (willingly I might add) with a friend whose marriage was in trouble. She dropped me like a hot potato as soon as things resolved. Meh! It happens.
I don't have time for bitching it's tiring, boring and immature it's not gender specific either.
I didn't think it was maybe because my last group of friends all got along really well and just generally had no complaints. But the group now don't so maybe that why I'm now seeing this behaviour. I've just been fortunate lol.
Possibly. I've worked in offices where grown men and women got seriously upset because someone used a teabag before they'd put money in the tea fund. . The bitching that went on was laughable. When I said it would be a sad day if I couldn't give a colleague a cup of tea without making them pay for it they all looked at me as if I was the strange one. "
They would definitely look at me like that then where all entitled to drink what's the harm. After hearing that I'm glad I never worked in an office lol |
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"I have been a listening ear for friends in the past who have subsequently not bothered with me. Some people are like that
Thank you I haven't really noticed the bitching part before that's why it was strange behaviour to me. the dropping you part yea I've experienced that.
I once spent hours of my time (willingly I might add) with a friend whose marriage was in trouble. She dropped me like a hot potato as soon as things resolved. Meh! It happens.
I don't have time for bitching it's tiring, boring and immature it's not gender specific either.
I didn't think it was maybe because my last group of friends all got along really well and just generally had no complaints. But the group now don't so maybe that why I'm now seeing this behaviour. I've just been fortunate lol.
Possibly. I've worked in offices where grown men and women got seriously upset because someone used a teabag before they'd put money in the tea fund. . The bitching that went on was laughable. When I said it would be a sad day if I couldn't give a colleague a cup of tea without making them pay for it they all looked at me as if I was the strange one.
They would definitely look at me like that then where all entitled to drink what's the harm. After hearing that I'm glad I never worked in an office lol "
You don't want to know about the great inquisition into "who moved the sandwiches in the fridge?".
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sometimes when people really like each other, they end up spending too much time together and getting on each others nerves. You see it with couples too and I've seen it with male friendships. "
Seems I've been lucky this far to only experience this once. I must admit I tend to stear clear of bitchiness so maybe I've noticed it around me just not registered because I didn't join in lol. Off in my own world that definitely sounds about right haha |
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