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When you don’t meet someone’s age range !!
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Do you get frustrated when you come across someone or a couple you really like the look or sound of but just miss out on their age range and can’t message them ? I know they are there fir something new preferences but sometimes you’re a year out ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sucks when you're a year out. And worse still I'll be a year older in a few months. And the trouble is no-one ever guesses I'm the age I am, and if I had enough vanity to dye my hair I'd look even younger. No wonder some people lie about their age. I just can't be bothered keeping any lies up  |
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"Do you get frustrated when you come across someone or a couple you really like the look or sound of but just miss out on their age range and can’t message them ? I know they are there fir something new preferences but sometimes you’re a year out ! "
Hahhahahah yeah I hate this when it happens so frustrating |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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But if someone sees you've looked (maybe repeatedly), or Fab'd their pics, and then they think it might actually be a match ... they will reach out ...which in fact saves a whole heap of wasted messages and time.
Trust me   |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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But if someone sees you've looked (maybe repeatedly), or Fab'd their pics, and then they think it might actually be a match ... they will reach out ...which in fact saves a whole heap of wasted messages and time.
Trust me
I guess that could happen , I just tried messaging you but your age range is set at 98-99 so it’s quite limited lol "
Exactly that... so I can reach out if it's a match with what I want  |
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But if someone sees you've looked (maybe repeatedly), or Fab'd their pics, and then they think it might actually be a match ... they will reach out ...which in fact saves a whole heap of wasted messages and time.
Trust me
I guess that could happen , I just tried messaging you but your age range is set at 98-99 so it’s quite limited lol
Exactly that... so I can reach out if it's a match with what I want "
Not a bad plan but think it probably works out better for women than it does for men |
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"I love older ladies, but unfortunately not many like young guys who are heavily tattooed  "
I love older ladies as well , I find a lot either like them really young or more their own age so being late 40’s I end up missing out a lot lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love older ladies, but unfortunately not many like young guys who are heavily tattooed
I love older ladies as well , I find a lot either like them really young or more their own age so being late 40’s I end up missing out a lot lol"
It sucks mate lol |
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No it doesn't bother me in the slightest. My filters are set for a good reason, namely not having any interest in anyone below them.
I don't send first contact messages or browse profiles anyway so I'm not missing out but if I see a new profile comment in the forums I may look out of curiosity and if they fall below my age filters I don't even bother reading their bio or looking at pics as we aren't compatible. |
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But if someone sees you've looked (maybe repeatedly), or Fab'd their pics, and then they think it might actually be a match ... they will reach out ...which in fact saves a whole heap of wasted messages and time.
Trust me
I guess that could happen , I just tried messaging you but your age range is set at 98-99 so it’s quite limited lol
Exactly that... so I can reach out if it's a match with what I want "
The downside is you can't even wink at someone who has age restriction set higher  |
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"Do you get frustrated when you come across someone or a couple you really like the look or sound of but just miss out on their age range and can’t message them ? I know they are there fir something new preferences but sometimes you’re a year out ! "
Thats life I'm afraid. Just have to accept it.
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"Do you get frustrated when you come across someone or a couple you really like the look or sound of but just miss out on their age range and can’t message them ? I know they are there fir something new preferences but sometimes you’re a year out ! "
often, sadly, age isn't a good judge of somebodys character and skills etc, one 60 year old may be very old, while anther 60 year old may be a very young 60 year old... but I can understand why some like to draw a line. |
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"Do you get frustrated when you come across someone or a couple you really like the look or sound of but just miss out on their age range and can’t message them ? I know they are there fir something new preferences but sometimes you’re a year out ! "
yes it’s definitely a bugger
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By (user no longer on site)
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It can be frustrating, but just got to roll with it. Perhaps looking at them , fabbing their pics, chatting with them in the forums - they may reach out |
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"Do you get frustrated when you come across someone or a couple you really like the look or sound of but just miss out on their age range and can’t message them ? I know they are there fir something new preferences but sometimes you’re a year out ! "
Sometimes it’s only a guide & not set in stone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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But if someone sees you've looked (maybe repeatedly), or Fab'd their pics, and then they think it might actually be a match ... they will reach out ...which in fact saves a whole heap of wasted messages and time.
Trust me "
So how many times does one need to view your profile , and fab your pics , for you to reach out ?
Asking for a friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have an age range on here for a reason. I also have a very specific type I'm looking for and every other message I get starts with "I know I'm not what you're looking for but..."
It might be frustrating but that's what the person wants. I get cute guys popping up on my updates that are looking for younger. I accept that and move on.
If I'm going to a club or event then I might put it on my status. I don't have any limits on age when I'm at a club. |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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But if someone sees you've looked (maybe repeatedly), or Fab'd their pics, and then they think it might actually be a match ... they will reach out ...which in fact saves a whole heap of wasted messages and time.
Trust me
So how many times does one need to view your profile , and fab your pics , for you to reach out ?
Asking for a friend "
Well if your friend was a match then Fab'd pics and repeated views over a few days would serve as a strong 'hint'  |
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
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It does suck when you badly want to contact someone and you don't fully match for age range or whatever, I'm out of a lot of people's age range but have had two meets off the back of dabbing some photos and them messaging after looking at my profile so I suppose the ball falls in their court if they like you, so there is still hope if they look to see who has fabbed their photos. |
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